Tag: Perineum

“Edging Every Night?”

Background
I raised a question on the forum recently. It had to do with “edging” frequency and duration. I generally do not edge all that often since this action usually precipitates in me the dreaded “blue-balls”. However, it seems clear to me now that in fact I do “edge” and often—almost every night! Astounding? How you may ask. Let me explain……

Night-time Edging
Usually, I retire for the night wearing only pajamas. Nothing unusual there. But it is what happens in the middle of the night that needs an explanation. I practice semen retention (SR) all the time now. In fact, I am currently in Day 4. I know that SR helps to boost my testosterone level and I can feel it. It also aids me in my Aneros sessions.

Every healthy guy gets night-time erections*—-they come like clockwork to help keep his penis healthy. They are good and beneficial. But in my case, some of these (particularly the last one) are so strong and so arousing that they wake me up. This morning, I awoke (or rather was awakened) by a rock-hard erection and a close to PONR feeling that lasted I believe at least 15 minutes while I was awake (unknown time while I was asleep). If you’ve ever experienced this, you know the feeling. Every little movement, every little “twitch” seems to propel me ever so closer to that PONR and an ejaculation! I can feel pressure building-up in my perineum and my prostate. It feels like an automatic “edging” session. What to do? Is there any solution? Read more »

Session 4

Today’s session was better than Monday’s, but still not quite as good as either of the first two. I think the main reason these last two have not been as good is my level of arousal. I think I must have been more aroused the first two times. I was more aroused today than on Monday, and that helped, but I was also tired. I went to bed late last night, I woke up early this morning, and I exercised more than usual. So I think I was a bit drained as well, which offset some of my arousal.

I did a couple things differently this time:
– I used an eye mask to keep out the daylight. That was helpful. I did see light, but more a “seeing stars” kind of light due to the stimulation I was getting from my Aneros in the more intense bits.
– I warmed the lube and Aneros beforehand. That made things more comfortable in the beginning

I began my session more relaxed than on Monday. This was probably partially just because I was tired, but I also avoided thinking about work or other stress-inducing topics and generally tried to remain relaxed an mellow from the time I took my post-workout shower and the time I began my session. This helped me get “in the zone” more quickly. I was able to shut out the outside world and focus on what my body was feeling. The eye mask helped with this as well. Read more »

Session 3

I had my second Aneros session this morning. Let me preface my recounting of it with a few admissions of guilt:
– It was a very long session. I went against the advice of more experienced users who recommended sticking closer to 30 minutes. All told, I had my Aneros in for 3.5 hours.
– It was not actually my second time using the Aneros. I slipped it in one other time between this session and the first as a way of increasing arousal during sex with my spouse. But I don’t really count that as a “session” because I wasn’t focused on the specific sensations the Aneros may have been generating. I wasn’t practicing Aneros.
– Which leads to my third and final confession: After having done that, I was advised by someone to keep Aneros sessions and sex with someone else (or masturbation) separate until I had more experience. I think this advice makes sense and I will follow it in the future, but I didn’t follow it this morning.

They say confession is good for the soul. I don’t know about that, really, but I do know that I want this blog to be as truthful and accurate as possible. Maybe others will learn from my experiences. I hope that I will also learn, both by putting the experiences into words, which forces me to think more deeply about them, and by looking back at the mistakes and successes I have along the way. So yes, at the risk of shame and public recrimination, I will freely admit when I do something that may be unwise or counterproductive. Read more »

First Session

I got a chance to try out my Helix Trident. Here are some of my thoughts from this first experience.

My first impression upon unboxing my Helix Trident was that it was a LOT smaller than I was expecting. I bought the Helix because it was described as having a “Larger head size for more direct pressure on the prostate.” I was expecting something, well, larger. I guess I had no real frame of reference. I admit to being skeptical that I’d really feel much of anything from something so seemingly diminutive. It’s certainly the smallest thing that I’ve inserted in my rear for pleasure other than my finger in a very long time.

