hopeless and desperate for advice

I’ve read countless posts about what to do and what not to do and I still just cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong. Very brief background information: I have experienced what I think were P-waves twice in one session but never again- I had just woken up and was feeling a little horny. Also I use aneros helix trident

I have been making sure of the following:
– I’m super relaxed physically (I often do a session after waking up)
– I hold a ≈50% contraction and my muscles do move involuntarily
– In the occasion I do feel pleasure, I don’t change what I’m doing physically in a way that might ruin it
– I lay on my back sometimes with my legs bent or on my side with my legs up to my stomach
– I stop after 20 minutes at minimum or an hour and a half at maximum
• I don’t touch my dick
– I (mostly) do not watch porn during sessions
– I try not to have the mindset of “chasing” an orgasm

My guesses as to what could be causing an issue:
– I jack off maybe once a day or every other day
– I don’t get nearly as horny as I used to a couple years ago as a teenager
– I’m not always super focused on breathing
– My mind wanders and I am not always thinking sexual thoughts during sessions

The continuing orgasms

I have been playing with my Aneros toys now for about 4 yrs. I love the feelings and the pleasure I get from them. But from the very first time I got a supper O, they have always been hands free wet orgasms. Which would end my session, because I would lose the horny feeling. But the other day I was having sex and was very high on gummies. During sex I have a major O. And then I started getting non stop mini Os one after the other. Just like I read about in the forms and blogs. My body was on fire it did not matter where I was touched another mini O would fire off. I was able to cum 4 times during out hours of sex, cumming each time and able to keep going without losing my hard on. It was incredible the mini Os were non stop, because my partner was touching my body everywhere and sucking on my nipples, my body was tingling all over. My prostate was on fire and I did not even have a toy in me. But it felt like there was the helix sync in there moving on its own. This lasted so long it was like a dream. I started to get worried because hours after the sex stopped I was still getting mini Os. Without even having my partner touch me. I was finally about to fall asleep and the minis Os stopped. But all I can say is I can’t wait to see if I can get back to that state where the mini Os are non stop. I would like to know if any one has had this happen to them after using the toys.

Increased arousal?

Hi 👋 28M. So I recently decided to stop jerking and focus solely on my prostate sessions. I’ve been abstaining for about a week now and my session with my Aneros this morning felt pretty good as it was my first session since I’ve been abstaining.

What happened afterwards is what surprised me. Once I decided to end the session, I slipped out my helix, stood up, and was instantly rock hard and throbbing. Not only that but my nipples were also rock hard and I was slowly leaking pre. It went on for a few hours like on and off.

I’m obviously craving an O, so I’m assuming it’s my body’s way of adjusting to a new type of play. Does anyone else feel like this after their session or randomly throughout the day? If so, is this a sign of “progress” or anything?

A very detailed description of what it feels like and how I got there

Hello folks,

I’ve been using Aneros for about 6 years, but it wasn’t until two years ago that I finally got the hang of it.

WHAT IT FEELS LIKE:

The amount of pleasure it gives is insane. It’s completely outside the realm of normal experiences. It’s hard to quantify. It feels like it’s always increasing. It’s like my brain has a “current pleasure” and a “change in pleasure” readout, and both of them are maxed out.

If I try to remember how good it was, it’s like it doesn’t fit in memory. It’s like I have to take my past self’s word for it. And then, the next time I do it, I’m like, “Holy shit, that’s right! I had forgotten how good this was! Holy crap, this is amazing!”

When it first starts, it feels like a very weak inkling of an orgasm-like sensation. It has those deeply-satisfying, spine-tingling, heart-fluttering qualities, but not nearly as intense. Maybe on par with a good back massage. But then… it gets better… and better… and better… and it just doesn’t stop getting better. Ever. It doesn’t make sense. It feels like an illusion, like the motion aftereffect, or the [Shepard Tone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzNzgsAE4F0). Soon you lose track. It’s like watching one of those [scale of the universe](https://youtu.be/17jymDn0W6U?t=103) videos. You can maintain your bearings for a little while, but pretty soon, you’ve zoomed out so many times that you’ve lost all frame of reference. The pleasure might be 10x better than an orgasm, or 100x, who knows, it’s hard to say.

Always HFWO, no Pgasm?

Every session I have ends in orgasmic release, but I’m not sure it’s a prostate orgasm? I focus, relax, and with build up comes a HFWO. My helix syn trident always hits that little button enough for me to get a wet orgasm. I don’t believe I’ve ever had a dry orgasm, without ejaculation. It feels wonderful but I wouldn’t say it’s “rolling pleasure” or constant orgasms like some have offered in this sub. Any recommendations or am I thinking about the prostate orgasm wrong?

Vibration against helix syn trident

I wanted to see what adding some vibration felt like so I charged my massage gun and placed it against the hekix syn while inserted.

Immediately I felt my prostate begin to dance around and it eventually my prostate was pulling in the massage gun closer and then releasing, closer and then released.

Very cool. I’m new to this, no major P waves yet but hopefully soon.

Helix Syn vs Eupho Syn?

Guys I have the Helix (had the best results with it) but I plan to buy either the Maximus or the Eupho, I’ve seen many people rating the eupho at the top. I know it is easy to underestimate the size however I also like the feeling of being full. I do have the progasm and progasm jr. as well but they always slip out, specially the standard progasm.

My question is, how does the eupho differ from the Helix?

Had ten multiple prostate orgasms on Friday night

Earlier in the day played a bit with my helix syn trident and a rimming butt plug for a bit. Later on in the evening put in the Aneros, kicked back with a pair of worn panties (love the pussy smell, I’m a smell guy) and I must’ve cum around ten times. It’s amazing to be able to feel multiple full body orgasms like women do. They come on like tidal waves and then come back down to a tide pool of baseline pleasure/bliss. My chest was so flush after. Main thing I found challenging was regulating my breathing (kind of stop breathing when the p waves get more intense but I’m practicing). Also awesome i found is after a few orgasms letting things relax then pulling the Aneros in and having it knock my swollen prostate that kicks off the next orgasm cascade. That first pull in when it hits is it’s own mini bonus pleasure hit. it’s amazing to be one of only a few men in history who have gotten to experience this.