Tag: Dry Orgasm

There are no shortcuts – patience is a virtue..and worth it!

I am at the point where essentially every time I use my toy – helix syn trident – I have multiple hands free dry orgasms, followed by a hands free wet orgasm. I have 2.5 years of experience and this is the only toy I’ve needed.

Without patience you won’t see results. You have to put on the work! That’s the bad news. The good news is that if you do, you will open a world of orgasmic bliss that is truly hard to fathom.

I am able to achieve hands free dry orgasms without a toy. So far, I’m only able to achieve hands free wet orgasms with a toy. Im not sure I’ll ever get there without a toy, but that’s my next goal!

Recently, I’ve been able to consistently orgasm almost as soon as I slip in my aneros. The dry orgasms continue for about an hour. This morning, I counted 24 dry orgasms followed by a hands free dry orgasm. I did attempt a video of the hands free wet orgasm and I’ll try to post that for anyone interested.

I think about the process frequently, I concentrate and focus. It’s almost meditative. The process has been deliberate. I’ve learned a lot about my body – wonderful things! Nothing has been quick or easy. But it’s all been worth it. I hope you will learn the same for yourself!

First time having multiple Super O’s – arousal is important!

I had my first Super-O about a month ago now and I’ve been able to achieve a Super O once in every two to three or more sessions I’d say. This week I’ve had a lot of free time and have been having 3-4 hour sessions every single day and it’s been amazing. So many different orgasms and feelings! I’ve been experimenting with different ways of preparing and changing things up in my sessions just to see how it is. Last nights was the best by a long way.

It’s been 10 days since I ejaculated and I can easily arouse myself to a fairly intense level. I often just dive straight in to my sessions but really took my time last night. Gave myself 90 mins to prep my body, which included pre-lubing, relaxing and reading a book until my mind was too distracted 🙂 then another 30-40 minutes of arousing and teasing myself. I touched my body, did PC/kegel exercises, teased myself with my progasm and it was great. It’s rare for me to pre-cum but I was lovely and wet and it was at that point I just *had* to start.

Laid on the floor with my legs on the bed, sort of like a Z shape. Inserted my Progasm and just relaxed… really savoured everything. The way it felt inside me, how good it felt to finally have what I was craving. Involuntaries started quickly, and then p-waves, and then my first prostate orgasm. I’d say this was within the first 15 mins. An hour or so went by that was filled with intense p-waves, a few prostate orgasms and a dry orgasm. Read more »

Making some progress but would like to know if anyone can offer advice on how to go further

I’ve been a prostate play fan for about 2 years now and my collection has grown from a single Aneros to 3 Aneros toys, dildos, vibrating prostate massagers and the famous Njoy Pure Wand. However, my question really relates to Aneros massagers as I feel these have the most potential for me to achieve hands free orgasms.

I struggled for AGES to get involuntary contractions but I recently started to get them by focusing more on slowly tightening the sphincter muscle, holding the contraction for 30 seconds and then slowly relaxing. This now creates a lot of quivering which continues even when I fully relax – I consider this to be involuntary contractions. Sometimes this quivering causes what I think are “p-waves”. For me, this is when the scrotum moves (if you know, you know) and my penis gets hard very quickly and my perineum generates a lot of pleasure. This is the best way I can describe it and I’d love if someone could also confirm if this is considered p-waves as it’s just my assumption to what these are.

Whilst this eventually makes my prostate feel quite good, I’m at a loss of where to go now in terms of going for orgasms. I always thought that if I achieved involuntaries then these would lead to hands free, dry orgasms but sadly this hasn’t been the case. Read more »

dry spell

Hello everyone,

I’m writing in regards to a dry spell with my aneros use. Almost a year ago I achieved my first and only truly successful sessions (involuntary, powerful, indescribably dry orgasms for hours on end, they felt similar to penile orgasms but deeper and just so much better). Some background that makes this situation complicated is that when I achieved that session I did so rather unconventionally. Most people on here talk about involuntary twitching causing the toy to stimulate the prostate which leads to orgasm. However, that night, the way I got there was by repeatedly flexing my pc muscle and hitting my prostate over and over for some time until suddenly I wasnt flexing anymore and the toy was fucking me. I’ve tried to do this again but it doesn’t happen. I’ve tried doing nothing, tried sustained long flexes, porn, no porn, weed, no weed, and it simply won’t happen. Any advice on getting back to achieving dry orgasm would be so helpful.

Progasm Jr. + Massage Gun = I Need a Hug!

I was gifted a massage gun some months ago and, until recently, I’ve been using it for its intended purpose. Gets the job done well enough, can’t complain. In the past, vibrators haven’t done very much for me besides make the prostate ticklish before going numb, so I really wasn’t looking to use it for masturbation. This is unlike any vibrator I’ve ever used.

I very much enjoy perineum stimulation, so I was pressing and kneading the area before and during the progasm jr. session late fri. night. Been really liking that particular model a lot. Plenty of fun w/ it as of late. 30mins in, I realized I never put my massage gun up before starting, and it still had the small softball attachment on. Fuck it, why not? Started it on 3 and applied moderate pressure just above the p-tab.

That…hit very different. I was already stupid sensitive from the preceding p-gasms, so the rapid kneading from the massage gun was almost too much. I’m hard most of the time during p-play, but this erection became lead. Felt like my dick was going to burst.

Which it did. Spectacularly. One spasm sent the jr. flying out, which made me squirt hard. That was the 1st time anything that could be construed as a vibrator made me squirt.

