Aneros user in Atlanta, and I am wondering if anyone else is in Atlanta and interested in possibly meeting up for mutual meditation and Aneros sessions. If so, let me know. GWM in Midtown, but open to bi/straight guys.
Tag: Meditation
First time with any sort of prostate play, and I had p-waves for nearly 2 hours!
I’m in my late 30’s and I have had a sexual awakening of sorts. After a leg injury I’ve become a big time yoga practitioner and ended up really strengthening my PC muscles (unknowingly). Over time I noticed how much this helped with edging and through practice I have been able to have non enjaculatory orgasms. Totally changed my life and how I viewed sex as a man. Also worth noting I meditate on a regular basis and do breathing exercises daily.
I had heard a lot about prostate play and the “super O”. After going back and forth for a long time, I finally caved and purchased an Aneros Helix Trident to try out. What the hell, right?
So I started my session not knowing what the heck I was doing. I had a lot of problems getting the Aneros in, but after some breathing exercises and a lot of hits off the weed pen, I had that “welp I guess I got something up my butt” moment. It took me about 20 minutes of just trying stuff out to see if I could get any sort of pleasure from the experience.
Then I started to look at some porn on my phone, and that’s when the wheels got turning in my body. I took a bunch more hits, and then I started to get in the zone, like I do with edging with my penis. Eventually I got my legs moving and experienced some full on pleasure waves. Gentles soft moans, experimenting with moving my PC muscles, and really getting into it mentally.
A very detailed description of what it feels like and how I got there
Hello folks,
I’ve been using Aneros for about 6 years, but it wasn’t until two years ago that I finally got the hang of it.
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WHAT IT FEELS LIKE:
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The amount of pleasure it gives is insane. It’s completely outside the realm of normal experiences. It’s hard to quantify. It feels like it’s always increasing. It’s like my brain has a “current pleasure” and a “change in pleasure” readout, and both of them are maxed out.
If I try to remember how good it was, it’s like it doesn’t fit in memory. It’s like I have to take my past self’s word for it. And then, the next time I do it, I’m like, “Holy shit, that’s right! I had forgotten how good this was! Holy crap, this is amazing!”
When it first starts, it feels like a very weak inkling of an orgasm-like sensation. It has those deeply-satisfying, spine-tingling, heart-fluttering qualities, but not nearly as intense. Maybe on par with a good back massage. But then… it gets better… and better… and better… and it just doesn’t stop getting better. Ever. It doesn’t make sense. It feels like an illusion, like the motion aftereffect, or the [Shepard Tone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzNzgsAE4F0). Soon you lose track. It’s like watching one of those [scale of the universe](https://youtu.be/17jymDn0W6U?t=103) videos. You can maintain your bearings for a little while, but pretty soon, you’ve zoomed out so many times that you’ve lost all frame of reference. The pleasure might be 10x better than an orgasm, or 100x, who knows, it’s hard to say.
Minor Milestone with the Helix Syn
Hey guys! I have been a lurker in r/aneros and r/prostateplay for a long time. About a month ago, I finally decided to take the plunge and buy myself an aneros. After doing some research, I decided that the Helix Syn seemed like the best toy and the one that was most recommended for beginners. When I first got the helix, I was super excited and tried it several times over a couple weeks, with little (if any success). I had a totally free day today, so I decided to have some fun. I thought I’d kind of journal what happened and post it here to see if you all might have any tips or advice for me for the future. Sorry in advance for the long post.
This time, rather than blitzing through clean-up (I prefer to douche before playing in the backdoor, I know it isn’t strictly necessary, but it helps me to relax) and getting the toy in as fast as possible, I decided to take my time and try and be mindful during the cleanup process.
Should I take a break or see a Dr ? Or both ?
I have a progasm. I was using it almost every day this past week. I’ve been getting to really good places and practicing keegles daily. I haven’t achieved a full O yet but I’ll get there soon.
In almost every session I end it with a great moment of masturbation then ejaculation. I’ve enjoyed the meditation of it all and the discipline of working through it. Then ending it with some pleasure. I find it really relaxing.
Now in the last 3 days my prostate at times feels kinda sharp or stingy when I’m not using my Aneros. Like it’s cramped up and sore. Then as it feels sore I have an urge to fill it up again with my program. It’s not super painful but noticeable. I hope I’m not overworking it. I’d do this nightly for 3 hours if I could. What’s the proper frequency and duration for this activity?
no motivation, 3 years of trying.
I just can’t do it. I am so close to giving up all together. 3 years of nothing. Made a few waves every now and again but they are not consistent. I’ve never even had involuntaries. I’ve been consistently playing at least a few times a month for the last 3 years and it’s just so disheartening not being able to do something i’ve put this many hours into.
I’ve tried it all, read probably over 1000 posts and guides on it but I just can’t do it.
I’m not sure what it will take but I just don’t know what to do, I have experimented with so many toys and positions, breathing techniques and meditation. They have just not worked for me.
