Tag: P-waves

Is tensing up stopping me going further? And why is it better at the start?

Been at this whole thing a while.

I feel like the last few sessions I’ve had have been really good, but there’s two things I’m wondering.

I tend to notice when I feel a p-wave coming on that I tend to tense up my muscles, especially in my legs. When I release, the pleasure tends to dissipate. Should I be trying to not tense up or should I just go for it?

I’m also curious if anyone else has this experience. When I put the toy in I often find the first 15 minutes of the session are where the strongest feelings are for me. After that it kind of just tapers off. Does anyone else have this and maybe a suggestion for getting out of the funk and carrying the good feelings on?

Cheers

hopeless and desperate for advice

I’ve read countless posts about what to do and what not to do and I still just cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong. Very brief background information: I have experienced what I think were P-waves twice in one session but never again- I had just woken up and was feeling a little horny. Also I use aneros helix trident

I have been making sure of the following:
– I’m super relaxed physically (I often do a session after waking up)
– I hold a ≈50% contraction and my muscles do move involuntarily
– In the occasion I do feel pleasure, I don’t change what I’m doing physically in a way that might ruin it
– I lay on my back sometimes with my legs bent or on my side with my legs up to my stomach
– I stop after 20 minutes at minimum or an hour and a half at maximum
• I don’t touch my dick
– I (mostly) do not watch porn during sessions
– I try not to have the mindset of “chasing” an orgasm

My guesses as to what could be causing an issue:
– I jack off maybe once a day or every other day
– I don’t get nearly as horny as I used to a couple years ago as a teenager
– I’m not always super focused on breathing
– My mind wanders and I am not always thinking sexual thoughts during sessions Read more »

Tingling sensation

So I had another session today, and I think I experienced some mild p waves, but nothing huge. I do feel like I’m making progress.

During the waves, my nerve endings at the bottom of my feet, down my arms, in behind my ears and even in my teeth felt so charged. Like all of my skin felt like it was buzzing and tingling.

I did cum but about an hour after the session, I still have mild sensations and tingling in those areas. Like my skin is still pretty tingly and I the bottoms of my feet very sensitive.

Does it take a while for the sensations to come down? It’s been almost an hour and I’m trying to focus at work haha.

What did I just experience? is there a name for this?

My wife and I used the Aneros vice together for the first time. I felt that it was different from when we were making out because I was incredibly turned on and so hard. The pulses just seemed to hit harder. So after a while of making out and her using her own vibrator on herself and cumming, she mounted me and slowly started riding me.

This also felt different as when she moved, it didn’t really feel like the pleasure was coming from my penis but from my entire pelvis. we kissed and she moved up and down very, very slowly. many times i stopped her when I wanted to extend the pleasure. Finally I felt it building and building until the pleasure washed over me. I felt that I was orgasming a few seconds before I felt my cock pulsing inside her. only after a few seconds did i feel my cock pulsing which signaled an ejaculation. I felt intense pleasure in my body and legs and an orgasm that felt better than any i’ve had before and lasted equally long. maybe close to 30 seconds. Afterwards, it didn’t stop abruptly like an orgasm usually does but faded. Read more »

WTF happened to me?

Yesterday I had the place to myself and decided to put in a session with my Maximus. I had taken a few drops of HHC tincture earlier on, and was feeling the effects. I felt very relaxed and quite aroused. I popped in the Maximus and laid down on the bed, on my side with one leg pulled up to my chest.

Up until now I haven’t had any kind of orgasm with Aneros toys, so I can’t be sure what has happened. I can only say that I never felt this much pleasure in my life, I was literally moaning aloud which rarely happens to me.

I usually get very pleasurable feelings during my sessions, but I have never experienced a P-wave. When I relax, my breathing tends to become slower and shallower. However, having read multiple times that deep and rhythmic breathing is key, this time I made a conscious effort to keep breathing slowly and deeply. What happened next is nothing short of amazing.

As I felt the pleasurable feelings grow in my prostate, my breathing went faster and even deeper, up until the point where I was a bit concerned I was about to hyperventilate. But I decided to be curious, go with it and see what happens next. I mentally told myself that I have permission to experience this limitless pleasure. Read more »

I think I had my first Super-O.. it was intense – and the tricks that helped me

Let’s talk about the orgasm (Super-O), how I achieved it, my “tricks” and my questions:

Disclaimer: Everything has actually been done *without* an aneros as I’m out of home, just pure muscles. No touching and zero other drugs involved. An aneros might have intensified the experience.

