“Sorry, Guy, Your Cock Is Off-Limits But Your Prostate Is Not!”

Introduction
I had my annual urological checkup yesterday. Having had a PSA blood test 2-weeks ago, I always am a little apprehensive until I hear the number. Well, I’m happy to report that my PSA was again quite low (1.7)! My urologist also performed a thorough DRE and said my prostate is in fine shape! What a relief! I celebrated with a nice dinner out with my wife!

Session
I had a nice session early this morning. I thought I would select the HIH 950 but instead went with the SGX. It was a good choice: right from the start, I began to experience anal contractions (almost like an anal orgasm). I am again wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” — I had a brief respite this week due to some groin irritation caused by a flare-up of a skin tag. That seems to have cleared-up and I am again placing my cock “off-limits” but not my prostate! And while relaxing this morning, just chilling, I began to dwell more on this topic…..

Meditation
I began to meditate on the fact the quite a few of us Aneros men have issues with sex in the usual sense. I am no exception. But that does not mean that we guys cannot obtain sexual pleasure and relief. It’s just that we do it another way. Let me explain…..

“After the Erection and Arousal, What Comes Next?”

Hello!
I’ll bet you’re wondering: I know the answer! Do you? I thought about this too…..The answer is not an ejaculation! Surprised? Let me explain……

The Truth
What came next for me was an Aneros session. I selected the HIH 950 for my prostate’s health. This massager does its job without being overbearing. There is just enough stimulation of my prostate to help me relax into erotic bliss. During this 30-minute session, I tried to relax as completely as possible. But it isn’t easy, for every so often, I would get a ‘jolt’ of pleasure that caused me to tense-up my anal sphincter around the massager. Usually, when this happens, I can feel my erection starting to build-up as well. I know I am experiencing some prostate orgasms when this happens.

Male Chastity Interaction
For this session, I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” and also a condom on my erect cock. I like the stimulation the condom provides against it due to the added silicone lube. Oh, what a feeling! At one point, I removed the cup and squirmed-around on the bed, causing even more prostate pleasure! But I was careful not to stimulate it too much: no ejaculation for me at this time!

“Hey Aneros! It’s Only Day 1 Again!”

Background
Nearing the end of SR Day 13, I went to bed knowing that I would have to ejaculate. I was getting a very “full” feeling and an achy “blue-balls” sensation in my groin and just wanted a release. I put-on a pair of silky boxers and retired for the night….

I awoke a few hours later with a raging erection and a feeling that (gasp!) I needed to ejaculate again! Not wanting to, however, I quickly put-on my XO “chastity cup” to quench the extreme feeling and keep my hands where they belonged. It didn’t work too quickly, but finally after about 10 minutes of non-masturbatory peace, the erection began to subside.

Session
I honestly felt that I “needed” a session at this time. But so soon after an ejaculation? After all, it’s only Day 1! Should I or shouldn’t I? Yes, I quickly decided on the HIH 950, if only for regular prostate health. Good choice! The massager went in deep and began to stimulate my prostate to the point of expelling prostate fluid! For 25 minutes or so, I was in orgasmic bliss! I could not believe how the 950 was hitting the mark! At several points, it honestly felt like I was approaching a HFWO!

“A Transmutation Poem”

Feeling horny
Sexual encounter with my wife
Hard as rock 20 minutes, ready to penetrate
Decided not to, no ejaculation
Cool-down, go to bed
Wearing Safe-T-Gard cup to protect the head

3 AM. extreme erection, blue-ball groin
Session in the company of 950
Amazing feeling, immediate prostate fluid
Cool-down, guess what?
Blue-balls gone, now they are not!

Now Day 11, holding onto my semen, feeling great!
Can do it all over again tonight, can’t wait!

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How was I able to “release” the dreaded blue-balls feeling? I’m not totally sure now. When I decided to have a session with the HIH 950, I thought for sure that this would be a Super-T; I thought I would surely ejaculate. When I started the session, the 950 was pulled-in very deeply and seated itself against my waiting prostate. Looking at the prostate fluid expelled, the analogy I can draw is “squeezing an orange”! That is what it felt like.

Did I somehow “transmute” the sexual ejaculatory pressure into my prostate where it dissipated? It sure felt that way with this amazing session. Perhaps this is the “key” to stopping blue-balls in its tracks? Intriguing…

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“Imagine This!”

Background
I am in Day 4 of SR and in need of a session. I selected my HIH 950 because it always gives me a good ride. This morning’s session was no different. An explanation…..

Session
I am wearing my SafeTGard supporter with a Mueller FlexShield cup (instead of the CageCup). Before I start this session, I have fallen-into a fantasy, of sorts. I have developed a sense of amnesia and really don’t know what my cock is used for! (I don’t know the details of my sexual self). I don’t even know that I have a prostate! But I am told that it should feel very nice and so I allow the stimulator entry.

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It wasn’t too long that I am now feeling a nice “tickle” down-there and that feeling only got better and better. I squirm around on the bed, moan a little and feel something liquid coming out of my cock. It feels so good!

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After about 30 minutes, I am told that this stimulation session had ended and that the massager would be removed.

Outcome
This was a good session because it cleared my mind of everything! No expectations, no disappointments, nothing! My prostate was a “blank page” upon which could be written anything. This seems to be a good technique to use when wanting to remove all expectations from an Aneros session! It worked for me! It may work for you!

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“Fantasy Under The Deep”

Background
I am currently in Day 8 of SR and sexually I’ve never felt better! I have been having somewhat daily sessions now for a few days. I am using my massagers in rotation. This morning, I decided to ride with the HIH 950. I lubed-up and started the session. Before too long, I am experiencing an unusual fantasy. Here it is….

