Tag: P-waves

Super-O mindset?

I’ve been doing prostate play on and off over many years, without getting to the Super-O. Except once. I had been doing a session, initially without much success. At a certain point I dozed off, and as the toy got caught up in an involuntary contraction, something special happened. My prostate was sending waves of pleasure along my spine towards my head. That lasted a few minutes. Heavenly. Not full body shaking, just these highly pleasurable waves. This was over 10 years ago, and I’ve been unable to reproduce that sensation ever since.

Generally, I’m quite impatient (waiting in line is torture) and I have a very active and analytical mind. I’ve tried to go into hypnotic trance for a long time, using different files, but without any success. Even an IRL session with a certified hypnotist (just for helping me to relax) went nowhere. It would seem that I’m just unable to “let go”. Also, it takes a long time for me to fall asleep at night (30-60 minutes on average).

Where am I going with this? I’m wondering if I’m “doing it wrong” somehow. I’m not expecting a miracle solution, but I’d be interested if there are other people like me out there, and if they were able to “get there” somehow. What did you do to relax? Did you use a specific technique? Read more »

First try with the Maximus Syn

Usual prep and started with the Eupho syn and got some good P-waves then moved on to my new Maximus. I like the feeling much better than the original which always felt just a touch abrasive to me. The P-wave returned and then slowly built to a Super-O. Much better than with the original! Had to cut my session short so didn’t get a lot of time with it so can’t wait until I can give it a longer shot.

First HFDO!

Following on from previous posts about pwaves always ending in HFWO, I experienced my first definite HFDO! Thanks to all of your helpful advice received.

My main point would be that it occurred in a session 2 days after ejaculating through sex. I only usually use my aneros if I’ve not cum for about a week and feel particularly horny. So I’m the urge to squirt cum wasn’t there, and neither was any expectation of orgasm. I had some free time to myself so thought I’d have a play. I was relaxed and quite early on started experiencing pleasurable pwaves. I wasn’t thinking about cumming, just going with the flow. Then (I think) my 4th pwave didn’t subside as usual, it just kept building and building. I was literally losing my mind with the pleasure, lost the sense of where I was, what I was doing and was shaking, writhing around, grabbing bedsheets and growling! And then just a release, lying still and panting heavily wondering what has just happened. I then realised I hadn’t been thinking about my dick at all and felt no need to cum by ejaculation. After a minute or so I started another pwave, less intense this time and I ended the session.

I’ve had a couple of pleasurable sessions since, no HFDO or urge to HFWO, just pwaves which – as someone posted before, to me feel like the start of a HFDO but without the duration or intensity. I need to keep in mind not to chase and go with the flow and hopefully more HFDOs will follow 😃

New user, struggling to get p waves

I recently purchased a progasm to experience the aneros product, I have played around with massaging but only when I am also jacking off, I have also played with pc exercises and I feel like I am halfway decent at them, whether I put the aneros in and play with contractions, I get only minimal prostate stimulation, if I move it with my hands I get much more and I can also feel it rub my prostate if I induce an orgasm with my penis, any tips on how to start getting some p-waves or really just any stimulation?

Rewiring? Is this possible?

Ok, so I’m one of the extremely lucky ones in that I received P-waves on my second ever session. Think my first super-o was on the 4th session. And now, only 3 short months, I seem to be able to get at least one super with each session.

The only downside, it has been harder to achieve conventional climax via either piv or masturbation.

Until this week. I have only had hfdo. But this week I had my first hfwo.. and it was glorious.

Now, as crazy as it sounds, I seem to be able to take a fork in the road once I start an aneros session and actually steer it toward either hfdo or hfwo.

I also seem to be able to squeeze the prostate without aneros during piv and have a much easier time achieving piv wet orgasm that feels almost as strong as hfwo with aneros.

I can now also stimulate penis during regular aneros play – and can have hfdo while stimulating (but not as strong, and it never leads to stacked or super os…

Anyone else able to control like this?