Asleep during first HFO…
So I’ve been using Helix/Progasm a while without much joy other than occasional increases in heart rate. I read something yesterday about using the helix ‘inverted’ so I thought I’d try it! Well bugger me after trying to relax for an hour or so as I drifted off I had my first full HFO. The only other results I’ve had previously were also as I was drifting off. Clearly some part of my conscious is either blocking progress or I’m not relaxed enough. Any recommendations for relaxing? Tried breathing & meditation etc. Illegal drugs inc week are not an option for me… TIA.
Can someone describe their successful session for me pls
It’s just that I’ve been on this journey for like three months now and I still can’t tell if I’ve gotten a pwave or not.
I just wanna cross reference with y’all on what I’m suppose to look for
I’ve been trying to meditate during each session with varying success, mainly my adhd preventing me from focusing for more than 10 minutes, my thoughts keeps drifting.
And even if I think I’m doing something, the sensation I do feel feel like a singular dot pleasure /pressure laser focused on my prostate, beside that I’ve haven’t encounter any other sensation.
Thanks in advance
have started my journey, maybe some clues
Hi there! Got very excited about mindful prostate play. Have been enjoying this kind of meditation for almost 2 weeks. It really gets me relaxed, wow…
A little bit of background: I’m gay, 22yo, bottom. So some feelings and cravings are not new for me 😅 I use my dildo every once in a while, and I know how ejaculatory orgasms feel this way… But I remember that I was always at some point when I was on the edge and couldn’t get over it (acceleration doesn’t help). So I get real sweat and all, a lot of precum craving for something more, so I usually need to finish it by hands. But then I found articles on anal orgasms and according to descriptions that what I was craving for all the time! So yeah then I found aneros, purchased progasm and here I am.
So far, I found the most comfortable position laying on my back, bent knees, feet flat, but over some time I just lay on my back flat. Ive started doing kegels recently, and it makes me horny af all the time, so I crave for the aneros all day haha. Today I tried mingasm, just really helped to separete out the muscles. Actually I can get some nice subtle feelings in my booty very easily during the day, I could feel what and where my prostate was and all, even before having aneros, but now its all sharpened a bit. Also, I found that my d is now very sensetive all the time (especially head) , even in a soft mode, idk if it’s OK.. Now I can get some shivers down there without aneros as well (question below). As for the session, I defenitely can feel a lot things, very subtle, sometime the d gets hard out of the blue, but then it dies out. Sometime I get some small kicks in my pelvic area (like prostate outside), and it turns into some body wave, but then dies out.
Seems like involuntaries are hard to separate out. I kinda figured how to separate sphincter and root of my d muscles. And when I contract the latter, it always starts shaking very tensely at the root of the d. And when I try to keep it there, it gets mentally hard to keep doing that, like it’s nice, but tiring. Sometimes half way letting it out I can get a feeling as if a needle pricks in a middle of sphincter and the d, and it gives some pleasant full body wave, which dies out quickly though. This is pretty much it. Can you please confirm if those are the involuntaries we’re after? Some ppl say that it must be subtle and like where the prostate and aneros meet..
Also, I found that watching any arousing stuff gets me very horny quickly, I’m kinda very sexy all day long (maybe hormones), is it better to not use any visual/audio stuff? Just focusing on feelings?
Maybe some other hints (maybe specifically for bottoms 😂)
Help me take that next step
Hello! I’ve been working through my sessions, making incredible progress, and feel like I’m at a point where I might need some advice. I’ve been able to achieve p-waves regularly and get to where I feel like a prostate orgasm is within reach but I’m unable to get over the threshold. I can achieve a growing feeling of tingling, warmth, pleasure, arousal, involuntaries, and large muscle quaking but seem to have plateaued. It feels like “edging” but without the conclusion. Here are two quotes from the wiki I’ve been thinking about in relation to what I’m feeling and what I’m doing:
>If you feel something building don’t hammer it with a strong contraction. Instead approach it very gingerly…
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>When you feel encouraging sensations, think more in terms of supporting them or bolstering them with some supportive contractions and rhythmic breathing. Once the orgasm is imminent, you may employ stronger contractions to constructive ends.
I’ll get to a point where my entire lower body is quaking; the glutes, hamstrings, and quads are going crazy and I feel the near-orgasmic pleasure building and I believe this is where, perhaps, I’m making some mistakes. At this point, I feel like any light squeezing is impossible and I can only contract tightly, entirely bridging my waist (I prefer to be on my back with my legs slightly bent and my feet flat). When I get here, it feels very much like a penile orgasm build-up (but originating from the prostate) and I think my mind it telling me to “push the orgasm to completion” in a way similar to typical masturbation; something I’m aware isn’t the recommended approach. I’d like to just let it happen and take me over but when I get to this point and focus on my breathing, a gentle approach, and the sensations, that warm, tingling, building sensation seems to just fade away.