It finally happened but not in the way I was expecting

Long post – sorry…

As the title says I FINALLY hit my first Super O and it wasn’t at all how I thought it would go. I’ve been playing for several years now with varying degrees of success – some sessions are great, some I experience nothing. Still, I kept at it and when I LEAST expected it it finally happened.

I wrapped work up early yesterday and decided to have a session. After a quick 10 – 15 minute meditation to clear my head I popped in my helix syn trident – no porn – just some ambient music to give me something to focus on and zone out.

I’ve noticed that no matter how much I try to not “chase” in the past I always end up chasing and trying too hard to make something happen. Also, I realized I keep expecting it to feel like a traditional, penile orgasm and so I’m probably searching for something that just isn’t going to happen. This week I decided my focus would be entirely on FEELING and LISTENING and being okay with whatever happens while also ignoring any pleasurable feelings that may involve my penis and focusing as much as possible on my prostate.

Nothing actually came of my session other than some light p waves and honestly I was okay with that. However, it finally dawned one me – I’ve been feeling these p waves all along but was failing to recognize / let them build before because as soon as they’d happen I’d clamp down and scare them away, basically. Anyway, I showered up and went along with my day.

What happened last night?

Hi everyone,

Quick background in my journey, I started using helix trident when they were initially released with limited success.

I stopped using it about 4 years ago, I just started a relationship at the time, was always out, never had time etc. I ended up throwing it away, as it was just sitting in the draw.

Fast forward to yesterday, my new helix arrived.

After “warming up”, I inserted. When I did, my penis was immediately hard, and the toy was moving on its own.

I shut my eyes and rode it out.

The level of pleasure I experienced was equal to that of a standard orgasm, but not in my penis.

Was this a dry o? I’m confused as I didn’t have any flexing like a wet o, but the pleasure was fairly intense.

Next toy recommendations?

I currently have a Helix Trident (white plastic one) and a Progasm Ice. I’ve been thinking of buying another Aneros for some time now but unsure what to go for.

Eupho: I see lots of raging reviews on this people giving it a lot of praise.

Vice: Not sure if this one is good or not. I’ve seen some people complain about it staying in.

Maximus: I’ve not seen many reviews on this one, anyone recommend it?

Peridise/Tempo: I know this isn’t a prostate massager but I’ve seen people give it praise for inducing pleasurable contractions.

Of course if there’s any I’ve not listed feel free to mention and give a reason on why you would recommend!

Help needed

I’ve been using my progasm ice for a year now but have yet to achieve a super-o. Not sure what I’m doing wrong….thinking about getting the Helix Syn V hoping the vibrations will get me over the edge. Any advice?!?

The Progasm. Such a great purchase for me

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about two years. Due to my family schedule and my own naivety and me being impatient I did not make much progress, or rather I didn’t make quick progress. I had worked my way through fingers to ‘training kits’ to generic toys to more expensive toys and finally settled on a dildo and an Aneros, the Helix Syn Trident.

Even then they didn’t do things for me every time, only some of the time. I looked at what I had and used and I decided I needed a bigger toy, but not bigger for the sake of being big. I wanted something with purpose so I picked up the Progasm the other day.

I have seen the posts of people saying, ‘my prostate to too high up,’ and I chalked it up to them meaning, ‘it’s not as easy as it sounds / looks in the videos.’ Boy was I wrong.

When I first opened the box I was surprised by how big the Progasm is and thought, “What have I gotten myself into?”. It’s much bigger than the Helix Syn Trident. Looking back at it I was disappointed with how small the Helix was but I trusted that Aneros knew what they were doing.

I prepped myself and inserted the Progasm and immediately knew I had made the right decision. I felt it press against my prostate and I started getting hard which was thrilling to me. I stood for a few seconds just enjoying the feeling.

Bit of a ramble

So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it.

Need help!

hello everyone
I‘m so frustrated. Since more than 10 years I‘ve been trying and I don‘t get there. The thing is that , as a kid, and long before I discovered my dick for masturbation, I discovered my prostate. It was something natural for me, it felt like magic, I had no idea that it was sexuality. At some point I stopped having super O’s during puberty because feelings had become overwhelming and I was kind of scared of it.

In my mid 20s I started using aneros and basically since then I‘m trying to have this feeling again. Everytime I think that I‘m getting there I‘m starting by zero again and I feel like I‘m just not able to be connected to my body. It‘s so frustrating because I remember the feeling of ecstasy , the pure bliss, feeling “whole“ ,don‘t want to sound dramatic but it feels like a big part of me and my sexuality is missing. I lost it and I‘m afraid that I‘ll never be able to feel it again.

I‘ve been listening to mindgasm on youtube which helped somehow, sometimes I get some shaking in the legs , it feels nice but that‘s it. Don‘t know how to make it bigger. I try to not expect much, try to relax etc… in the end I’m frustrated and sad. btw I‘m using helix trident. I used others in the past , was not any different

Wearing the aneros helix

I bought the bullet and bought the aneros helix. I have played with toys for a long time and I found the helix to be super comfortable once inserted, probably because my anus/rectum is mildly stretched. I masturbated and had a penile orgasm last night with it. It was amazing. I kept it in overnight and took it out this morning before I showered. Then I went to work. At the end of my shift all I could think was putting it back on once home and this is what I did. Now I’m immersed in my evening activities and find comfort, naughtiness and excitement.
Has anyone worn the aneros for a long time while not in a masturbation session? I almost want to take it to work and have it on all day.