Intense P waves, but no HFDO

Thanks to practicing the the first few Mindgasm lessons, I now find I can start off on my p-wave journey fairly easily when relaxed and horny – ie not ejaculated for a few days. Lube up, slide in the Aneros trident helix and with some gentle contracting of pelvic floor and sphincter muscles start building pleasure resulting in long, body shaking, heavy breathing waves of pleasure. If I really allow myself to lose control, the 3rd or 4th wave is so intense that the involuntary contractions become really firm, causing a wet orgasm. It literally feels as if the cum is being squeezed out of my prostate. This is immensely satisfying, but I want to carry on fucking myself silly! I can sometimes consciously stop this by relaxing all muscles, but then lose the wave and the orgasm. I’ve posted similar before but any HFDO tips would be much appreciated 🙂

Ever changing definition

I recently posted about the pillow between the legs being the best advice I’d had yet. Well that has certainly led to a redefinition of what I’ve been experiencing over the past couple of years.

When I started my journey I went through the usual stages. Feeling nothing, to periods of intense contractions which I’d assumed were p-waves, to intense abdominal contractions which I’d assumed where some form of prostate orgasm They had been my measure of success to date and while some had a better feeling than others, they never really matched the hype.

I’d read somewhere that orgasm and ejaculation are different and that the orgasm usually immediately preceeds ejaculation. Breaking that down in my head and compartmentalising the two, I figured that intense pleasure just before reliance must be the orgasm.

With my new found positional knowledge and waking up to an empty bed the other morning I thought it was an ideal time for a little pleasure. I grabbed my Progasm Ice and quickly slipped it in, closed my eyes and relaxed. Pretty soon the involuntary contractors started and I quickly had my usual abdominal contractions. Happy with where I was at, I tried to get back to sleep. All of the involuntary contractions had stopped and I was just happy within myself. Read more »

Where to focus on?

Hey,

Most of the time my pleasureable sensations are located at or right below the penis. I can build the sensations to get pleasure waves and even dry orgasms – but no Super-O so far.

One day though the pleasurable sensations where located in the rectum, right the position where the aneros touches the rectal walls and prostate. This sensation was so much more pleasureable and it felt like I could reach the Super-O that way. Whenever the massager moved, I felt the movements very distinctly (while the movements almost weren’t noticable the sessions before) and with every milimeter of movement, I felt intense pleasure, located in the rectum (not at the penis this time).

That only happened once and I think it was actuall prostate pleasure (contrary to the pleasure felt at the penis).

Now my question is: Should I focus on the sensations at the penis (which are very easy to induce) or should I focus my awareness at the rectum, to bring the rectal prostate pleasure back?

To the folks who are fully rewired: Where do you usually feel your pleasure? At the penis or in your rectal walls where the massager touches the prostate?

I’m confused.

Chakras??

So I’ve been thinking a lot more on this ever since I’ve posted the other day. Why so many positive self care changes happening in my life ever since I started focusing on my prostate? Here’s my theory: Chakras.

Hear me out on this…
Could it be possible that chakras are in fact real ? If they are then we are all currently very focused on the ‘root’ chakra. (It’s allegedly located in the ass.)

According to ancient and modern texts the root chakra is the power house/ energy source that is responsible for safety, grounding and stability. They say it is the foundation of your body to flow or vibe.

“As you work to align the root chakra, you will allow energy to flow freely through your body, establishing your connection to the earth and your surroundings. You may feel an increased attachment to yourself and your home as you ground yourself—physically, mentally and emotionally.”

Everything You Need to Know About the Root Chakra

Here’s an even crazier thought. There are 6 more chakras located vertically from head to tailbone.

So what if by participating in anal / prostate play I have inadvertently stimulated a spiritual- physical thing called a chakra and that this chakra happens to deepen and strengthen my attachment to myself? Then as a result of being more connected to myself I notice things that need attention. Read more »

2 years in and finally hit the super O

After over two years of stick-to-itness the work paid off tenfold in one glorious moment.

The things that were drastically different were:

A) 2:1 thc/cbd gummies
B) hotel room
C) binaural audio (YouTube search binaural beats sexual penetration)

I gave myself a lot of time to play and get aroused listening to other dirty talk and audio things. I thought I was having super o’s but they just weren’t climactic enough. I would call them mini hfdo’s. Probably an hour of so of p waves. Then I took 5 minutes to regroup and put on those binaural sounds and I took off like a rocket!

I’ve read the posts of uncontrollable screaming. I couldn’t help but laugh my ass off later as I reflected on what I sounded like. I went full soprano doing vocal trills (I’m a vocalist, but not that kind lol).

This wasn’t dry though, it ended wet which kinda broke my heart as I so badly wanted right back in. But I was so exhausted another may have killed me…

Thanks to all of you for sharing your journeys and tips!