Advice for a Newbie?

Hi – I just got a aneros syn 5. I’ve gotten to the point where I can trigger involuntary contractions with subtle pc flexing. These make my cock physically tremble – but I wouldn’t say it’s insanely pleasure. I can hold the contractions for a bit if I focus.

Am I on the right track? Any tips would be great.

Intense P waves, but no HFDO

Thanks to practicing the the first few Mindgasm lessons, I now find I can start off on my p-wave journey fairly easily when relaxed and horny – ie not ejaculated for a few days. Lube up, slide in the Aneros trident helix and with some gentle contracting of pelvic floor and sphincter muscles start building pleasure resulting in long, body shaking, heavy breathing waves of pleasure. If I really allow myself to lose control, the 3rd or 4th wave is so intense that the involuntary contractions become really firm, causing a wet orgasm. It literally feels as if the cum is being squeezed out of my prostate. This is immensely satisfying, but I want to carry on fucking myself silly! I can sometimes consciously stop this by relaxing all muscles, but then lose the wave and the orgasm. I’ve posted similar before but any HFDO tips would be much appreciated 🙂

Ever changing definition

I recently posted about the pillow between the legs being the best advice I’d had yet. Well that has certainly led to a redefinition of what I’ve been experiencing over the past couple of years.

When I started my journey I went through the usual stages. Feeling nothing, to periods of intense contractions which I’d assumed were p-waves, to intense abdominal contractions which I’d assumed where some form of prostate orgasm They had been my measure of success to date and while some had a better feeling than others, they never really matched the hype.

I’d read somewhere that orgasm and ejaculation are different and that the orgasm usually immediately preceeds ejaculation. Breaking that down in my head and compartmentalising the two, I figured that intense pleasure just before reliance must be the orgasm.

With my new found positional knowledge and waking up to an empty bed the other morning I thought it was an ideal time for a little pleasure. I grabbed my Progasm Ice and quickly slipped it in, closed my eyes and relaxed. Pretty soon the involuntary contractors started and I quickly had my usual abdominal contractions. Happy with where I was at, I tried to get back to sleep. All of the involuntary contractions had stopped and I was just happy within myself.

My experiences after 10 years of aneros

Aneros user of about 10 years. Warning: long post ahead. Unfortunately no TL:DR. Tips and tricks section after the wall of text 🙂

While penis-centered sexuality as I learnt it as a teenager is more of a mechanical approach the joy your prostatate can give you requires a more holistic process. For me set and setting are important. Nowadays I rarely have time to use my aneros (job,kids,friends, sports … ) but when the opportunity arises the foreplay / preperation is an important part of the experience.

Throughout the day (s before) I do some PC muscle squeezes which already activate my prostate because it knows whats to come. I like to take a bath or a nice hot shower, do some hair removal around my penis, the balls and the perineum/anus (Sugaring ftw!) so everything is smooth and hairless, give myself a pedicure (soft feet feel amazing 😉 and eventually put on a jockstrap (it feels sexy and keeps the penis out of the way while the anus is accessible) and douche just for the ease of mind. Ill then go about some chores, gardenwork, go for a walk or do some yoga, sometimes with a buttplug in, sometimes without – all in the sexy anticipation of whats to come.

Minor Milestone with the Helix Syn

Hey guys! I have been a lurker in r/aneros and r/prostateplay for a long time. About a month ago, I finally decided to take the plunge and buy myself an aneros. After doing some research, I decided that the Helix Syn seemed like the best toy and the one that was most recommended for beginners. When I first got the helix, I was super excited and tried it several times over a couple weeks, with little (if any success). I had a totally free day today, so I decided to have some fun. I thought I’d kind of journal what happened and post it here to see if you all might have any tips or advice for me for the future. Sorry in advance for the long post.

This time, rather than blitzing through clean-up (I prefer to douche before playing in the backdoor, I know it isn’t strictly necessary, but it helps me to relax) and getting the toy in as fast as possible, I decided to take my time and try and be mindful during the cleanup process.

Plenty Body Shaking Without Aneros, None With Toy In My Ass

When i contract my PC muscles without a prostate massager in my ass, i instantly get heaps of body shaking trembles without any pleasure or arousal

It’s the opposite with an aneros in my ass, where i get zero feeling, shaking or pleasure. Sometimes i might get a flurry of involuntary contractions that are temporary for like 20mins.

How should i proceed with rewiring my prostate? A-less?

I’ve been trying for years and have heaps of anal toys which i love.

How to feel aroused

My drive has been fairly low, i’m 20 and i have abstained for a week now. I thought it would be fairly difficult but i havent had any urge to masturbate at all. I know being aroused and relaxed are the main components of aless. I can get fairly relaxed but I just cant get aroused enough. How do I focus on my arousal and how can i increase it. Im practicing my kegels and trying the mindgasm files. I cant seem to take the involuntaries to the next level. I get some flutters here and there but it doesnt lead to the muscles moving all by themselves.

I feel like I’ve had the perfect session

This afternoon I had possibly my most perfect session and I feel so lucky I just want to share it with you all.

It essentially started off in the morning when I woke up extremely horny. I did some deep breathing and kegels, let my self get even more aroused and then got up, had a really nice relaxing morning. By the afternoon my body was craving an aneros, I was really very aroused and had that tickly feeling coming from deep inside me.

Laid on my bed and did some deep breathing to calm my mind as it was a little frantic with how horny I was. I pre-lubed when I’d silenced my mind some more and then began to tease myself slowly. Nipples, thighs, hole. All got a good teasing until I was REALLY ready.

Even coating the Maximus in lube was enough to turn me on even more and inserting it was soo satisfying. Immediately had leg shaking and tingles around my hole as it settled in to place. More deep breathing. The tingles soon turned to pleasure and my anal canal was overcome by a warm and gentle pleasure as my thighs shook.

Need Help

So I’ve been using my aneros for about a year now. Wasn’t really effective for a bit, but I stick with it.

Here lately I’ve been getting better results. It’s a lot more pleasurable, and I think I’m getting p waves. I’m not sure about the involuntaries. I’m actually super happy because now I get pleasure when not using my aneros.

For example: This morning I was gaming and I get a pleasant feeling. I don’t do anything but keep breathing at a steady pace. The feeling grows and becomes a fullness in my balls. It then rises up and the pleasure spreads across my body. Then it fades away.

This happens everytime. Pleasure builds, spreads, and then fade away. I try not to chase it, I try not to change what I’m doing that brought it on. What am I doing wrong? Is there something I should do when the feelings spread?

Even right now I feel that tingle again…

Chest Tightness?

Hi all. Avid lurker here and Aneros explorer. I’ve been giving my journey some focused attention lately and have tried a few models with varying degrees of pleasure. Nothing mind blowing.

On a whim I decided to give the Peridise a try and wow it feels like I now understand what everyone is talking about. I think I prefer the slightly more indirect sensation it provides. I am now launched directly into involuntaries seconds after inserting.

After a few pretty pleasurable sessions over the last few days, today I had the familiar pelvic warmth and pressure building. At one point however, a pretty startling jolt of pressure occurred in my chest followed by a second. Almost like a dropping sensation. This melted out into my extremities giving them a strange lightness/tingling. This faded and did not return bit the pelvic pleasure continued a bit longer before I had to stop.

Any thoughts / ideas on what this was?