Introduction
I have often written about my experiences with self-imposed male chastity, specifically, wearing a “chastity cup” for masturbation/ejaculation control and a build-up of sexual energy. There is more involved here than just putting-on an athlete’s jockstrap and cup. It is a little complicated and I thought I should try to explain it. So here goes…..
The Split-Role
Usually, in “traditional” male chastity, the male is willing to be put into a “submissive” role by a more “dominant” female. He allows himself to be locked-into a cock cage and relinquishes the key to his “keyholder”. She then can tease and deny him according to her whim and will actually control when he is able to have a sexual release (orgasm/ejaculation). This entire process develops a different kind of relationship between the two. It is sexually frustrating yet at the same time sexually satisfying for the male.
Self-Imposed Male Chastity
When I use “chastity cups” in the same way, it is necessary for me to “split” the thought process—in essence, I must play-out both the ‘submissive’ (male) role as well as the ‘dominant’ (female) role. How is this accomplished? In essence, what is required is a “split personality” (if you will). Of course, I do not hold a “key”. So how does this work after all?
The Answer
What is going on here is (in my opinion) a sort of “divided highway”. Let me explain…..