I got the Helix Syn Trident. I have been doing 2 hour session after my night shower. I will get these fluttering (best one i can think of) which seems like the beginning an orgasm but i can’t sustain it. I have been doing kegels during the day and trying to slowly tighten the sphincter while using the trident. Are there any place with a list of beginner tips?
Tag: Kegel Exercises
How to feel aroused
My drive has been fairly low, i’m 20 and i have abstained for a week now. I thought it would be fairly difficult but i havent had any urge to masturbate at all. I know being aroused and relaxed are the main components of aless. I can get fairly relaxed but I just cant get aroused enough. How do I focus on my arousal and how can i increase it. Im practicing my kegels and trying the mindgasm files. I cant seem to take the involuntaries to the next level. I get some flutters here and there but it doesnt lead to the muscles moving all by themselves.
I feel like I’ve had the perfect session
This afternoon I had possibly my most perfect session and I feel so lucky I just want to share it with you all.
It essentially started off in the morning when I woke up extremely horny. I did some deep breathing and kegels, let my self get even more aroused and then got up, had a really nice relaxing morning. By the afternoon my body was craving an aneros, I was really very aroused and had that tickly feeling coming from deep inside me.
Laid on my bed and did some deep breathing to calm my mind as it was a little frantic with how horny I was. I pre-lubed when I’d silenced my mind some more and then began to tease myself slowly. Nipples, thighs, hole. All got a good teasing until I was REALLY ready.
Even coating the Maximus in lube was enough to turn me on even more and inserting it was soo satisfying. Immediately had leg shaking and tingles around my hole as it settled in to place. More deep breathing. The tingles soon turned to pleasure and my anal canal was overcome by a warm and gentle pleasure as my thighs shook.
First HFDO?
Hello friends, here I am again. Today I am trying to understand what I’ve felt on my last session (a few hours ago).
First of all, I know that everyone has different experiences with this and nomenclature is just a way to simplify concepts that we are trying to communicate. But I really want to understand what I felt tonight, so I will try to explain.
Recently I started to felt and recognize the p-waves, feeling that pleasure and accepting that my prostate awoke and I started to rewire. Tonight I tried my vibrating prostate massager (it’s like a vice 2) in another position: with my legs more elevated than my body and watching porn. In a certain moment I started to feel some really good vibrations. I decided to (try) not pursue the feeling and continued to enjoy the moment. A few minutes later the sensations started to get really strong and good, and I closed my eyes, not focusing my attention on the porn anymore, to enjoy these sensations.
Then, I (think) felt an orgasm coming up. I remember that I was doing really strong kegels and contractions, holding up really strong and for as much time as I got. In a specific moment, I thought I was ready to orgasm. The feeling was very similar to a penile orgasm, but missing the sensation of ejaculating on the end. I had a few involuntary contractions, like when you have a penile orgasm and the dick moves up alone. When this passed, I was like “no, please, it was too good, come back”. It was like being on the edge of an abyss, just needing to make a leap of faith… and then going back. It felt incomplete, waiting for the feeling of ejaculating and this feeling never arriving.
Can’t feel Progasm. What’s next?
6’3” tall, slender male here. Experienced in anal play , toys etc. I do kegels regularly. Have worn my progasm for long sessions and just can’t feel it stimulating my prostate very well. Has anyone else come up short with an aneros shape in this way? Any recommendations on which model to try next?
Thanks!
Almost there..
I’ve been playing for a few years, and – apart from a couple of meh-sessions – it keeps getting better each time.
Three days ago, I experienced pleasurable shaking and “sweet” sensations below like never before over a period of at least half an hour. Even a bit overwhelming from time to time. It kept coming on and on, and my Aneros (first Eupho, then Progasm) seemed to have a mind of its own.
Not a super-O, I think, but not far from it, either. If someone had told me five years ago that my body was capable of producing this much pleasure on its own, I probably wouldn’t have believed them. So, yeah: It’s real.
Ingredients: Low expectations / no orgasm-chasing, nipple-play, binaural sounds, minimal clenching during session, no drugs/weed/alcohol, regularly doing my kegels.
Why do kegels help if I should be relaxed and let my muscles flutter?
