Tag: Perineum

“A Moaning-Fest With Helix-Trident!”

Introduction
Early-morning session with the Helix-Trident! I decided to lube-up with Boy Butter this time. Session got off to a great start; I started moaning right from the start! The Helix hit my prostate’s sweet spot immediately and never let it go! My moaning continued and so did the auto-f**k contractions! I find that the Helix-T is one of the best overall prostate massagers in my collection. Due to its design, it seems to target my prostate exactly where it should. I am helpless to avoid or negate its effects.

Session
Sessions with the HT always are longer than I realize. This one was a full 30 minutes. Some, but not a lot of precum. I am now in Day 11 of semen retention and have absolutely no signs of blue-balls yet. I am learning just to “let-go” with the theory that I “need” to ejaculate. It certainly isn’t easy when the aroused erections come, but I find that the best way to cope is just to ignore it, if that makes any sense. In every case, the erection (and arousal) will subside; it is only a matter of time. And once that erection dissipates, likewise so does the arousal. I must realize that I can’t be aroused 24/7; there is a certain amount of give-and-take in this. It is not a constant frenzy of prostate-induced orgasms! But the sweet Aless sensations linger-on for much longer than the actual session time. Ah! Read more »

“Don’t Be So Eager To Ejaculate!”

Background
Now in Day 9 of SR; wore my Mueller cup overnight. Early morning, decided to take-off the cup and replace it with a pair a silky boxers with a contour pouch. Went back to bed but couldn’t sleep; decided to lie-down on my comfortable sofa and settle-back with some relaxing massage meditation tracks. Also decided not to have a session this morning.

Meditation
While listening, I honestly felt like I would edge, then ejaculate. But what developed was a very gentle scrotal/perineum massage that completely avoided my penis. I received all the erotic sensation of this “massage” without the expectation of an ejaculation. That was not to say that I didn’t want it. I did. But without the presence of “blue-balls”, there was no reason in the world that I should ejaculate!

Outcome
I now have a semi-firm erection and my balls feel very solid. I am leaking precum too. I should ejaculate. But instead, I will let this erection settle-down until I go flaccid again, then (hopefully) I will make it through the day without the ache in my groin, signalizing to me that it is indeed time for a release! But I really want to progress to Day 10 and beyond in this “run” of semen retention! What a feeling to be at max-T! Read more »

Eupho use during sex!

Since Aneros claims that the eupho is perfect for use during sex I figured it would be my duty to give it a try. My wife had been asking about sex with the aneros in for a while. So with the addition of the eupho to my collection the time was fitting. Monday night knowing we would be I left the eupho laying on her night stand with a note that said “you can use this on me”. Fast forward to our time in bed together during for play she lubed it up and slipped it inside of me. I immediately got those wonderful pleasure sensations of my aroused and swollen prostate being lightly brushed by the toy. My wife had left my man parts alone during foreplay, she kissed and touched her way down from my neck to my lowers, stopping to kiss and touch around near my penis and balls. Ending up at my ass with her hand, she gently touched my ass hole with her finger, more of a teasing, and teasing my perineum as well. I was well aroused when she put the aneros in. Once it was in she rolled over onto her back legs spread, and that was my hint. Once in her, with some light slow thrusting I could feel the eupho dancing lightly touching my prostate. The pleasure was amazing, not to much but almost to much. The sensation of my penis in the soft, warm and wet environment combined with the leaking sensation the movement of the eupho was giving was amazing. After a few minutes she wanted to take a ride on top. I wasnt going to stop her. While readjusting I gave a couple light contractions and was oozing. My wife and I like to sometimes sit still with me inside and use kegals on eachother. My wife bearing down on my felt great as always, with her bearing down I threw in a kegal, the sensation was too much. We both released she went to the top of my penis, clamped down, told me to clench and hold. Half way on her decent down I was in trouble, there was no abort action, delay or anyway to get my self from exploding. I could feel the eupho dancing rapidly and my ejaculation reflexes were going. Kissing my prostate with every move of the massager I orgasm-ed. Full bodied, toes curled, eyes closed, I could feel the cum rising up out of me. My wife just kept on going, riding to her own moaning orgasms seconds later. This is defiantly going to become something we throw in from now on.

“Sexual Libido Tune-Up: An Extended Fantasy”

Introduction
This fantasy “session” was inspired by @BigGlansDC; thanks buddy!

Believe it or not, I am only in Day 2 of semen retention. But that is not stopping me from having great daily Aneros sessions. This morning was no exception, let me explain….

Session
This morning’s session was with the selected Eupho Classic. I like Eupho because it is very slender, inserts easily and has great movement. This 25-minute session again gave me a HFWO feeling but it did much more. It “triggered” in me a fantasy, a “living fantasy”. Here it is as best as I can remember…..

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I am due for my urological and prostate exam in 2 weeks (yes, for real) and my urologist wants to give me a male libido tune-up prior to my schedule visit which they have found to be very helpful for us older men. I will relate the various “steps” as best as I can recall them.

Libido Tune-Up
First-up was the prostate massage “session” as I have already described it. I was wearing a cage cup for this session so my cock was not accessible to me.

