Tag: Porn

Advice needed

Hi folks — I’ve owned a progasm Jr for almost a decade now but only in the past couple months been focusing on prostate play. I gotta say, it’s become somewhat frustrating. Feel like I’ve tried everything — picked up a progasm classic, helix and eupho (and even a tantus p-spot and njoy wand) but still only sporadic contractions and some minor pleasure is all I’ve been able to get out of it. I even tried the peridise, both sizes in the starter kit, and barely get any contractions from those.

Feel like I’ve tried everything I can think of — do nothing method, do nothing except light contraction/anchored tension, Mindgasm techniques, rhythmic contractions, weed, LSD, poppers, watching porn, no porn, binaural beats, audio erotica.

I’ve been playing probably 5 times a week — 2-3 hrs a session on average. I’m guessing this is probably too much. I’m just frustrated and I know I’m chasing the O but I don’t know how to fix that. Any advice?

dry spell

Hello everyone,

I’m writing in regards to a dry spell with my aneros use. Almost a year ago I achieved my first and only truly successful sessions (involuntary, powerful, indescribably dry orgasms for hours on end, they felt similar to penile orgasms but deeper and just so much better). Some background that makes this situation complicated is that when I achieved that session I did so rather unconventionally. Most people on here talk about involuntary twitching causing the toy to stimulate the prostate which leads to orgasm. However, that night, the way I got there was by repeatedly flexing my pc muscle and hitting my prostate over and over for some time until suddenly I wasnt flexing anymore and the toy was fucking me. I’ve tried to do this again but it doesn’t happen. I’ve tried doing nothing, tried sustained long flexes, porn, no porn, weed, no weed, and it simply won’t happen. Any advice on getting back to achieving dry orgasm would be so helpful.

1st Aneros Session After 2 Months of Only “Toy-Free” Orgasms

I’ve had plenty of fun w/ kegel-induced orgasms since working on getting them consistent over the course of this past winter, and I decided to challenge myself to both only ALESS orgasms and semen retention starting 1/13. I don’t care about the SR claims, just felt like doing it. If anything, abstinence made the ALESS orgasms more consistent and led me to discovering just how pleasurable I find reverse kegels.

Yesterday, the prostate was badly aching for direct stimulation. I already planned to break out an aneros at the 2-month mark, so the anticipation was making it worse. Weapon of choice was the progasm jr. No weed or porn since NNN, didn’t even do much fingering this time. Basically just cleaned-down, lubed-up and got to work.

Like the advertisement, I did not last 5 minutes. That was one of the most intense and downright exhausting sessions I’ve had in some time. No prior ALESS session could stack up. I wanted it so damn bad, but no fuckin way I could take more than 1hr of what I can only describe as a conniption of cumming. Didn’t ejaculate, didn’t need to. How much precum and seminal fluid must one generate before the p-gasms are no longer considered dry? Half a ballpoint pen? A small lake? Tadpole pond?

Usually, aneros sessions leave me w/ that post-sex refreshment feeling. Not this one. I felt downtrodden and disheveled, a victim of the aftershocks that persisted for ~20mins after removal of the device. I was watching a Metroid speedrun trying to relax but I kept orgasming. The shame…

Effectiveness of THC: Long Post

This post is to just reinforce the effectiveness thc/delta8 has on prostate play.

For reference, I myself started my aneros journey 7 years ago. During that time, it was 100% sober. During that entire duration, the most progress I made was getting LOTS of involuntary contractions, a lot of precum and a lot of muscle spasms… despite all those good signs, I never experienced a single ounce of orgasmic pleasure. Nothing anywhere close. Relaxation did nothing to aid the process and neither did patience… because I had MANY sessions where I was very relaxed. Didn’t matter. No pleasure.

I recall, in my 6th year of trying, I got ONE wave of pleasure. It happened ONE time and lasted exactly 1 to 2 seconds.

I was very active on this sub, asking so many questions on what works, what doesn’t work, what positions were best, porn, no porn, deep breathing, fast shallow breaths… I did polls on which aneros was the first to give people success (helix, if you’re wondering, followed by progasm)… I dug as deep as I could down this rabbit hole, to no avail.

Fast forward beginning of 2022. I did my first edible (no aneros, just trying it for the sake of trying it)… and the VERY first thing I noticed was my prostate felt like it was radiating and glowing. (Then I completely spiraled into an awful panic attack lmao)…. point being, once I felt that glow, I knew I had to try it with my aneros. Read more »

Questions about rewiring process as a newbie

I just recently got the program jr as my first aneros toy. I am not a newbie to anal as I have used many standard toys such as, dildos, and vibrators. In general would say I am quite experienced with anal play as I have been doing it for several years. However I have been struggling to rewire and learning to feel with only my prostate and have some questions.

