What to purchase next after progasm?

I got a progasm and it’s big and full and bold. It’s my first Aneros . I love it. I’d wear it all day if I could. I think though that it probably shouldn’t have been my first toy. I’m a big guy with big features so I thought that the progasm would do the trick. It does the trick in a full stretchy silky warm way.

I am kinda getting stuck and plateau in the midst of its girth. I think I need to learn more about my prostate with a toy that will help me feel other nuances and rhythms that I can’t achieve with a progasm. I think I need something more nimbler and something with a bit more “tickle”, but not too small? Any suggestions?

Some one here was really helpful in a comment about the Maximus. But I’m not sure what the difference would be between progasm and Maximus ?

Can you get an Aneros and it be too small?

Dry O success!! And other non-related questions

A couple nights ago I had laid myself down with my progasm like I normally do, I’d showered and douched about half an hour beforehand.

My session went off to a great start when I had my aneros slip right in first go, I’ve started using coconut oil which has been surprisingly easier to clean up as opposed to my regular water-based lube.

My session was pretty uneventful for the first hour or so as I normally scroll through porn and get myself in the mood during this time, then I started to feel some light tingles and twitches around my prostate, so I decided to put my phone down. After about an hour of this the pleasure I was able to wring out of this aneros had me cursing non stop.

I had to remind myself to keep my breathing controlled cause normally at this point I’d either start touching my nipples and get distracted, or I’d have a dry o and end things there. But for some reason this first Dry O that had been building for what felt like the last 10-15 minutes surpassed any other Dry O I’d had up until that point.
I focused on my prostate and my breathing and after another few minutes of this a gentle yet heavy wave of pleasure crashed on top of my whole body and I felt so relaxed, the best part about it was the fact that it didn’t stop after a few minutes, it just kept going and going and going.

How easy is it to sit or walk around with a Progasm in?

Currently, the only Aneros product I own is a Helix Syn Trident, which is obviously very comfortable to sit with and easy to keep in, being relatively small and silicone. I’m thinking about getting a Progasm, but I’m wondering, since it’s larger and rigid, if it’s uncomfortable to wear it around or sit upright in a chair with it in. I like to have a toy in for extended periods of time, so I’d like to be able to sit and walk around with it.

In some of the pictures I’ve seen of the Progasm, there’s a tab sticking out below the arms. I’m not entirely sure which models I’m looking at that have the tab or don’t, but I would expect the ones with that tab to harder to sit up with. Can anyone with a Progasm of any model add some insight? Thanks

Should I take a break or see a Dr ? Or both ?

I have a progasm. I was using it almost every day this past week. I’ve been getting to really good places and practicing keegles daily. I haven’t achieved a full O yet but I’ll get there soon.

In almost every session I end it with a great moment of masturbation then ejaculation. I’ve enjoyed the meditation of it all and the discipline of working through it. Then ending it with some pleasure. I find it really relaxing.

Now in the last 3 days my prostate at times feels kinda sharp or stingy when I’m not using my Aneros. Like it’s cramped up and sore. Then as it feels sore I have an urge to fill it up again with my program. It’s not super painful but noticeable. I hope I’m not overworking it. I’d do this nightly for 3 hours if I could. What’s the proper frequency and duration for this activity?

Can’t feel Progasm. What’s next?

6’3” tall, slender male here. Experienced in anal play , toys etc. I do kegels regularly. Have worn my progasm for long sessions and just can’t feel it stimulating my prostate very well. Has anyone else come up short with an aneros shape in this way? Any recommendations on which model to try next?

Thanks!

Super-o through penetration?

Just wanna know if any of you is a able to reach a super-o when getting penetrated. Even though bottoming became even more satisfying for me since I rewired myself it still isn’t on the same level as if I play with my progasm.
Any tips on how to improve that or is it just impossible to reach a similar intensity through anal penetration?

Using a bath to practice full muscle relaxation

I made a comment recently about something I began doing in the last two to three months that I got a lot of messages about, and I promised I’d write a standalone post.

That is, using the Aneros in the bath.

Long post ahead!

I’ve been practicing Aneros use for a few years now, and figuring it all out. Mid-2022 I began noticing that I wasn’t actually fully relaxing, even though I would practice the “Do nothing” approach, I wasn’t actually doing nothing. Even while relaxed I would be subconsciously holding a very light contraction the whole time. Once the pleasure would begin, I would totally take over again and be clenching an tensing to try to force the pleasure to grow, only tiring myself out.

A huge leap forward for me was when I began to just try to breath through everything, deep breaths into my belly, so that my stomach rises up. Even actively pushing my belly muscles up. This would free up the important muscles below to do their own thing and huge pleasure would grow. However, when it gets intense, I would still take over and do contractions and end up chasing the pleasure away.

The practice of Aneros for me at the moment is to have discipline and actively try to relax any muscle contractions, no matter how good everything feels. To keep breathing deeply through everything and constantly letting everything be fully relaxed. If a muscle tenses, I try to release it as much as possible. This makes everything insanely intense as it is. So pushing that further and further is my gameplan.

What stage is this?

I was doing a session for about an 1.5-2 hours the other day and was using the Helix Syn for around an hour, followed by the Progasm. I noticed an unusual feeling that I don’t normally get in my sessions (which normally feel good but are mostly uneventful).

I felt a sudden vibration, and a clenching that would come on and off in my abdomen. Occasionally this would coincide with the flexing of my PC muscle that I was not doing in a voluntary way.

I did not feel a release or a sudden feeling of pleasure like a normal orgasm. I just had this vibration and clenching going on, which felt good but not like a full regular orgasm.

I have been at this for a few years and never got that far before (I was using a do nothing approach).

Is this a prostate orgasm? Or what stage of the process did I get to? I am a little confused. It went on for 5 minutes or so and then I lost it and ended the session.

Any ideas?

Aneros session winding down & I need guidance.

My last orgasm was Monday. I haven’t really been playing around very much with denial lately. In truth I haven’t had any discipline. I’ll scroll through Reddit or Tumblr, see something that turns me on, and just jack off straight to orgasm. But after Monday, I decided to put myself back into denial for a bit. I’m going on a road trip next week and I want to be really horny while I’m traveling. The hornier I get, the more bisexual I get, and the more open to new experiences I am. Horny travel makes for some great stories.

Late last night I ate a gummy and it kicked in full force around 2:00 a.m. I slipped in a Progasm and had a lot of fun. I had several anal orgasms and a lot of hands-free dry orgasms while I was high, but I didn’t ejaculate so I’m still crazy horny. In fact, this is the most aroused I’ve been in several months.

Right now I’m coming down from the THC but I’m still edging. I have my big biggest butt plug in, almost 2″ in diameter, and nipples are standing out a good inch inside the suckers. I keep letting myself get soft, then look at porn and stroke myself to the edge. I edge an edge and ride it for a while, then take a break until I go soft again. I’ve been doing that for the last hour and a half and I’m absolutely fucking desperate to cum. I also have half a mind to get on Grindr and find somebody to go play with. I’m really losing my brain right now. It’s taken me over 45 minutes to write this for you.