Next, I was instructed to put-on a pair of tight boxers with a contour pouch. This felt good and I was instructed to lie-back and “feel” for my erogenous zones through the silky material: specifically, my scrotum, cock (including the glans and the frenulum) perineum and anus. All of these in turn were to receive some “loving” from my hands. The aim was to induce an arousal in me that could result in an erection. After a period of time (perhaps 20 minutes or so) I was feeling quite aroused; yes I did have an erection and was ready for the next step. Read more »

Maximus Trident Review

I knew I was going to be writing another review, I just didnt think it would be so soon. Friday I went to my local adult store which happened to have the Maximus Trident in stock. In addition to something sexy for my wife I returned home with the Maximus. Being late afternoon and home alone I was particularly aroused. I decided it was time to give girthy maximus a try.
Without having tried the original maximus there is little to compare to besides my Progasm. These are completely different toys.
The Maximus goes in fairly easily for its size. Once in place my ass is at maximum capacity. Just kidding not a good joke. Its noticeable size once in compared to mt beloved helix trident.
Throwing in some kegals I noticed less movement than the Helix but quite a bit more than the Progasm. However very pleasurable. Once again aneros does not disapoint. Wonderfull contact with my sweet spot on my perineum. And a very comfortable k-tab. A very pleasurable engagement of my prostate but a different engagment. The design hugs and rubs my prostate compared to the firm contact provide by the Helix.
I am a leaker without using an aneros when aroused. A prostate massage kicks it into high gear. The Maximus did not disappoint here. Within a few minutes i had a decent puddle on my stomach that grew with every contraction. I only got a couple of drops of prostate fluid with the maximus. With the pleasure building deep inside and the involvantaries going. The maximus moved well just not enough for my liking. It would dance and rub my prostate sending waves of pleasure through my body. I could never get it to dance and work side to side or circular on my prostate like i can the helix. Read more »

Helix Trident Review

I thought about making a blog post about my last session with my Helix Trident however that does not do justice for how amazing this toy is. Its really more of a pleasure tool than a toy to me at this point. I purchased my Trident 4 months ago and really my other toys have been collecting dust since then. I have all 3 helix models. The classic was my favorite, but the handle made it rub the back of my ass raw. The syn was nice, it dried out if I didn’t pre-lube. Movement on both of these models was so so, they engaged my sweet spot on my perineum and engaged my prostate. Both supplied hands free and super o’s when asked. I really didn’t think it could get any better unit I tried the trident version.

Here is what makes this toy so much better. Straight from Aneros site “new series features our Multi-Axial Motion Architecture™ which allows greater range of movement of the head, creating a larger variety of sensations for the quickest path to the orgasmic bliss yet. New tabs and arms stimulate Perineum and Kundalini acupressure spots with a unique rocking and cradling effect, producing simultaneous stimulation with increased stability” Read more »

4 Days of constant pleasure!

It has been over three months since my last blog post. I have not had any news to write about until recently. I work a weekday job with a long commute. I typically work out after work and by the time I get home, eat dinner and take care of things around the house I did not really have the time or energy for a productive aneros session. If I did try a session, I would just get really relaxed and fall asleep. So, lately I have been doing one session per week on the weekend. I have been thinking that that may not be often enough to see much progress. My weekend sessions have been pleasant. I always enjoy the sensations, and usually have some nice p-waves but nothing orgasmic. I would typically insert the Helix, relax and breathe deeply for a few minutes and then do some contractions. I have a vibrator that I have used with my lady-friend a few times and one afternoon about an hour into a session I got the idea to get the vibrator out and touch it to the p-tab and handle of the Helix. I found this to be quite pleasant and stimulating.
This came to be my routine. The first hour of a session would be deep breathing and contractions, and then another hour using the vibrator in conjunction with the Helix. Each time I did this, I would get more sensation and pleasure than the time before. I have been abstaining from regular masturbation in order to increase arousal during aneros session, and I would typically finish a session with a traditional orgasm including the Helix with the vibrator buzzing it. The Super-Ts when I do this are easily twice as intense and twice as long in duration as a typical orgasm. I certainly had no complaints about that.
The weekend before last – Sunday June 17, I was having the most numerous and pronounced p-waves yet, and the Super-T was extra Super as well. The middle of the next week – Wed June 20 I was thinking about my previous session and anticipating my next session and I decided to skip my workout and just go straight home and have a session. Whenever I would think about this I would get a partial erection in anticipation. My Wednesday evening session was every bit as good as the last one had been, and I decided not to finish off with a traditional orgasm Super-T to save my arousal for the weekend.
Friday afternoon I was aroused thinking about the weekend. I came up with the idea to put the vibrator inside the round part of the Helix handle and duct tape it in place rather than touch it to the p-tab. In order to keep the vibrator in place I had to lay on my stomach with my penis between two pillows. This proved to be the best idea I have had yet. I spent the better part of an hour in p-wave heaven and had at least 3 or 4 mini orgasms.
Saturday morning I woke up and went to use the bathroom and after I finished peeing I could feel a p-wave start to build and I had a mini orgasm standing in front of the toilet, with precum covering my penis glans. Amazed, I went back to bed smiling, and immediately felt a warm glow radiating from my pelvis. A few minutes later I had another orgasm, this one stronger than the one at the toilet.
All weekend I was experiencing mild to moderate pleasure in my groin. I had another session Sunday with even better results, just basking in pleasure waves from the Helix and vibrator. I have had pleasurable sensation radiating from my prostate ever since Friday – 4 days in a row now. I would dare say my purchase of the Helix may be the best 60 dollars I ever spent 
I know that some have said that vibrators do not work for them because they numb the prostate. For me there is some truth to this if the vibration is a constant static buzz, but any alternating pattern I have found to be fantastic. So overall I will say that I am very pleased (ecstatic in fact) with my experience with aneros, but my progress has certainly not been linear. It has taken me 4 ½ months to reach this point, and I have felt some mild frustration at times. But I just wanted to tell my story and offer encouragement to others. If you aren’t where you want to be, don’t give up. Keep reading the blogs and forum and try different things, and you may very well find the key to a new kind of pleasure. Read more »