**Super-O:**
I have never experienced anything comparably in my life before. This orgasm lasted for about 5 minutes and my entire body was shaking, every muscle in my entire body felt stimulated. I felt lightweight.

The shaking, my body felt so stimulated that I couldn’t move at all. I tried it but all the sensations were too intense. My mouth was wide open as I couldn’t realize what is happening right now (and I’d have moaned to death if this flat wasn’t shared).

Very interestingly, my dick became rock hard and pumped up like never before. This is probably what the aneros wiki describes as “engorgement”. The muscular flexing across the entire body intensified the penile feeling and a few drops came out. But compared to the rest of the body, it only played a minor role.

When I then released my PC muscle, another wave of feelings I can’t described flew over my body. It just felt glorious.

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**How I achieved it:**

I mostly laid on my back, legs angled comfortably. I aroused myself by looking at hot pictures. I think videos are too distracting and if I want to be aroused, pictures are way more effective. While doing so, I switched between contracting my PC muscle and sphincter muscle. Contracting both at once, switching up. Read more »

Lost it!

I’ve been using Aneros for a few years now and absolutely love it! I first started around 2017(ish) but it was during the pandemic that I really started to invest in it properly – living alone and all that. It took me a few years to rewire but I followed all the advice, stayed patient and I gradually improved. There were a few ups and downs, a few duff sessions, but overall I could really feel my progress. Eventually, I was able to ride those p-waves, would moan the house down as I experienced intense HFDO one after another, and would eventually climax with an intense HFWO. Complete sessions could be as quick as 20 minutes if I was pressed for time, or I could ride the pleasure for over an hour. I felt like I was really beginning to master it and I loved it!

I now have a partner who lives with me and my sex life is very active, so my frequency using Aneros has decreased a lot over the past few years. However, I still use it whenever I have the house to myself and despite my decreased frequency, I’m still able to reach the same intense pleasures like when I was using it regularly. Well that was until recently… Read more »

Just had my first P wave !!

As the title say, I just had my first P wave. It will be long sorry…

Before today, I didn’t know what it was exactly and I read some post who said: “when you feel it, you know that IT IS”

I fought i had many pleasure with the aneros but got damn I never felt something like that.

To achieve it I did what I read on this comunity: Concentrate on what you feel (without headphones and porn it works better for me) i just ignored my d*ck at all and only focus on the prostate or “the spot” that the aneros was massaging. It was good and the goodness gets higher sometimes and lower other times.

BUT this time I didn’t give up when the sensation got lower. I just focused on my prostate and then, suddenly I began to feel something spread into my legs. Like they were being contracted but I just didn’t move at all. I was breathing more and more heavy. And this “contraction” left a bit then come back from my feet and just BOOM spread to my whole body. It was blissfull. I was just having an amazing orgasm. My d*ck was still soft tho. Read more »

Vibration against helix syn trident

I wanted to see what adding some vibration felt like so I charged my massage gun and placed it against the hekix syn while inserted.

Immediately I felt my prostate begin to dance around and it eventually my prostate was pulling in the massage gun closer and then releasing, closer and then released.

Very cool. I’m new to this, no major P waves yet but hopefully soon.

How do I separate the pressure from the pleasure?

How do I separate the pressure from the pleasure? With aneros or without it, either by little contractions or just breathing into the area, I start feeling something around my prostate but 90% of the time it is just some pressure and very scarcely it turns into pure pleasure of little waves. To me it feels as if the muscles in the area are too tight even though I am trying to relax them at all times. As if the pressure is blocking the pleasure from flowing freely… Also other pressure around my ass/ buttocks/thighs feeling remains for hours after a session.

I feel like this is the main issue hindering my progress and keeping me from having P waves and HFDOs (never had any after years of trying). Hopefully someone understands what I am talking about here. I feel as if I fix this pressure thing I will be good to go.

Any idea on how to separate the prostate/muscle pressure from the pure prostate pleasure who had the same problem? Big thanks to those who contribute some advice!