What did I get into?

So… here is the story. I’ve played around with traditional dildo type toys… have gotten some “sensations” but I was usually pretty disappointed in any kind of results.

Last week – I finally pulled the trigger and ordered a Helix trident syn (I think… the black non vibrating one) and while i was waiting for that to arrive – i ordered the progasm. I actually received the progasm first.. and was excited to try it out. I inserted – and was surprised to find that it did NOT readily slip out. – I used it for about 90 minutes – but nothing really.. a couple “ooh.. what was that? ” then gone away.

A couple days later my Helix arrives. I find myself with a rare “day by myself” and I figure I’m gonna try this out.

I inserting the Helix. Nothing special. I lay on my back.. slowly doing some contractions. It feels ok… but I feel that I’m just not relaxed enough.

I flip over to lay on my stomach. Flacid- pushed downward where my pelvis is against the bed. I seperate my legs a little- but angle my legs like I’m kinda pigeon toed – opening up my ass a little.

I quickly find out that if I pull the helix into my core – and hold it – it will eventually lose “its grip” and like a worn out fatigued muscle – it kinda “flutters” back to relaxed. This starts some sensations

Tried out the Maximus and had the most intense orgasms yet.

My Maximus arrived in the post today. It’s a model I’ve been trying to get for a while so I was quite excited to finally get my hands on it.

It wasn’t my intention to try it out today but as soon as I opened the box I wanted it in me.

My first impressions weren’t good actually. I didn’t find it particularly comfortable during the first 5 mins but ended up playing around with some contractions and it felt a lot better. Settled down with deep valley breathing and had involuntary contractions after around 10 mins. During the next 30 minutes I had some incredible feelings that were new to me. Really strong sensations in my head, particularly around the area right above my ear. A sort of pleasurable pressure.

The pleasure would build in my head, involuntaries would happen and then I’d have an orgasm wash over my body. Rinse and repeat every few minutes. After a while it felt like my prostate was connected directly to my head, each contraction would send out pleasure that I could feel building in my head. Each contraction would increase in pleasure too. I had THE hardest erection that I’ve ever had which seemed to make the involuntaries stronger. I couldn’t tell if the Maximus was getting drawn in to me or pushed out. The pleasure was so strong now and I was having dry orgasms, prostate orgasms on top of full body orgasms. Everything was so intense.

Dry orgasm after hfwo?

I’ve been using aneros helix and progasm for a few years now. I can consistently get to the point of a hands free wet orgasm every time, my dick is completely soft, it usually feels great still but I’m finding it less enjoyable now, and wondering if anyone has success achieving anything after having had a hfwo. I feel like I might be able to carry on and get back into it after, it’s a different feeling than the refactory period after a penile stimulation orgasm.

Great session today!

Was really excited to start my session this morning. I typically use THC during my sessions and last week I got an eight of Gorilla glue buds. I did a lot of reading about this particular strain and was both encouraged and anxious. The strain description sounds fantastic for prostate play with intense body high and relaxation but it’s also described as a very potent strain. I did my usual preparation and got to business. I took it slow, one hit on my bud vaporizer and then let it set in to see what happens. Very pleasant calm high set in and I inserted my Helix Syn V. I was rewarded with pleasure waves within minutes. After a pleasant time with the Helix my hole was hungry to be filled. I teased myself with the head of my 8.5 inch girthy dildo and soft flesh eventually yielded to soft silicone and my innards got the filling it desired. The very best feeling occurred after removal. My gaping hole collapsed and I got the most delicious device-less orgasm! Next came the Progasm Jr and oh man was it hitting. I am normally not very vocal during my sessions but the Jr coaxed moans as I thrashed around my bed. Overall a very good session!

HFWO with Peridise

Wow I have HWFOs before but this seemed different. Warmed up with the big peridise during a mindgasm lesson (3) lightly following along and then swapped to the small one with the mindgasm 2 hour no talking audio on YouTube. I was fully expecting to move my way up through the toys to the progasm or eupho which has given HFWOs before. But then I concocted a new fantasy where my wife was fingering me and it was her finger that was dancing around my prostate. In my fantasy – and out loud – I was begging her to not make me cum from my ass. I think I had a light HFDO and then immediately went into a powerful HFWO. Guess she didn’t listen to me in my fantasy.

I’ve had a hard time not trying to force something to happen. Maybe this flip of my mind combined with the domination fantasy was what I needed. I’ll try it again tomorrow and see.