“Slow Edging Masturbation Session”

Background
I slept in my SD Ultra Pro Carbon Cup overnight and awoke with a strong night-time erection. Now in Day 3 of SR, I didn’t want to have an Aneros session. What did I do then? I took-off the cup and put on a pair of silky Perry Ellis boxers with a contour pouch. I could see and feel my package through the thin fabric. And I started what was to become a 25-minute “slow edging” session!

Session
As nice as an Aneros session is, and I long for another Super-O, this slow edging session proved to me what being a male is all about: ejaculation! Let me explain….

I began this “session” with every intention to ejaculate. I know it is only Day 3 but something told me that I needed to ejaculate. So I began to tickle, fondle and caress my swollen member, especially the frenulum. My scrotum and perineum were getting very sensitive too. As I continued, I looked for a wet spot on the boxers and when I saw it, I removed them.

I continued with the slow edging, ramping-up very slowly to the PONR. There was no rush. I began to fantasize about sexual intercourse and how it would feel to penetrate. I would throw any ED to the wind! As I was getting closer to the inevitable ejaculation, I could feel and see my testicles start to pull-upward into my body; that is a sure sign that an ejaculation is imminent. Read more »

Aneros equilibrium, Aneros resonance, Aneros fishing, etc. : Session for Saturday June 9

Hi guys,

I had a thoroughly enjoyable session with my favorite Aneros models : Helix Classic, MGX, Maximus and Progasm ICE.

For many months recently, I have tried to find out why my sessions have felt so good. I have settled upon some description Aneros terms:

“Aneros foreplay”: Like @goldenboy, I enjoy wearing a jock and cup to bed most nights. Not only does this combination feel so good, but a jock and cup is so consoling. Like a pacifier, they enable me to fall asleep like a baby. When I wake up in the still of night, I like to Kegel in my jock and cup and diddle my nipples. It is so sweet and it constitutes hours of leisurely foreplay. When I wake up in the morning, I am horned, rearing to go with a session.

Last night, I wore a Nutty Buddy Cup in the pouch of an ordinary BIKE jockstrap and over a pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch boxer briefs. My Nutty Buddy Cup “floats” in this combination.

Here is a pic of MLB great, Mark Littell, creator of the Nutty Buddy. I hope you do not mind the kinkiness of this pic! 🙂

www.nuttybuddy.com/

I cannot stress though how the Kegel Exercises, diddling your nipples, and relaxed rhythmic breathing act as rocket fuel in your “Aneros foreplay”. Read more »

A Quick Primer on Male “Chastity Cups”

Background
While relaxing and chilling this morning with some nice tracks, I had the opportunity to fantasize and reflect on my fascination with male “chastity cups”. (I had an inquiry from an Aneros member recently who wondered whether I am still practicing semen retention and male chastity. The answer is a resounding yes!) Let me explain…

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What is a male “chastity cup”?
What it is basically is a male athletic supporter with a hard cup. Nothing more, nothing less! There are many brands available and I have several. Among my favorites: XO ProCup, Shock Doctor Ultra Pro Carbon Cup, Mueller Sports Medicine cup, SafeTGard with Cage Cup.

What is is used for?
There are myriad uses for these cups. First, in sporting events such as baseball and hockey, the cups are used to protect the vital male genitalia from injury. Ever been accidentally kicked in the balls? Not too pleasant? Well, the cups prevent the most serious injuries from occurring.

As I use them for male chastity, these cups serve another purpose entirely. They prevent me from touching, caressing and stimulating my male “package” so that I cannot masturbate while wearing one. So simple but yet so effective! I can stroke and rub the hard cup all I want and I may develop an erection but suffice it to say that there will be no ejaculation while I am wearing one. This is especially true at night while I am in bed (before I have selected and put-on a cup); invariably I will begin to play with my package almost automatically. I have to catch myself before I get too aroused with an erection. It is too easy to reach the PONR and an undesired ejaculation. It is then that I select a cup and put it on. Read more »