Self-Imposed Male Chastity: A “Divided Highway?”

Introduction
I have often written about my experiences with self-imposed male chastity, specifically, wearing a “chastity cup” for masturbation/ejaculation control and a build-up of sexual energy. There is more involved here than just putting-on an athlete’s jockstrap and cup. It is a little complicated and I thought I should try to explain it. So here goes…..

The Split-Role
Usually, in “traditional” male chastity, the male is willing to be put into a “submissive” role by a more “dominant” female. He allows himself to be locked-into a cock cage and relinquishes the key to his “keyholder”. She then can tease and deny him according to her whim and will actually control when he is able to have a sexual release (orgasm/ejaculation). This entire process develops a different kind of relationship between the two. It is sexually frustrating yet at the same time sexually satisfying for the male.

Self-Imposed Male Chastity
When I use “chastity cups” in the same way, it is necessary for me to “split” the thought process—in essence, I must play-out both the ‘submissive’ (male) role as well as the ‘dominant’ (female) role. How is this accomplished? In essence, what is required is a “split personality” (if you will). Of course, I do not hold a “key”. So how does this work after all?

The Answer
What is going on here is (in my opinion) a sort of “divided highway”. Let me explain…..

my personal experiment. good strides made

This is a recreation of my original document and may not contain all info but will try as best as possible to not leave anything out. My computer decided to do an update and for some reason deleted the entire saved file. I also don’t claim to be a story writer so expressing my sensations will be lacking. I will endever to try to make strides in the future, for now this is just to get it down before forgetting things

I have just finished a 21 day SR and found it do do nothing for me. I don’t feel any more feisty but that is to be expected since I have nothing to get excited about. This is going to be the documentation of a 7 day experiment of using only the aneros product, either helix or mgx, no masturbation, edging or stimulation of the sweet spot. I want all stimulation to be from prostate massage either internal w/ said tool or external from deep tissue massage. I will use massage of the sweet spot to get things going if needed when using one of the tools only. each session will be about 1 hour long or there about and do nothing sessions.
EDIT. I really pushed the time on Fri, Sat & Sun. having gone several hours.

The Tempo Increases

After four years of Aneros use I was at the top of my game inducing MMO’s . At that point I stopped calling them Super O’s because they went from being “one off” pleasure spasms to chains of deep intense orgasms. I had mastered the ability to manage and expand them through mind – body communication. They were no longer a single orgasm, instead they were cascading multiple non ejaculatory orgasms, hence my new moniker: multiple male orgasms. Not only were they multiples, but my command of them allowed me to savor and relish each MMO session. They became the fodder for my blog at the time and for my erotic writing.

I have used many metaphors for my Aneros experience from that point on. I did then and still do often describe my MMO orgasms as kaleidoscopic in character. As they progress they morph from one breathtaking form to another, revealing elegant pleasure just as a kaleidoscope reveals beautiful colorful shapes that change from one form to another. Like a kaleidoscope each sensation transforms into another and mesmerizing me as it does.

2nd super o

It’s been awhile since I’ve listened to that super o audio file by Shibby, which I have not orgasmed to yet. With all the progress made, this time the experience was so different I did manage a super o and a couple lesser orgasms.

Following her guidance, I relaxed and tried to give up control. It seemed that the less control I tried to exert, the more pleasure I would receive. Eventually, the super o came and it was different from my first one which was felt mostly like a super dry orgasm. In this 2nd one there was a very strong sense of an orgasm throughout the body and not localised to the prostate. My whole body was cumming for about 30 seconds straight. I noticed that i was seeing flashes of red and blue. It could have been from my eyes trying to roll to the back of my head from all the pleasure and being in the afternoon, the red could have been some of the natural light that was entering my dim room.

As the super o started to subside, I noticed that my orgasm started to slow down and pulse slowly. It was a slow orgasm! My hips were thrusting ever so slightly in tune with each contraction.

Didn’t feel the need to ejaculate immediately but I did edge for a short while to some porn. It took a lot of effort to not ejaculate! Looking forward to how this affects my next session.

Euphp Trident vrs Mgx Trident

Any advice…Which model would I be able to pull in to make contact with prostate with less effort of pc muscle?
Or is the difference minimal?
Any additional comments about the performance between the two would be appreciated.

Eupho Trident, Maximus Trident, Progasm Ice…How do you think this went?