Couldn’t replicate it, unfortunately, but that’s okay. The very next go-around resulted in very hard back-to-back HFWOs! Managed to retain the jr. this time. Turned the massage gun off, “did nothing,” and the ensuing dry-os built into another very hard HFWO. Let the progasm jr. go and called it quits thereafter. Read more »

How much pressure on prostate and aneros tab?

Still trying to master this thing and would like communities advice and feedback. So pwaves are happening and aneros is slamming the prostate. You get two results

1. Need to pee feeling due to pressure on bladder
2. Your prostate is so pushed you get hfwo or milking effect

Theoretically you wanna avoid this and let the toy gently massage you until it just continues to massage you on and on to build the orgasm so how much pressure do you need when trying for super o? I feel like if the toy gets sucked in and starts pressing the prostate hard it feels super good but moving away from dry orgasm and super o. Any thoughts and advice on this situation? Thanks!

First time with the Eupho = best session yet!

I’d gone roughly 2 weeks without orgasm prior to this weekend. Friday night I had a nice session with my Helix and Programs – lots of p-waves and nice feelings, very relaxed but for some reason I didn’t feel like using my new Eupho. The next afternoon I was quite horny and had that sort of tickly excited feeling in my prostate and decided to give the Eupho a spin.

All I can say is wow.

When I first put it in I could barely feel its presence at all. Did my deep breathing and relaxing and after a while I could feel my prostate throbbing and swelling and P-waves accompanied these feelings too. Involuntaries kicked in not long after that and the P-waves got stronger and some extra feelings were added too. A really gentle shaking, almost vibrating, of my hips and tingling in my head/temples which was quite nice. P-waves sort of changed and instead of going through me it just seemed to sort of settle in my stomach like a quite intense butterfly feeling.

The pleasurable feelings disappeared with the involuntary contractions and the shaking became stronger, even my neck was kind of twitching and my teeth were chattering like I was shivering, legs shaking. No amount of relaxing was stopping it, I even tried changing positions but nothing worked so I just waited for it to stop. It went on for what felt like 30 mins? Not sure but it was a long time but I tried to keep an open mind and not be disappointed by it, kept telling myself my body was figuring things out and I’d benefit from it in the long run. Eventually it died down slowly and being completely still again was a reward in itself and I felt quite calm and happy that I’d managed to ride it out. Read more »

How do you use your Vice?

I recently got a Vice 2 vibrator.

Initially I was somewhat surprised by its size. This thing is quite big compared to the non-vibrating Aneros toys I own. It takes me some warmup to insert it, which is a bit of a downside. But insertion is quite easy due to its shape.

I do enjoy the vibrations and have achieved a couple of relatively weak dry orgasms. I’ve mostly been playing around with the different patterns, always on the softest intensity to avoid numbing. I don’t have any favorites yet. What mostly happened is that a pattern would start feeling nice, then my body would start moving around, I might get a mild orgasm, and then it would fade away. A couple of times, my hips were moving a lot and I felt I was on the verge of a wet orgasm and had too much focus on my penis, so I stopped moving, which also led to the pleasure fading away. I didn’t want to ejaculate, as it would mean the end of the session and I want to conserve my energy at the moment.

Earlier today I was just playing around with it, using it to massage my body. And wow! On my nipples and the outside of my anus it was amazing! I got a couple of super intense dry orgasms.

How do you use this toy? Which patterns to you prefer? Do you tend to lie still, or let your body move? Do you engage your pelvic floor muscles?

general questions from a fellow aneros user who feels like he’s oh so close to super O’s but just can’t break through

as I continue to work my way towards hands free dry orgasms and the elusive super O, I had some questions that I was hoping to get some help with. I was also curious on what type of advice some of the more seasoned veterans would give to someone who still has yet to have a super O / HFDO but feels like they’re getting close.

about how many times a week should someone ideally be practicing when they’re still trying to acquire their first dry orgasm/super O?

do you abstain from sex/masturbation completely?

does it not really matter to some? (i.e sex and aneros use in the same day but spread out; morning and night for example)

do you recommend cannabis use?

are there any techniques that helped you experience your break through and achieve that very first super O?

I have made some really good progress in the past month or two, experiencing p-waves more frequently (sometimes nice deep ones that radiate through my body), experiencing involuntary contractions, I think i’ve experienced an anal orgasm, I now genuinely focus on enjoying the whole session and let the pleasure come to me as opposed to “chasing” the good feelings and trying to control them like I used to, sometimes it feels like my body becomes so light that it feels as if i’m almost being lifted out of my body which was scary but is now enjoyable, etc. Read more »

Has Any else made a Massager diary? (LONG POST)

Has anyone tried too keep a journal like this? Sorry for the long post but i feel this is a good discussion for intermediate and advanced users.

This is the 3rd week of me just doing aneros sessions with no penis stimulation. Not that i don’t mix in penis play, but i wanted too rediscover my massagers and find which ones work best with me personally. Here’s the journal so far:

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Massagers progress

peredise : achieved 3 HFWO orgasms.
can be VERY fun too ride/Grind. when in right mood and situation, i can dry orgasm with this

eupho : i’ve been sticking this massager too far in, try leaving some out so it can move. i seem too love too masturbate with this one

MGX : Amazing pspot pressure. Soft, but not too soft, mixed with ptab, my anal canal is fully stroked…dry orgasms and pwaves came easily first session. the ribbing on this is fucking fantastic in my sphincter it adds a great massage when squeezed . also first model for a dry o without nipple play Read more »