I wasn’t sure which lube to use. I know that’s a common question and the answer varies greatly from person to person. For anal sex and for other toys, I really like the water-based variety of Boy Butter. It is a cream or lotion consistency, which I find makes application much easier. It dissolves easily in water, so cleanup is not a problem, but it also doesn’t dissipate, evaporate, or absorb into my skin as quickly as other lubes I have used. However, it also isn’t quite as slick as liquid lubes I’ve used. I find this is a good thing for other anal toys and for anal sex, where some amount of friction (the “right” amount) is actually desirable, but perhaps not for the Aneros, where free mobility is key. So I opted for Shibari silicone lube, which I prefer for my Fleshlight. It’s slicker and runnier than the Boy Butter and is probably a better fit for use with the Aneros. I may in the future try some of both, by first pre-lubing my rectum with Shibari and coating the Aneros with the Boy Butter, just for grins. Read more »

Some History

I first heard of the fabled hands-free orgasm about 10 years ago while chatting on IRC. An eccentric guy I chatted with occasionally claimed that he could have orgasms while receiving anal sex from his partner without any stimulation to his penis, and then afterward could come again while fucking his boyfriend. He took this magical ability for granted, seeming very surprised that I could not accomplish the same feat.

I tried to get him to explain how it worked, but the best he could manage was a vague description of “pushing” somehow while being penetrated. I honestly wasn’t sure he wasn’t just making things up. It seemed too good to be true. Everyone knows that guys can only come once and that they have to wait out the refactory period before they can have another orgasm, right? And climaxing without touching your cock is a fantasy acted out in porn but seldom found in the real world, isn’t it?

That’s what I thought anyway at the time. I dismissed his stories as unrealistic after being unable to get even close to what he described. But I never forgot those stories or the subtle hunger I had to experience those things. Read more »

“Anatomical Delights Of A Male”

Introduction
No sessions for a couple of days now. I am in a new Day 3 of SR and just relaxing and enjoying my maleness. While in bed this morning, wearing my Mueller “chastity cup” I began to dwell (like a meditation) on a few things. They all seemed to have something in common: the male anatomy. So here is the essence of that story…..

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Male Anatomy 101
Of course, we all have a penis, two testicles, a scrotum and a prostate. Males are very sensual creatures; we are sexually stimulated mainly by touch or sight. Whether we touch our own cocks or have that pleasure performed by someone (or something) else, we derive extreme orgasmic satisfaction from our erections and ejaculations. Need I say any more?

But there are other things unique to our male anatomy that can give us great sexual pleasure. Among them are prostate stimulation and perineal stimulation. Read more »

Sunday morning Aneros session, September 9

Hi guys,

I haven’t been posting much lately because while I still have Aneros sessions about three times a week, they are so enjoyable that they are hard to describe.

However I had a session that was one of my best. It lasted about an hour and half. I used in order my favorite Aneros models: MGX, Maximus, Progasm ICE, and Tempo.

We have been having very rainy weather all day today, a good day to day home and relax a bit.

For the last several months, I have been wearing a jock and cup to bed and diddling my nipples. Diddling my nipples and wearing a jock and cup put me at ease at night and lull to sleep. Many mornings I wake up sexually aroused.

I arose at 5 a.m. to survey the weather forecast on the WeatherChannel.com. Sure enough we had a very rainy Sunday forecast. So stayed home out of the rain and didn’t go to church. I also diddled my nipples a great deal while viewing erotic pics on tumblr. For the last couple months, I can induce Super-O’s though nipple diddling and Kegeling. I experienced several amazing Super-O’s in this fashion this morning.

Finally in the 6 o’clock hour I went outdoors braving the rain to get some breakfast from our neighborhood 7 Eleven. I returned home twenty minutes later and had some breakfast before having my session at 7:15. Read more »

“Chastity To The Max!”

Background
I decided to sleep in my XO “chastity cup” overnight. This is probably the most comfortable cup I have. I got a good night’s rest; about 3:30 AM I awoke to an incredibly strong erection within the cup! And for the next 40 minutes or so, I struggled with a strong yearning to ejaculate! Honestly, if it weren’t for the cup, I probably would have ejaculated. That PONR feeling was so strong and intense that I doubt I could even resist it. As I squirmed-about in bed, my cock was being slightly stimulated within the cup. But not enough to induce an ejaculation. So, once again, the “chastity cup” saved the day!

Discussion
First and foremost, a “chastity cup” prevents masturbation and ejaculation. After all, the cup (as it it used for chastity) is not there to protect the male genitals from injury, it is there for a completely different purpose. And it performs that function well! With a throbbing, aching erection, an ejaculation would be most welcome! But there is an impediment: a solid barrier to stop any touching and any masturbation on my part. The cup is anatomically-shaped so that it cradles my scrotum, perineum and erect cock. It works very well. I am prohibited from masturbating. It is an intense denial of pleasure.