-How long does it take to rewire on average
-Starting out should I be doing anything at all eg. listening to audio, watching porn, etc. or should I just focus on the toy
-During the rewiring process should I edge before sessions
-Does masturbation slow it down
-What am I looking to feel and focus on like everyone says

Excuse any grammatical mistakes as this was written on my phone.

Forgot to add a few things. I have had about 5 or so sessions so far with little to no luck. First 2 sessions felt some good vibes and thats it. I have not been masturbating for about 1 week.

Sessions without fantasizing?

I am a former porn addict. I haven’t watched it for more than a year now, with a few, brief fallbacks, nothing crazy. I’ve had great success with the aneros prostate orgasms and non ejaculatory orgasms etc. This was all achieved by fantasizing. I feel like the way I fantasies is very goal oriented and (for me) shock related. It’s all my mind can do inorder to feel good at the moment. In other words I don’t feel completely well with it. No shame or this and that, this is just my observation, that it is draining me and regressing me into my former self. I am not demonizing fantasy or anything, this is just my experience of where I am at at the moment.

ANYWAYS- my question is: is it possible to have succes WITHOUT fantasizing? If not: is it possible to minimize fantasy? My fantasizing is not organic yet and still very porn like and shock based.

It finally happened but not in the way I was expecting

Long post – sorry…

As the title says I FINALLY hit my first Super O and it wasn’t at all how I thought it would go. I’ve been playing for several years now with varying degrees of success – some sessions are great, some I experience nothing. Still, I kept at it and when I LEAST expected it it finally happened.

I wrapped work up early yesterday and decided to have a session. After a quick 10 – 15 minute meditation to clear my head I popped in my helix syn trident – no porn – just some ambient music to give me something to focus on and zone out.

I’ve noticed that no matter how much I try to not “chase” in the past I always end up chasing and trying too hard to make something happen. Also, I realized I keep expecting it to feel like a traditional, penile orgasm and so I’m probably searching for something that just isn’t going to happen. This week I decided my focus would be entirely on FEELING and LISTENING and being okay with whatever happens while also ignoring any pleasurable feelings that may involve my penis and focusing as much as possible on my prostate.

Nothing actually came of my session other than some light p waves and honestly I was okay with that. However, it finally dawned one me – I’ve been feeling these p waves all along but was failing to recognize / let them build before because as soon as they’d happen I’d clamp down and scare them away, basically. Anyway, I showered up and went along with my day. Read more »

Success story

After approximately 3 years of trying, albeit rather inconsistently, I finally reached what I think was a hands-free orgasm.

It took about 90 minutes of wearing the aneros along with watching some porn and teasing my nipples. A warm, incredibly relaxing feeling overcame my body. A bit later a small stream of squirt came out. At first I thought I was peeing so stopped the stream. Once I realized it wasn’t, I relaxed further and a huge stream of squirt started almost as if I was peeing. I was soaking wet but the feeling was incredible.

My question is: what’s the difference between when your prostate play causes squirt vs cum? Is there a way to cause one versus the other or is it just all individual anatomy?

progress with doing nothing method

Hello everyone.

In my first post I was writing about my frustration. I keep on trying and don‘t want the frustration to win. Thanks to all the recommendations and experiences, I probably would have given up already without reddit and other forums.

I‘ve made some progress in my last sessions. I feel like doing nothing works best for me atm. Just feeling, relaxing, no squeezing, no porn , (only listening to mindgasm in the beginning for relax and then to some erotic stuff), breathing and touching my nipples , belly and thighs (of course not the penis)
Last night I had a nice session, my body started trembling, I felt a nice pressure on my prostate, moving my hips.. but somehow my body was like “exhausted“ at some point if that makes sense. Maybe I was trying too hard or I was simply tired ? I cannot do a session during the day unfortunately. I think it‘s so difficult to stay “patient“ when things start to feel good .. what can I do when the tremblings start for example? Just keep on breathing, enjoying without wanting more?

A little concern of mine is that I don‘t live alone. i have seen videos of people screaming and moaning uncontrollably, I would literally wake up the whole house (i live in the city, have neighbors also 😅) i don‘t want them to call the ambulance haha
A question to the super o experts: how loud are you? Do you live alone? What about neighbors? Read more »

Help on progressing [Question]

Hi so I would consider myself an intermediate aneros user, been using mine on and off for about 2 years while including the use of porn in my sessions. Today I decide to go without porn to feel out the vibes and I experienced what I hope was my first P Wave, if felt as if the aneros was going in and out on its own causing pleasure every time it moved, all while my legs were shaking and I felt tingles all over my face and body. This was my first time experiencing this but have not been able to recreate it. Later on in my session I tried but just got an erection and got the usual feelings of my prostate swelling against the aneros and forcefully pressing against it (this usually leads to a HFWO which I don’t want). Does anyone have any advice on how I can recreate and grow from that experience? Thank you.

TL;DR: Had my first P Wave, couldn’t recreate it where do I go from here.