Tag: Dry Orgasm

“Male Chastity: Relaxed”

Introduction
I decided to have a ‘quick’ session with the Helix Trident. I had not ridden it in a while. I am only in Day 3 of SR so my expectations were not too high. As soon as I started, I began to feel the nice P-waves and an almost immediate erection. I was wearing my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the XO ProCup (instead of the Cage Cup). I did not feel any Dry-Os this time around but that was okay. I still expelled some prostate fluid (not precum because it was not slippery and sticky). The Helix Trident (due to the combination of P-tab and K-tab) allows for a nice, easy and quick “in-out” motion caused by the two tabs. It doesn’t take too much anal or PC contractions (kegels) to get the flow going.

An “Experiment” In Male Chastity
I don’t know what prompted this but as soon as this session was over, I decided to replace the “chastity cup” (which I wore during the session) with a traditional jockstrap (athletic supporter) for the rest of the night and see what develops. I didn’t want to ejaculate so in my mind, this substitution was okay. I couldn’t predict the outcome. I selected a Bike swim/run jock (which is not too restrictive and has a nice soft knit pouch), put it on under my PJs and went back to bed.
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An hour or two later, I awoke with a NPT (night-time erection) that belied my Day 3 SR condition. I could not believe the stimulation now acting on my penis and especially the frenulum. Saying that I felt close to the PONR was a gross understatement. What I felt was a combination of a near-wet dream feeling and literally being in a (female) penetrative state of sex. Literally! In other words, f*****g awesome! No exaggeration here; I was completely paralyzed in the feeling of sexual intercourse and felt that with only a few more “strokes” I would be ejaculating! But it’s only Day 3! So much for this “altered” male chastity state! Read more »

“Eupho Orgasmic Delights only at SR Day 2!”

Background
I am wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and am only at a new Day 2 of SR. No need for a session, right? Should I or shouldn’t I? Well, the time seemed right. I do remember at least 2 NPTs (night erections) within the cup. I hadn’t ridden the Eupho in a while and so I thought, what could be the best that could happen? Maybe some P-waves and nothing more. Well! I got much more than I bargained for. Let me explain…..

Session
After reading @Harper’s recent blog, I would concur that the Eupho just was “swallowed” up rather quickly; it seemed to know exactly where it was going and what it was going to do. And almost right from the start, I began to develop an erection. This was strange; usually it takes a while for me to get one during a session. But the Eupho seemed to hit the right spot and the erections developed quickly. OMG! The Eupho is acting like it wants me to ejaculate! It is edging me ever-onward. It didn’t seem to care that I was only in SR Day 2 and really had no desire or intention to ejaculate. But that didn’t matter to the Eupho. Read more »

“A Great Session—–Except It’s Only SR Day #3! “

Background
I went to bed not wearing a “chastity cup”. I awoke about 1:30 AM and once-again, discovered myself fondling my male package. Since I wanted to remain in chastity and since I am only in Day 3 of SR, I put-on my Mueller cup and went back to bed.

About 2 hours later, I awoke and felt a nice erection building up within the cup. It got stronger and I discovered that if I “squeeze” and move around in the cup just a little bit, it feels like I am near the PONR! So I kept this up for perhaps 20 minutes or so. I felt so close to an ejaculation, but experience demonstrated that I would not ejaculate from this stimulation.

When I started getting flaccid again, I decided that an Aneros session would be in order. So I lubed-up the Helix Trident with SSG and before long, I am feeling the nice p-waves and more.

Session
I find that most of my sessions lately, including this one, seem to hit my prostate’s “sweet spot”. This one was no exception. It felt like a nice “tickle” on my prostate—the Helix is designed to engage the prostate more fully—and I just tried to cope as best as I was able. I changed positions on the bed, on my right side then my left, with a knee up then down. And all the while, I still felt that nice “tickle” on my prostate. Not really any auto-contractions this session nor powerful Dry-Os either. But just the sweetest, nicest “stroking” of my receptive prostate. It was very happy! Read more »

Something I Learned Recently for Sessions

Early morning session with the HIH 950. Not especially aroused but wanted a session anyway. Started it and was getting some nice p-waves. Now, something I have not ‘felt’ before in a session—–what if this session were not constrained by time? What if it could go on for an hour, two hours, three hours or more? That is the mindset that I developed in this session, and I believe it made for a better session. Not because I was getting some Dry-Os (I did not) or even some auto-contractions (I didn’t get these either). But the feeling of “timelessness” for this session really helped me to relax and decrease my session expectations to zero! And when I did that, I did start to feel a very slight “quivering” feeling in my prostate. I just felt like a casual “observer” in this session—–not an active participant! Maybe that is the way I should approach all my sessions!

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I may have found my prostate “sweet spot” : Aneros session for Monday April 23

Hi guys,

I have had several very pleasurable Aneros sessions recently. They were sessions for Friday and Saturday morning over the weekend. For these sessions I used Eupho Classic, Helix Classic, Maximus, and Progasm Classic. In a way, these sessions were heavy duty but they did produce tremendous pleasure.

Yesterday morning Sunday I arose earlier than usual around 4 a.m., hopped on the Net for a while, but finally showered, shaved, and dressed leaving my apartment just after 6. My session Saturday morning left my anal canal well exercised and a little sore.

