Tag: Involuntaries

First HFDO?

Hello friends, here I am again. Today I am trying to understand what I’ve felt on my last session (a few hours ago).

First of all, I know that everyone has different experiences with this and nomenclature is just a way to simplify concepts that we are trying to communicate. But I really want to understand what I felt tonight, so I will try to explain.

Recently I started to felt and recognize the p-waves, feeling that pleasure and accepting that my prostate awoke and I started to rewire. Tonight I tried my vibrating prostate massager (it’s like a vice 2) in another position: with my legs more elevated than my body and watching porn. In a certain moment I started to feel some really good vibrations. I decided to (try) not pursue the feeling and continued to enjoy the moment. A few minutes later the sensations started to get really strong and good, and I closed my eyes, not focusing my attention on the porn anymore, to enjoy these sensations.

Then, I (think) felt an orgasm coming up. I remember that I was doing really strong kegels and contractions, holding up really strong and for as much time as I got. In a specific moment, I thought I was ready to orgasm. The feeling was very similar to a penile orgasm, but missing the sensation of ejaculating on the end. I had a few involuntary contractions, like when you have a penile orgasm and the dick moves up alone. When this passed, I was like “no, please, it was too good, come back”. It was like being on the edge of an abyss, just needing to make a leap of faith… and then going back. It felt incomplete, waiting for the feeling of ejaculating and this feeling never arriving. Read more »

no motivation, 3 years of trying.

I just can’t do it. I am so close to giving up all together. 3 years of nothing. Made a few waves every now and again but they are not consistent. I’ve never even had involuntaries. I’ve been consistently playing at least a few times a month for the last 3 years and it’s just so disheartening not being able to do something i’ve put this many hours into.

I’ve tried it all, read probably over 1000 posts and guides on it but I just can’t do it.

I’m not sure what it will take but I just don’t know what to do, I have experimented with so many toys and positions, breathing techniques and meditation. They have just not worked for me.

Where to start?

About 2 months ago, I purchased my first Aneros product. I was able to have what to this day I would still classify as a Super-O. .. since then, I have tried numerous different versions from Aneros and the last one (Eupho Syn) it my “go to”.

So here’s the deal. My wife knows i have two Aneros devices. But she never really knew I had any success at all… and I didn’t think I would be able to do a session with her around – so I didn’t really tell her.

The other day she found the Aneros in the bathroom and commented on it. I kinda “disregarded ” and said.. yeah, another failed attempt… nothing really happened.

Two days later (last night) she lubes up her finger and slips it in. INSTANT arousal. INSTANT involuntaries. Within 30 seconds I have hfdo. Except that she was able to keep her finger on the prostate no matter if I was having a power contraction or super reverse kagel… and just fukkin kept tapping ever so slightly. I think i had about 2 hours of almost non stop hfdo and by the end of it the wife was so wet she soaked completely through her panties. ..
She went to work this morning and has been telling me all day to get ready for “as long as I can take it” tonight when she gets home.
I’ve been leaking all day in anticipation.

Achieving HFDO?

I’m interested to hear from anyone who has managed to move away from HFWO to HFDO. A lot of posts I’ve read from those that achieve HFDO/Super Os is that they never have HFWOs.

I’m currently using the muscle ‘tug of war’ method to gain involuntary contractions which brings on body shaking, heavy breathing p waves but no sense of orgasm as such. I’m only really satisfied through squirting cum, but then I have to finish! Is there just ‘re-wiring’ needed to reach a level beyond the p waves without the urge/need to squirt?

My HHC experience… holy shit

So I had asked for some recommendations on hemp-derived THC here about a month ago. I was recommended to look into HHC since it is more of a body high than Delta 8 THC. I went ahead and ordered the HHC tincture from [this](https://www.binoidcbd.com/?ref=CbrnmULLlPUAH) provider. Since it’s hemp-derived, it’s legal in the US.

I was finally able to try it out and I’m glad I was alone in the house when I did because the moans were loud and involuntary.

Story: I took 3/4 of a dose and after 2 hours, a wave of pleasure and euphoria washed over me. I began to giggle and by body felt like it was pulsing. Soon my entire body was tingling with pleasure and I began moaning involuntarily before a toy was even in. I could feel an intense tingling in my perineum and I decided it was time to put in my progasm. I used PLENTY of lube and laid back. I pulled up some porn and the tingles immediately intensified. As soon as I began to stroke my nipples, things really revved up. I could feel my hole twitching and I started moaning louder. I found myself biting my lip through the moans as tears of pleasure filled my eyes. Once I’d become fully erected, the twitching turned to a feeling of fullness and pressure. The toy then began to fuck my ass as though it had a mind of its own. The pleasure was now less in the prostate and more in the walls of my ass as the toy stroked me from the inside. My mind wandered away from the porn and towards the feelings inside of me. This only made things more intense. The positive feedback loop of being turned on by what my ass was doing to itself had me bellowing. Then my ass cheeks began to twitch. Soon, both of my cheeks were flexing and relaxing intermittently. I couldn’t help myself, I had to cum. I grabbed my dick and began stroking it. It didn’t take long before I came with an accompanying guttural moan. The more I stroked, the more pleasure I felt. Soon my moans turned into laughs and euphoria filled me with each stroke. Wow! I had an amazing sleep after that and can’t wait until next time. Read more »

First time prostate orgasm?