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A foreign submarine fleet has instituted a pilot program where the men can discretely get some sexual relief after weeks at sea. They are provided a prostate stimulator and a tube of lubricant. They can enjoy a sexual respite in the privacy of their own bunks. I was eager to participate in this “experiment”. I procured the needed equipment and, retiring for the night in my bunk, lubed-up the massager and inserted it where I was told it belonged. I have not ejaculated in a while and this massager seemed to want to help me. I was looking forward to this experience.

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For the next 30 minutes or so in my bunk, I had developed such a nice erection and I knew I was leaking fluid. It was a wonderful, sexually-charged feeling. For a while, I was lost in this blissful world deep under. Such a relaxing, erotic escape from the ordinary…

PS I wore my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and it stayed in place throughout this fantasy session.

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“An Underwhelming Cup, But Compensation Galore!”

Background
I decided to wear my diminutive SafeTGard “chastity cup” to bed last night. I like this one: the strap is not tight at all and the cup (Cage Cup) is shallow and not too long. If I “point” my cock down in it, it fits well. Of course, it won’t accommodate an erection too well, but that’s okay. The erection will push up the cage and it will not be uncomfortable. By the way, I am heading into Day 9 of SR with no sign of blue-balls. Amazing!

Sesssion #1
I awoke not too early and decided to continue my BPH-relief sessions. I didn’t know which massager to use. I thought about the HIH 950 but decided to go for the more aggressive Helix-Trident. I lubed-up with BB and started. This session lasted about 30-35 minutes and what I noticed most was a lot of slippery, sticky precum. Almost like a ‘precum milking’. It seemed that eventually, following rapid and regular kegels (due to the P- and K-tabs) I hit a “precum sweet spot” and the more contractions I did, the more precum I produced. Eventually, I had to remove the cup completely and when I did, I was able to see and feel all the precum I was producing. My cock grew a couple of times just to show me how much precum it could produce! I ended this session on a high note and went back to sleep.

“Aneros Inspiration…In A Parking Lot!”

Background
Yesterday, while walking through a parking lot to my car, it suddenly struck me how “cars” are a lot like Aneros prostate massagers! Sounds foolish? Well, hear me out. A car is designed to take one from Point “A” to Point “B” . It could be a jalopy or a sleek convertible. But it will take you where you want to go. It has a motor, four wheels and a steering wheel. Well, isn’t this the same basic principle as with Aneros prostate massagers? We can choose the most “fancy” massager or one that is most “plain”. But in either case, we are still getting to Point “B”! So it makes sense to me that regardless of whether I choose the lowly HIH 950 or the sleek, sophisticated Helix-Trident, I will be massaging my prostate. After all, they are both designed for the male anatomy. And the same is true for all the other Aneros models.

Session
Last night, I slept in my very comfortable SafeTGard “chastity cup” with Cage Cup. The Cage is shorter than all other cups I have and it will not accommodate my erect penis. But that is okay, since when erect, the frenulum protrudes beyond the top edge of the cup and provides some very stimulating feedback. I am currently in Day 6 of SR (how I wish it could be Day 16!) and as I described in a previous blog, I have been having sessions now to relieve BPH symptoms. It is working well!

A New Technique: “Do-Nothing Edging”

Background
I slept in my Mueller “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 2 AM quite aroused. I wanted a session and I had to decide between the HIH 950 and the MGX Classic. I selected the MGX. Now, although this session was good and I expelled some prostate fluid (not precum), in hindsight, my rectum was not as empty as it should have been. Hence, this session was less than refreshing and ultimately, disappointing. Fast-forward about an hour. I decided to “retire” the hard chastity cup for a while and replace it with a regular jockstrap. I selected my Omtex swim supporter and defly placed it beneath my long PJs. Well, before too long (as I have said many times before) I can’t keep my hands off my male package when it is so accessible (not in a hard chastity cup). But this time was different. Let me explain…..

A New “Edging” Technique
Instead of “stroking” and “kneading” my package through the soft knit pouch, I began to “press” and “hold” my finger(s) against my frenulum. Then I did the same thing to my scrotum. And then down to my perineum. And something amazing happened…..I slowed things down to the point of “do-nothing” edging! And as I began to feel an incredible power building-up, I sort-of fell into a meditation as well. Here is the essence of it, to the best I can remember.

“Still Yearning for an Ejaculation: This Morning’s Session Still Didn’t Bring It”

I slept in my very comfortable XO “chastity cup” overnight and awoke about 4 AM. I had to visit the lavatory and when I finished, I found that the perfect time for a quick session. I selected the HIH 950 again. I am currently in Day 8 of SR and, thankfully, do not have any blue-balls feeling yet! I find that virtually all of my sessions lately are good ones. With extended days without an ejaculation, I feel that the massagers are trying their hardest to make me ejaculate, one way or another. This morning’s session was no different.

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I am lying in bed, generally moaning and squirming around. I developed a firm erection almost immediately and it stayed firm for almost the entire session (about 25 minutes’ worth). Towards the end, I felt compelled to remove everything (cup and PJ bottoms) and observed a nice flow of precum. I could have easily finished the job. But I held back…..Why?

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What is it about holding back an ejaculation while in semen retention? What is its power? Is it that with the EJ comes a refractory period? A sudden diminishing of sexual “readiness”? Perhaps it is all of this and more. Yes, ejaculations represent our very essence of maleness. Holding the EJ back is like a dam which holds back tons and tons of water. Of course, the water has to be released sometime, somehow. Otherwise, a flood would ensue. Plus, no power would ever be generated. I believe it is the same way with ejaculations. We need to “release” our semen, if only occasionally. Those of us who regularly practice semen retention know the dynamics. There seems to be greater power with every “release”. And with that release, comes the potential for yet another powerful release at a later time. The EJ cycle continues…..