Tag: Breathing

I feel like I’ve had the perfect session

This afternoon I had possibly my most perfect session and I feel so lucky I just want to share it with you all.

It essentially started off in the morning when I woke up extremely horny. I did some deep breathing and kegels, let my self get even more aroused and then got up, had a really nice relaxing morning. By the afternoon my body was craving an aneros, I was really very aroused and had that tickly feeling coming from deep inside me.

Laid on my bed and did some deep breathing to calm my mind as it was a little frantic with how horny I was. I pre-lubed when I’d silenced my mind some more and then began to tease myself slowly. Nipples, thighs, hole. All got a good teasing until I was REALLY ready.

Even coating the Maximus in lube was enough to turn me on even more and inserting it was soo satisfying. Immediately had leg shaking and tingles around my hole as it settled in to place. More deep breathing. The tingles soon turned to pleasure and my anal canal was overcome by a warm and gentle pleasure as my thighs shook. Read more »

Dry O success!! And other non-related questions

A couple nights ago I had laid myself down with my progasm like I normally do, I’d showered and douched about half an hour beforehand.

My session went off to a great start when I had my aneros slip right in first go, I’ve started using coconut oil which has been surprisingly easier to clean up as opposed to my regular water-based lube.

My session was pretty uneventful for the first hour or so as I normally scroll through porn and get myself in the mood during this time, then I started to feel some light tingles and twitches around my prostate, so I decided to put my phone down. After about an hour of this the pleasure I was able to wring out of this aneros had me cursing non stop.

I had to remind myself to keep my breathing controlled cause normally at this point I’d either start touching my nipples and get distracted, or I’d have a dry o and end things there. But for some reason this first Dry O that had been building for what felt like the last 10-15 minutes surpassed any other Dry O I’d had up until that point.
I focused on my prostate and my breathing and after another few minutes of this a gentle yet heavy wave of pleasure crashed on top of my whole body and I felt so relaxed, the best part about it was the fact that it didn’t stop after a few minutes, it just kept going and going and going. Read more »

Need Help

So I’ve been using my aneros for about a year now. Wasn’t really effective for a bit, but I stick with it.

Here lately I’ve been getting better results. It’s a lot more pleasurable, and I think I’m getting p waves. I’m not sure about the involuntaries. I’m actually super happy because now I get pleasure when not using my aneros.

For example: This morning I was gaming and I get a pleasant feeling. I don’t do anything but keep breathing at a steady pace. The feeling grows and becomes a fullness in my balls. It then rises up and the pleasure spreads across my body. Then it fades away.

This happens everytime. Pleasure builds, spreads, and then fade away. I try not to chase it, I try not to change what I’m doing that brought it on. What am I doing wrong? Is there something I should do when the feelings spread?

Even right now I feel that tingle again…

no motivation, 3 years of trying.

I just can’t do it. I am so close to giving up all together. 3 years of nothing. Made a few waves every now and again but they are not consistent. I’ve never even had involuntaries. I’ve been consistently playing at least a few times a month for the last 3 years and it’s just so disheartening not being able to do something i’ve put this many hours into.

I’ve tried it all, read probably over 1000 posts and guides on it but I just can’t do it.

I’m not sure what it will take but I just don’t know what to do, I have experimented with so many toys and positions, breathing techniques and meditation. They have just not worked for me.

Small Victories, or Wishful Thinking?

Hello guys, I (23M) decided to get myself a Helix Syn as a graduation present. I got it in the mail yesterday. I’ve been reading about prostate orgasms and Aneros toys for several years, and I am so excited to be starting this journey!

When I got the package, I cleaned myself up, lubed up internally with some coconut oil, and popped the Aneros in. It felt great and I kept it in for several hours while I studied for finals and did some other chores. Before I went to bed, I relubed and spent some time really focusing on the feeling of it in my hole. I was listening to a nice relaxing song on repeat, and lightly contracting my PC muscles (Base flex, for you Mindgasm nerds). I kept it contracted at maybe 40% while focusing on my breathing. After maybe 30 or 45 seconds, I could feel the muscles twitching and felt kind of warm and a little dizzy all over. I held it for as long as I could before having to relax the contraction. I was able to do that one or two more times, but at that point I think I started trying too hard and couldn’t make it happen again.

So, my question is, are those “twitching” muscle feelings what you guys call “involuntaries”? And was that kind of warm/dizzy sensation a P-wave? Or am I just too hopeful for early success and misinterpreting fairly benign sensations as something more? Read more »

Hi, new here! Just purchased my first aneros. I need some advice.