I’ve been having so much fun and super-Os with Aless I started to feel like money was wasted with all the Aneros models I have. I decided I was prime for a really nice session. It was delayed because my wife who was scheduled to go to work for 9am was told she can come in at 12pm 😐

So I’m laying there for a couple of hours just watching Netflix and dozing off. She finally leaves. I decide to prime myself with a little Aless. found my prostate and it felt ripe. The aless alone was giving me all the pleasure I could muster. I dashed in the room and grabbed the Eupho trident. Lubed up and my anus and bum gladly accepted this little shop of horrors. Almost right away it started auto-fucking me. To kick things up a notch I started diddling my nipples…

Side note…up to this point I had not included nipple play in any of my Aneros based sessions…little did I know…

…this seemed to jump start the entire aneros process. The eupho started to hit my sweet spot and just like that I was in the midst of a Super-O and wasnt even realizing it. It danced and danced and rubbed ever so gently against my prostate…sending waves of pleasure throughout my nervous system…and then…It stopped on a dime…and then appeared to grow…and it just sat there…on top of my prostate…with prostate pulsing and it sent me into a state of pure euphoria. This went on for another two Super-Os and then I decided…I needed more…

Eddie

I’m a 71 year old guy with some BPH issues, and perhaps a pending “Uriolift” procedure. Years ago I had a fantastic 3 hour session using a short broomstick handle cut off, lots of lube and several extra special “O”‘s that day. Reading up on prostate issues, I noted the Aneros models in their various formats, and opted for this 4” long model, knowing my anatomy is not what one could consider large. The other night, when the Aneros arrived, I used it with success, to understate it, and my goal is to keep the prostate active and ‘cleared out’, if this is helpful. So I am looking for others with somewhat the same experience as far a uninary tract issues AND those having used the Aneros, which as research shows, was actually invented to help with these conditions. Also, I note (have you?) some dangers and risks listed (Wikipedia) associated with the use of Aneros devices. Anyone with valid medical background…your comments would be most appreciated in response. I am looking forward to periodic use of the device, assuming it is safe to go ahead. (use plenty of water-soluable lube, I know). THANKS.

Night Night…Good Morning…

Finally I have some time to tell you all about Monday Night…and then Tuesday morning…

So Monday night…I decided to get some aless in. Session was at least 1.5 hours and while I got some nice pleasure waves and some really sweet mini-Os it was nothing to write about. I believe I was just tired. After that time…I went to bed…content and accepting the session for what it was.

630am rolls around. My wife kisses me to wake me up…she is off to work. I am laying in bed with just a tshirt on. Its a little chilly so I cover up a little bit and roll on my back. My prostate says “Good Morning” with just a little pulse. Oh now you want to play I say to myself. I obliged him…it wasnt before long…BANG…I’m in the ecstasy I wanted 8 hours prior. It’s building…and building…and building…and a few mins later that familiar full body pulsing was back and my entire body is tingling all over. The pleasure is magnifying…I am back at that new level I found a few days earlier. It’s soooo amazing. This session lasts for another hour. Every 6-8 mins I would have at least a 2+ minute Super-O that would leave me breathless.

After this…I got up…jumped in the shower and got ready for work and had a rather good day at work…

“This Is Why There Are Different Aneros Models!”

Introduction
Back-to-back sessions from last night to this morning. I was still “feeling it” at Day 7 of SR and decided on another session. Somehow, I KNEW that my prostate wanted the MGX! So I quickly lubed-up with SSG and started.

Session
The MGX is designed differently from the Helix; it has a different profile and also the ribbed stem which facilitates anal stimulation. Both work to give an amazing ride! I felt p-waves almost from the beginning and, like yesterday’s session with the Helix Trident, I felt “more” when I re-positioned myself in bed. I began to switch from light kegsls to some deep contractions and everything felt amazing!

How long did this session last? Not sure but probably in the order of 30 minutes. Since I’m already at Day 7, I’m hoping that these back-to-back sessions will propel me to Day 10 or beyond!

Conclusion

Directly from the Aneros website: “Aneros prostate massagers might look very similar but each one has been designed to produce exciting and different effects.”

Yes, this is why I currently have five Aneros models: SGX Classic, MGX Classic, Helix Trident, Eupho Classic and HIH 950. And I intend to keep all of them! Since each one has its own “signature”, there is really no reason to “favor” one over another! But I recommend letting your prostate “tell” you which one it wants! Your brain will tell the difference and will reward you with success in your sessions! Touche’.

“A Different Point Of View”

Background
Day 6 of SR, wearing Mueller FlexCup overnight. Not especially aroused, but feeling a strong desire not just for a session, but for one with a specific Aneros model: Helix Trident! How could I not oblige? Here are the details…..

Session
I got-out the HT, lubed-up with SSG and began the journey. Now in the past, the HT has not been especially fruitful, so my expectations early this morning (about 2 AM) were low. And at first, although it felt nice, I did not feel anything. But little by little, I began to feel a stirring in my prostate and around the same time, a ‘pseudo-erection’ as well. I just kept at it for a while and eventually, I felt some nice p-waves combined with some strong abdominal contractions as well as some whole-body convulsions. I had not experienced these in a session in a while. They felt amazingly good!

New Position
For this session, I was lying on my right side like I usually do. Around mid-way during the session, I decided to rotate my hips and actually lie face-down. (Since I was still wearing my cup, there was no chance of stimulation from my cock, and so I proceeded.)

Almost IMMEDIATELY, I felt such a surge of pleasure from my prostate that I nearly screamed! I had been moaning prior to this, but the (slight) additional pressure on my prostate by the HT was unbelievable! With every little contraction on my part, I was rewarded ten-fold! I began to convulse all-over again and my toes were “twitching”! I could not stop the movement generated by the little Helix Trident.