Beginner/intermediate user here, I (25M) have been using a helix syn on and off for a few years now. I have a progasm as well, but that one actually hurt for me so the helix has been my go-to. I ordered a progasm jr today and am excited to give that one a whirl.

I had my first session in a couple weeks just the other night and it was the best one I’ve ever had. I find that my best sessions are spur of the moment when I’m already super turned on and involve little to no prep. I already had every intention of masturbating normally that night, but decided last second that I wanted something more. So I lubed myself up, lubed the helix up, popped it in and went to town.

It didn’t take long for me to start having involuntary contractions and to feel those familiar p-waves, which just felt like a mild sense of warmth around my pelvis and stomach for about 10-20 seconds at a time. As I began to focus on the sensations I was feeling, the involuntaries grew more violent. I didn’t fight it. I surrendered to it, and welcomed all of the blissful sensations that my body was feeling, from the violent, hip-bucking, bed-shaking contractions to the moments of complete stillness. Read more »

Progress update and questions

Hi all, been two months since I practice regulary with a helix Trident and progasm.

I’ve got a definite dry orgasm once while tripping, using the do nothing relaxed method, got really hard and felt like I ejaculated violently but it was dry.

My questions are centered on sober practices though. The do nothing method feels good sometimes during the exhale but will have no results and I’ll give up after some time.

When I hold a light kegel, I can induce an automatic stroking movement which feels mildly good, is that considered an involuntary? I’ve constantly read to relax into it so when the stroking feeling starts, I’ll relax and away it goes back to ground zero.

Also in my sessions, I sometimes feel strong tingling sensations (like pins and needles) in my face and palm which slowly spreads to the legs and body, is this normal?

Last question is that with the progasm, I can’t get any auto stroking kind of feeling but when I clench down with constant pressure it feels really good, can I just throw out everything I’ve read and just focus on constantly making myself feel good?

Thanks so much!

Simple Method that works

Simple method that works well.

1.lay on back knees up, feet flat on bed/floor.

2. Shea Butter for lubricant on non silicone type model.

3.Nipple Stimulation every so often and definitely when orgasm is close if you enjoy doing this.

4.Insert toy then do nothing, DO NOT DO ANY PC CLENCHING, just lay still and let the toy do the massaging, it will take a while but the sensations continually build up until the orgasmic moment in which your body will loose control and start dry orgasming uncontrollably in pure bliss, when it’s time to start clenching your body will start the pc clenches automatically and these involuntary clenches that start on their own when this happens is an orgasm and not the manual style clenching.

The O that happens using this technique feels fantastic and last for several minutes! Works for both prostate and peridise toys.

The blessed week

Happened to me a few years ago. I was 17 and was curious about prostate play. I bought my helix trident and had literally little to no sensations, even after several sessions. I remember thinking “these mfs are all liars who work for aneros, I’ll never buy their toys again”. I got frustrated and really wanted to hfo, so I bought dildos and learned to do it after only a few trials.

Fast forward to that “blessed week” 2 years later. It’s may 2021 and I’m in college. That year was intense for me, was working hard every day. And that week I had exams from 8am to 5pm for 5 days straight. It was monday evening and I was studying for my upcoming chemistry exam. Searching through some old papers in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident. It was 9pm and I thought to myself “You’ve worked enough, why not give this toy one last try and toss it if it still doesn’t work”.

I lie in bed, switch off the lights, put the aneros in and watch some porn. And of course, I do not touch my dick. I was just squeezing my ass a little and could feel something building up, I was scared to let go so I held tight untill I couldnt hold it anymore. My dick started dancing like crazy and I was moaning really loud, I couldnt believe what was happening. I tried different positions and my body started shaking and I couldnt stop. It felt so hot. I had to sleep so I pulled out the aneros while my body was still shaking, not knowing whether or not I’d be able to do this again. I laughed like crazy after that, amazed by what had just happened. It was unreal. Read more »

Tried out the Maximus and had the most intense orgasms yet.

My Maximus arrived in the post today. It’s a model I’ve been trying to get for a while so I was quite excited to finally get my hands on it.

It wasn’t my intention to try it out today but as soon as I opened the box I wanted it in me.

My first impressions weren’t good actually. I didn’t find it particularly comfortable during the first 5 mins but ended up playing around with some contractions and it felt a lot better. Settled down with deep valley breathing and had involuntary contractions after around 10 mins. During the next 30 minutes I had some incredible feelings that were new to me. Really strong sensations in my head, particularly around the area right above my ear. A sort of pleasurable pressure.

The pleasure would build in my head, involuntaries would happen and then I’d have an orgasm wash over my body. Rinse and repeat every few minutes. After a while it felt like my prostate was connected directly to my head, each contraction would send out pleasure that I could feel building in my head. Each contraction would increase in pleasure too. I had THE hardest erection that I’ve ever had which seemed to make the involuntaries stronger. I couldn’t tell if the Maximus was getting drawn in to me or pushed out. The pleasure was so strong now and I was having dry orgasms, prostate orgasms on top of full body orgasms. Everything was so intense. Read more »