So I’ve been using it the last couple days and I’m not new to prostate play I put it in, I lay down in bed and do deep breathing exercises while listening to relaxing music and looking at visual stimulation or having erotic thoughts and start feeling waves of full body pleasure and eventually and I’m get the prostate spasms and it feel absolutely spectacula, but can’t quit reach orgasm???

Will come in time or after more experience?

Do I need to be doing something different?

Using a bath to practice full muscle relaxation

I made a comment recently about something I began doing in the last two to three months that I got a lot of messages about, and I promised I’d write a standalone post.

That is, using the Aneros in the bath.

Long post ahead!

I’ve been practicing Aneros use for a few years now, and figuring it all out. Mid-2022 I began noticing that I wasn’t actually fully relaxing, even though I would practice the “Do nothing” approach, I wasn’t actually doing nothing. Even while relaxed I would be subconsciously holding a very light contraction the whole time. Once the pleasure would begin, I would totally take over again and be clenching an tensing to try to force the pleasure to grow, only tiring myself out.

A huge leap forward for me was when I began to just try to breath through everything, deep breaths into my belly, so that my stomach rises up. Even actively pushing my belly muscles up. This would free up the important muscles below to do their own thing and huge pleasure would grow. However, when it gets intense, I would still take over and do contractions and end up chasing the pleasure away.

The practice of Aneros for me at the moment is to have discipline and actively try to relax any muscle contractions, no matter how good everything feels. To keep breathing deeply through everything and constantly letting everything be fully relaxed. If a muscle tenses, I try to release it as much as possible. This makes everything insanely intense as it is. So pushing that further and further is my gameplan. Read more »

First HFWO..Wow

I’ve been experimenting with different aneros toys for about 7 months. I always have some solid results usually, but like most I had been “peaking” and not been able to produce much other than some good feelings.

I have tried different versions, owning the programs jr, eupho, MGX, and Maximus. Recently I had been rotating between the Maximus and programs jr with ok results.

Until yesterday when I decided to use the eupho for the first time in a few months…

I started my session as I always do. Took an edible, cleaned up, and then waited about an hour to let the edible kick in.

Lubed up, inserted my eupho, and for whatever reason something felt different. I still am not sure why.

I layed on my bed on my back with a small pillow under my lower back, with another larger pillow supporting my legs up in the air.

I focused on breathing slowly. Counting in 6 seconds, exhaling 6 seconds. I tried to relax fully and tried to not contract any muscles down there.

Within 15 minutes I was feeling an extreme “fullness” and “pressure” around my prostate. This has happened before, but usually it flies away. This was constant. I tried to focus on it. I know many are against using porn, but I decided to turn on some while this was happening. Read more »

Asleep during first HFO…

So I’ve been using Helix/Progasm a while without much joy other than occasional increases in heart rate. I read something yesterday about using the helix ‘inverted’ so I thought I’d try it! Well bugger me after trying to relax for an hour or so as I drifted off I had my first full HFO. The only other results I’ve had previously were also as I was drifting off. Clearly some part of my conscious is either blocking progress or I’m not relaxed enough. Any recommendations for relaxing? Tried breathing & meditation etc. Illegal drugs inc week are not an option for me… TIA.

Few questions to repeat orgasm and know how muscle works

Hi,
I have a lot of questions about muscles.
I have been at this for a year with one huge SuperO success about 2-3 months ago with Mindgasm and aneros helix.
That day was without high expectations, with consistent breathing, with perfect tensing without tensing the whole body. I thought after that one time I was already a master and would remember how it happened.
It turns out that I bring new lessons every day, but I don’t know what I bring correct and what I don’t.

I have a problem with
1. distinguishing the PC muscle
2. the style of squeezing them
3. what is a squeeze with a power of 10, and what is an exaggeration?

1 – when squeezing the PC muscle, I should feel the squeezing of the penis and the sensation of “boiling sperm in it?”
2. i can squeeze the muscle as if on a rope with bending the body and zonally without bending the body, which way is correct?
3. don’t know if if if I squeeze at 10 I am not going off the scale, because I start to squeeze other parts of my body like buttocks and abdomen

I have the impression that in the toilet I can stop peeing in two ways, one is to feel it at the anus and avoid clenching the penis, and the other is to withhold urine with the penis itself. Read more »