Tag: Kegel Exercises

Looking for some help

Hello all, first I would like to thank this community. There is so much support and encouragement no matter what point of the journey you are on. I feel like I’ve read every post, tip, trick, and story out there. I am jealous but hopeful that I will eventually get to the fable super O.

This whole thing has opened me up to a world of new feeling that I never thought possible. My main problem is that I get more out of an Aless session then one using a toy. I just don’t seem to feel the direct feedback from the aneros on my prostate.

Straight male but I am no stranger to butt play. and as long as I have been jerking off I have been putting things in my ass. I get excited by the thought of anal play.

2 years ago I ordered a helix trident and started out with mindgasm lessons, and that really helped me to identify and target the muscles and have a strong control over them. I have been doing kegels for many years and consider my pelvic floor to be strong. Read more »

Erection stops or hinders tingling

Erection stops or hinders sensations.

As the title says its something that has happened quiet frequently in my sessions. I’ll start off flaccid, and ironically at the beginning the tingling is at its strongest then. From those strong tingling sensations even with the slightest of movement will increase, this has the adverse affect of giving me an erection due to how good it feels. It feels good up until a point when I’m near or fully hard that the tingling during kegels stops. At that point whenever I flex everything down there seems firm and tight. Is this normal? Is there a way to get those sensations back in this state? Like flex harder or softer? After a minute or 3 with nothing feeling good my erection goes away and the sensations come back. It kinda has a loop with this nut I never get fully hard again.

Also new break through last night. I think I had my first autofuck as my anus was clenching over and over again around my prostate stimulator, almost like it was trying to clench for me and I feel like I had no control over it as it was clenching way faster and rhythmically than I can usually due. Like a like 2 to 2.5 clenches per second. Was amazing!

I’ve stopped experiencing pleasure in prostate

I’ve been doing prostate play for maybe 3 or 4 months and like 2 months ago the pleasure has went away and I don’t feel much anymore. I used to be able to get pleasure by just doing kegels but now I get nothing. I used nipple play to increase pleasure as well but now all I get is a ticklish feeling and sometimes a build up of pleasure if the aneros is positioned right but then it decreases. Orgasms are still better when aneros is inserted but I just feel nothing in my prostate now. Is there anything i can do to get the pleasure back? I can’t smoke weed either btw.

Questions about “reverse kegels”

Can someone please explain what reverse kegels actually means? I understand squeezing and flexing my pc muscle and my anus… I just don’t know what this term is describing. Probably very much sophomoric and I should already know…
Thanks

Newbie’s first P-orgasm

I am not going to go into detail about the experience other than it is this out body warm humming that swallows your body and i had to cut it short because it was getting late. But I have a couple insights for anyone just beginning and getting a little jealous of these super O posts(I know i am).
1.Do nothing is better than over doing it with PC contractions
2. porn is distracting during a session. Watch/read erotica/porn before and try to take some mental snapshots for later.
3. Focus on breathing! and just simply notice pleasurable feeling.

Also i think that if you can string session together without getting sore helps because “dud” session is no longer a dud but are awakening up session and then you doing kegels during the down time period.

also also something i haven’t read so far about or maybe i missed it in the aneros forums but holy cannoli my abs are sore from all the spasming. I had to cut it short because of the later hour, but i was laying in my bead and i was still having spasms an hour later.

First Time Ever Using Anything Like This

I’m 54. I’ve never been into putting anything in my ass. It’s always been an exit only hole. However, over the last several months I’ve had the urge to try something different. The Helix Syn Trident arrived from Amazon today.

I used coconut oil as lube. I turned on some porn, got horny, lubed up everything, stood up in front of the sofa, bent over and inserted the toy. I was very surprised at how easy it went in! I’ve never been into putting things up my ass but this thing just went in with no problems at all!! Holy cow!! I did some reading on the forums while I was waiting for this to show up and knew not to expect very much this first time. I sat (Kind of laid back) back down on the sofa and continued watching porn. I didn’t even feel it in my ass. That also surprised me. Here I was sitting on the sofa with a toy in my ass and I didn’t even feel it! How is that possible? I started doing some kegels and could sort of feel it then. It felt ok I guess. Nothing to write home about or mind blowing (Not that I would write home about it anyway). I kept watching porn and eventually got off using my hand. I know, that’s not what’s supposed to happen here when you use the Helix Syn Trident. But damn, I was horny and needed release. The whole thing lasted probably 20 to 30 minutes. Read more »

Do nothing method or Mindgasm program?

Just wanted some opinions here. I’ve read that the do nothing, “no Kegels, no flexing, nothing is the way”, but others have said to do multiple mindgasm routines on YouTube. I’ve tried both and still have had little to no results. Anyone have any feedback on switching from one to the other and finding success?

Newbie Questions

I have the helix trident syn and I have been practicing with it and mindgasm. I think i am getting the hang of it. last night i was gently edging my prostate and suddenly i my heart rate jump and my whole body was vibrating. I relaxed my whole body to enjoy this wave but then i lost it. I am guess this was something near a P orgasm? Was i suppose to barely clinch to hold that feel?. Also Now during work its feels like my prostate is awake like it is just a small tickle or little vibration. If i do soft kegel exercises its feel good. is that normal or should i have finished by hand last night?