What I’m really surprised with is that I had a O at all with the peridise. I used to think my P spot was pretty deep and it seems that the eupho just barely hits it. What gives?

A bit frustrated: Can’t get beyond the “tingling stage”

I’ve been using a Progasm Jr and recently a Helix Syn for approx. 2 years now. Nothing much happened until some months ago where I started to get P-waves and tingles pretty much every time I use the toy. There where several instances where I got intense shivers, heart racing and the feeling of an immense pleasure incoming, so intense it made me even afraid. When it happened for the first time, my prostate tingled for two days which made me pretty anxious.

Also, I’m so far that I can basically alway cause P-Waves/tingles just with thinking about it, like a mental switch, and it’s almost as strong as with the toy in.

But that’s it – I never feel I can get beyond this stage. Is it the toy? I feel that they Syn works better for me than the Progasm Jr, so I thought about maybe getting another model, but there seems to be no consensus on which one.

Something I have also tried is stimulating the toy from the outside with a Magic Wand. It feels amazing and very tingly, but it’s just “constant pleasure”, but not like it would lead to climax. I can control both muscles independently, but “do nothing” worked best for me so far.

Requesting A Syn Version Of The Maximus Trident

I’ve written Aneros and requested they look into a Syn version of the Maximus Trident. While I love the shape and the fact that it’s large like the Progasm, but stays in a LOT better.

Issue is, I can’t stand the uncomfortable and not very flexible tabs, and I can’t use it for more than about an hour until I simply have to remove it due to it irritating my perineum so much.

I suppose they could also keep it in the white plastic, just redesign the tabs to be more comfortable.

have started my journey, maybe some clues

Hi there! Got very excited about mindful prostate play. Have been enjoying this kind of meditation for almost 2 weeks. It really gets me relaxed, wow…
A little bit of background: I’m gay, 22yo, bottom. So some feelings and cravings are not new for me 😅 I use my dildo every once in a while, and I know how ejaculatory orgasms feel this way… But I remember that I was always at some point when I was on the edge and couldn’t get over it (acceleration doesn’t help). So I get real sweat and all, a lot of precum craving for something more, so I usually need to finish it by hands. But then I found articles on anal orgasms and according to descriptions that what I was craving for all the time! So yeah then I found aneros, purchased progasm and here I am.
So far, I found the most comfortable position laying on my back, bent knees, feet flat, but over some time I just lay on my back flat. Ive started doing kegels recently, and it makes me horny af all the time, so I crave for the aneros all day haha. Today I tried mingasm, just really helped to separete out the muscles. Actually I can get some nice subtle feelings in my booty very easily during the day, I could feel what and where my prostate was and all, even before having aneros, but now its all sharpened a bit. Also, I found that my d is now very sensetive all the time (especially head) , even in a soft mode, idk if it’s OK.. Now I can get some shivers down there without aneros as well (question below). As for the session, I defenitely can feel a lot things, very subtle, sometime the d gets hard out of the blue, but then it dies out. Sometime I get some small kicks in my pelvic area (like prostate outside), and it turns into some body wave, but then dies out.
Seems like involuntaries are hard to separate out. I kinda figured how to separate sphincter and root of my d muscles. And when I contract the latter, it always starts shaking very tensely at the root of the d. And when I try to keep it there, it gets mentally hard to keep doing that, like it’s nice, but tiring. Sometimes half way letting it out I can get a feeling as if a needle pricks in a middle of sphincter and the d, and it gives some pleasant full body wave, which dies out quickly though. This is pretty much it. Can you please confirm if those are the involuntaries we’re after? Some ppl say that it must be subtle and like where the prostate and aneros meet..
Also, I found that watching any arousing stuff gets me very horny quickly, I’m kinda very sexy all day long (maybe hormones), is it better to not use any visual/audio stuff? Just focusing on feelings?
Maybe some other hints (maybe specifically for bottoms 😂)

Shorter Aneros

I have found that the Progasm feels very good and full, but it doesn’t move as much as my Trident. They both feel good in different ways, but Trident seems to usually work better and gives me more of a stroking feeling. One thing with the Trident though is I think it is also a little on the long side to hit my prostate effectively. It feels better if I pull it out just a bit, but then it has a tendency to pop out if I don’t hold it in. Any recommendation for a model that is a little shorter? Something a bit more nimble might also help, but just being shorter will probably help with that.