Conclusion
When the erection subsided, I am still in chastity. But being in Day 6 of SR, my T-level is definitely on the rise! I can feel it! I would like to ejaculate! I feel like I want to ejaculate! My cock is aching for a release! Darn chastity cup gets in the way! Read more »

For Me, “Chastity Cups” Hit All The Right Marks. Here are 10 Reasons Why…..

Background
Wide-awake in bed early this morning, I contemplated a session but did not initiate one. Instead, I began to dwell on what it is about “chastity cups” that is so appealing to me. And my head was suddenly filled with a myriad of reasons. Let me explain some of them…

Reason #1
It feels good!
IMO, nothing feels as good as a “cup” that envelops my manhood. By definition, the cup has to touch, cradle and protect all the vital male sex organs which can be easily damaged through an inadvertent kick (like from a martial arts maneuver) or contact with a sports projectile (like a baseball or hockey puck). That particular area of our anatomy is the epitome of our sexuality.

Reason #2
It massages my prostate.
What I like about wearing a cup is the way that the bottom of the cup is designed to cradle and protect my perineum. It puts gentle pressure on that area and feels great! It gently provides an external stimulation of my prostate. It does this just by wearing it.

Reason #3
I can sleep in it.
Wearing a cup to bed at night at least for me is very natural. It just feels “right”—no pain, no discomfort. There are numerous brands of athletic cups on the market and I have about six of them. Each one has a different “signature” and they feel slightly different when worn. Of course, I don’t wear one every night; that would get boring! But if I am in the mood, the cup becomes a perfect night-time pacifier! Read more »

Aneros Eupho Trident Review

I have been meaning to log on to write this for a while now but haven’t really had time. I have only been getting maybe 1-2 sessions in a week for the last month or so. Really not as much time as I would like. I picked up the eupho trident about a month ago and its been a regular in my rotation. Yes, I have a large collection of Aneros toys, and depending on my mood and what my prostate is craving I will pull from the toy box.
Back to the Eupho Trident. First, compared to the syn version, and above the others in the Trident line, the Eupho is one mobile, comfortable piece pleasure. I have put alot of toys in my butt and this is the most comfortable prostate toy to wear around the house. I actually have it in right now.
The Eupho Trident or ET for short compared to the syn version has similar complaints. The syn version has the annoying handle, useless perineum tab and the worst of all dries out to quickly. Like Prelube is required and still isn’t enough for long sessions. I only use waterbased lube, and really who wants to be in the middle of a set of in-voluntaries and have their lube dry up. The ET moves better, is more comfortable and doesn’t dry out nearly as fast. If you are in the market for a Eupho, but the ET version its worth it.
The ET compared the Eupho Helix. The Eupho Trident moves and dances around the prostate. Lightly touching it sending waves of pleasure. The Eupho Helix, almost rubs, almost milks and contacts firmly. They both provide pleasure and are my go to Prostate toys. I did find the Eupho Trident had more of a learning curve due to its less definite contact. So Newbie, buy the Eupho Helix. Anything after try the Eupho. Like I said earlier the fun is in the Journey.
I will compare the ET to the Eupho Maximus. The Maximus fills, and I mean fills my ass. Its not uncomfortable, but gives a nice full feeling. I reserve this for when I am looking for something way different. The ET will dance and tease the prostate, the Maximus, contacts firmly, and will rub it with every contraction. Both give will give me a super o. I like to use the Maximus then the Eupho. I find it stretches me out a little and gives the Eupho a chance to really move.
I know everyone wants to know what the ET is like in use. In the 10 minutes or so since I inserted it and started contractions. The same amount of time it has taken me to write this. I have a nice erection, and can feel definite leaking of precum. Actually have a wet spot on my naked belly.
With every little contraction, I feel the warmth deep in my belly. I feel the massager lightly brushing my prostate, teasing and moving contacting my prostate in whatever way I feel. I can almost roll it side to side or rock it front to back or do them both at the same time. In a way writing this review fully naked with the prostate massager im writing about sitting in my ass teasing my prostate the entire time was arousing. As the I fight back the in voluntaries to finish my blog, I cant help but think the Eupho Trident is my new favorite.