The title. I feel like starting kegels would go a long way but can’t help but feel it seems counterintuitive – if I’m not going to be using a muscle, why does it need to be stronger? Isn’t the point of involuntaries the fact that the muscles get tired and start to flutter? Won’t making them stronger make that harder to happen?
have started my journey, maybe some clues
Hi there! Got very excited about mindful prostate play. Have been enjoying this kind of meditation for almost 2 weeks. It really gets me relaxed, wow…
A little bit of background: I’m gay, 22yo, bottom. So some feelings and cravings are not new for me 😅 I use my dildo every once in a while, and I know how ejaculatory orgasms feel this way… But I remember that I was always at some point when I was on the edge and couldn’t get over it (acceleration doesn’t help). So I get real sweat and all, a lot of precum craving for something more, so I usually need to finish it by hands. But then I found articles on anal orgasms and according to descriptions that what I was craving for all the time! So yeah then I found aneros, purchased progasm and here I am.
So far, I found the most comfortable position laying on my back, bent knees, feet flat, but over some time I just lay on my back flat. Ive started doing kegels recently, and it makes me horny af all the time, so I crave for the aneros all day haha. Today I tried mingasm, just really helped to separete out the muscles. Actually I can get some nice subtle feelings in my booty very easily during the day, I could feel what and where my prostate was and all, even before having aneros, but now its all sharpened a bit. Also, I found that my d is now very sensetive all the time (especially head) , even in a soft mode, idk if it’s OK.. Now I can get some shivers down there without aneros as well (question below). As for the session, I defenitely can feel a lot things, very subtle, sometime the d gets hard out of the blue, but then it dies out. Sometime I get some small kicks in my pelvic area (like prostate outside), and it turns into some body wave, but then dies out.
Seems like involuntaries are hard to separate out. I kinda figured how to separate sphincter and root of my d muscles. And when I contract the latter, it always starts shaking very tensely at the root of the d. And when I try to keep it there, it gets mentally hard to keep doing that, like it’s nice, but tiring. Sometimes half way letting it out I can get a feeling as if a needle pricks in a middle of sphincter and the d, and it gives some pleasant full body wave, which dies out quickly though. This is pretty much it. Can you please confirm if those are the involuntaries we’re after? Some ppl say that it must be subtle and like where the prostate and aneros meet..
Also, I found that watching any arousing stuff gets me very horny quickly, I’m kinda very sexy all day long (maybe hormones), is it better to not use any visual/audio stuff? Just focusing on feelings?
Maybe some other hints (maybe specifically for bottoms 😂)
Need Advice: Session always ends up in HFWO?
Hey guys I need some advice. I have an aneros style toy and I always start with light kegels and mindgasm. My sessions are usually about 45 minutes where the tension slowly builds then I start getting erect and then I cum (all hands free). I feel like this is keeping me from a true super O but I’m not sure what to do.
Once contractions start that’s usually when I get hard and orgasm happens soon after.
Any tips?
First time having multiple Super O’s – arousal is important!
I had my first Super-O about a month ago now and I’ve been able to achieve a Super O once in every two to three or more sessions I’d say. This week I’ve had a lot of free time and have been having 3-4 hour sessions every single day and it’s been amazing. So many different orgasms and feelings! I’ve been experimenting with different ways of preparing and changing things up in my sessions just to see how it is. Last nights was the best by a long way.
It’s been 10 days since I ejaculated and I can easily arouse myself to a fairly intense level. I often just dive straight in to my sessions but really took my time last night. Gave myself 90 mins to prep my body, which included pre-lubing, relaxing and reading a book until my mind was too distracted 🙂 then another 30-40 minutes of arousing and teasing myself. I touched my body, did PC/kegel exercises, teased myself with my progasm and it was great. It’s rare for me to pre-cum but I was lovely and wet and it was at that point I just *had* to start.
Laid on the floor with my legs on the bed, sort of like a Z shape. Inserted my Progasm and just relaxed… really savoured everything. The way it felt inside me, how good it felt to finally have what I was craving. Involuntaries started quickly, and then p-waves, and then my first prostate orgasm. I’d say this was within the first 15 mins. An hour or so went by that was filled with intense p-waves, a few prostate orgasms and a dry orgasm.