Then church activities demanded my full attention from morning to mid afternoon when I arrived home generally exhausted. Then I laid down for a short rest. However my prostate swung into a high gear with an overactive, luminous Aless. I got up from my short nap refreshed and dressed in my boxer briefs-jockstrap-Nutty Buddy Mongo Cup combo underneath Cargo shorts and T-shorts. All this happened at five o’clock in the evening. Then from that hour until I went to bed at 10:30 last night I Kegeled in this combo off and on. It felt so good! Read more »

“Some Sure-Fire Ways To Boost Arousal”

Background
A lot of guys here on Aneros complain about lack of arousal and consequently, poor sessions. I have been in that camp as well. I tried something different last night. Before retiring to bed, instead of putting-on a “chastity cup” I decided to put-on a regular jockstrap. So I put-on my new Duke swimmer’s jock along with a silky pair of boxers. The Duke jockstrap has a somewhat rough pouch (I don’t wear it anymore in the pool because of some irritation it causes) and it provides good stimulation of an erect penis within. It also has a longer pouch than others and supports my package very well.

I slept for about 8 hours with this combo and I remember dreaming quite vividly (but not erotically). The rough jock pouch provided more intense stimulation than a hard cup. I awoke with a nice erection and decided then to take-off the “regular” pouch and replace it with a hard cup. I selected the Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup which now feels very comforting and secure.

Aftermath
Yes, I was very aroused and “ready” for a session this morning. I could easily have had one while wearing the hard cup and I knew which model I would use (Helix Trident). But I said “NO!” to myself! Why? I began to think about it and I believe I know the answer. Much the same way as when you are very horny and aroused with an aching erection, what do you want to do? Have sex? Masturbate and ejaculate? Edge? You can stimulate your cock, of course, and eventually ejaculate. But you can say NO! and withhold that pleasure for a while longer. I do that all the time now while in chastity. Read more »

“Prostate Edging and A Male Fertility Clinic…”

This unusual fantasy was quite spontaneous and pleasurable. Here are the details….

Background
I slept in my SafeTGard “chastity cup” with the Cage Cup overnight. I am in Day 5 of SR and awoke about 4 AM with a hard cock and “edging” close to the PONR as I have done before while wearing this particular cup (it is smaller than the other cups and my erect cock gets some additional stimulation with gentle movement—a nice feeling! I feel like I am going to ejaculate but don’t). I am due for a prostate stim session and decided rather quickly on the Helix Trident; why this model I didn’t know at the time but now it became very clear that this massager would be ideal for this session.

I lubed-up and began. Almost immediately, I began to get what I would call “rapid-fire” auto-contractions. I could not stop them nor control them. (Thanks to the HT for this movement). And from the start, I began to lightly moan. This moaning actually continued for most of this session. Read more »

Is Your Arousal “Switch” On or Off?

I was thinking about this this morning. I am currently in Day 4 of SR and wore my XO “chastity cup” to bed. I awoke about 2:30 AM with a hard, throbbing erection that I could feel right down to my prostate. I lay in bed, motionless for about 15 minutes or so. I honestly felt like I was on my way to an ejaculation! I had a “peeing” feeling down in my cock; feeling suspended in time close to the PONR. And all of these sensations got me thinking….

Male arousal is like a switch: it is either “on” or “off”. There is no middle-ground, no “gray area”. Why is that? Well, I think the answer is pretty obvious. Male arousal is designed for one purpose: ejaculation! That’s right, why else would the arousal occur?

As a refresher, the stages of sexual arousal in males are: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Ejaculation, Resolution
[Note that Orgasm and Ejaculation generally are not the same thing].

I believe I awoke in the “Plateau” stage and was close to the “Orgasm” stage since I felt like I was only a stroke or two away from ejaculating. But I did not ejaculate; I believe my wearing of a “chastity cup” prevented unnecessary stimulation of my penis and thus an ejaculation. After a time of strong arousal in bed, I began to “climb-down” the arousal mountain and my erection within the cup began to subside.

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I Was Contemplating An Aneros Session…..Then Realized I Already Was Having An (Aless) Session!

I am still alone in the house. Up at about 4 AM and relaxing and chilling. I was contemplating an Aneros session. I did have to ejaculate yesterday at Day 11 of SR. I was getting the dreaded “blue-balls” feeling again and didn’t want it to escalate into full-blown agony.

Anyway, back to the “session”, I went to lie-down and noticed a slight feeling coming from my prostate. I started doing some very light PC kegels (in and out, but mostly in) and began to get a “clamping” feeling when I did and “held” the “in” kegel. The pace of the kegels seemed to increase automatically and I convulsed on the bed several times, like I do when having a good Aneros session. OMG! I believe I was experiencing some Dry-Os and/or Mini-Os! The amazing thing about this is that I was doing just very SLIGHT kegels and no hard anal contractions at all! If only slight PC contractions are necessary for these sensations, then I could do these very often! I don’t have to wait for a “chairgasm”! I should be able to perform these delicate but stimulating “Aless” sessions in bed sans a massager! I must continue to practice!

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“Who’s Afraid Of Helix Trident? —- Not Me!”

Background
I am alone in the house this weekend and enjoy being a “bachelor” for a few days! One of the pleasures of being alone is an Aneros session where I can just be myself! That happened this morning (Sunday). Here are the details…..

I am in Day 11 of SR, wearing my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup” overnight. I didn’t get too much sleep—I am close to another wet dream (the last one came at Day 12) and I had an extended erection this morning. Let me back up just a little. I was in bed relaxing only in my PJs last night when I began to fondle and caress my package to the point of inducing an erection. I seem to do this automatically when I’m not in a “chastity cup” at night. Well, that is always risky since it can lead to an unexpected ejaculation. So at that point I decided to put-on a “chastity cup” and once I had the SD “on”, that was the end of that!

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Fast-forward to this morning (about 4 AM) when I had the urge to listen to some relaxing but stimulating tracks. I found one for wet dream induction and began to listen (at the lowest volume). I went about 30 minutes; all the while I felt a nice “pulse” in my groin (probably my prostate) with every soft tone! After 30 minutes, I felt “ready” for a session, so I went to the bed and knew I wanted the Helix Trident (with Boy Butter lube). I got ready and started the session…. Read more »