Tag: Prostate

Ordered a Progasm, have a few questions

I just ordered my second Aneros, which as the title suggests is the Progasm (which I read is a lot of people’s favourite), and I have a few questions.

1) What can I expect to be different for this massager compared to my current one, the Helix Syn Trident? I have been able to get prostate orgasms pretty consistenly with it (though I am not very good at having multiple, I have one, get hornier, then jack off)

2) How different does the plastic feel from the silicone?

3) Are the tabs that different?

4) I ordered the Progasm Ice in black, is it any different from the standard white one?

Thanks.

First time having multiple Super O’s – arousal is important!

I had my first Super-O about a month ago now and I’ve been able to achieve a Super O once in every two to three or more sessions I’d say. This week I’ve had a lot of free time and have been having 3-4 hour sessions every single day and it’s been amazing. So many different orgasms and feelings! I’ve been experimenting with different ways of preparing and changing things up in my sessions just to see how it is. Last nights was the best by a long way.

It’s been 10 days since I ejaculated and I can easily arouse myself to a fairly intense level. I often just dive straight in to my sessions but really took my time last night. Gave myself 90 mins to prep my body, which included pre-lubing, relaxing and reading a book until my mind was too distracted 🙂 then another 30-40 minutes of arousing and teasing myself. I touched my body, did PC/kegel exercises, teased myself with my progasm and it was great. It’s rare for me to pre-cum but I was lovely and wet and it was at that point I just *had* to start.

Laid on the floor with my legs on the bed, sort of like a Z shape. Inserted my Progasm and just relaxed… really savoured everything. The way it felt inside me, how good it felt to finally have what I was craving. Involuntaries started quickly, and then p-waves, and then my first prostate orgasm. I’d say this was within the first 15 mins. An hour or so went by that was filled with intense p-waves, a few prostate orgasms and a dry orgasm. Read more Â»

Next toy after Heylix Syn Trident?

I have a Helix Syn Trident and njoy wand — looking to purchase my next toy. I can buy 1 or 2 max, right now this is my short list:

Njoy plug — I do not have any butt plugs, but I think these would be good for a prep-session?
Progasm Ice — large size (fullness) and ice (less friction) might be good.
Eupho Trident — keep on hearing good things this, yet seems similar to my Helix.

I had my first prostate orgasm last week and I want to continue my journey.

Advice needed

Hi folks — I’ve owned a progasm Jr for almost a decade now but only in the past couple months been focusing on prostate play. I gotta say, it’s become somewhat frustrating. Feel like I’ve tried everything — picked up a progasm classic, helix and eupho (and even a tantus p-spot and njoy wand) but still only sporadic contractions and some minor pleasure is all I’ve been able to get out of it. I even tried the peridise, both sizes in the starter kit, and barely get any contractions from those.

Feel like I’ve tried everything I can think of — do nothing method, do nothing except light contraction/anchored tension, Mindgasm techniques, rhythmic contractions, weed, LSD, poppers, watching porn, no porn, binaural beats, audio erotica.

I’ve been playing probably 5 times a week — 2-3 hrs a session on average. I’m guessing this is probably too much. I’m just frustrated and I know I’m chasing the O but I don’t know how to fix that. Any advice?

Advice needed

I’ve been trying prostate play for a couple of years now and have never really had any significant progress but it feels really good. I rectory started using an aneros prostate massager and so far things seem to be going really well. As I’ve been able to find the time to use this massager, I’ve used it and have amazing contractions and orgasms but all orgasms have resulted with penile stimulation and not hands free. I stay flaccid most of the time and my testicles retract significantly and have a good amount of pre-cum, occasionally becoming 50% erect for a short time and amazing tingling feelings throughout my body sometimes shaking uncontrollably.

Since I’ve started this play, my prostate is constantly telling me it needs attention, all day at work, particularly when sitting down, with fluttering and a warm feeling in my abdomen. I have this sensation that I’m leaking pre-cum but there actually isn’t anything there and overall it’s a great feeling but not something I’m used to, while sitting down and doing daily office work. I sometimes feel the need to grab the arm of my chair and take a deep breathe to let this sensation subside. It’s not an undesirable sensation at all, in fact I’d love to just go into a dark room and intimate a 3 hour session if I could. I also feel some slight contractions in my stomach muscles throughout the day, finding my body occasionally jerking slightly, uncontrollably. My question, is this constant feeling a good sign and normal? I really wish I could find a solid half day to take my time and work on this more for the big O. Thanks for any advice or perspective.

Pleasure, Pain, and Urination – Need Advice

Hi all,

I’ve been using my Eupho Syn Trident for about a week now, and have made good progress. Recently, I’ve started feeling my first involuntaries and p-waves.

Unfortunately, I can’t quite get to a super-O because of an inevitable throbbing pain in my lower right side. Initially, there’s a feeling of fullness and a need to urinate, which I until recently chalked up to fluid buildup in the prostate (a good thing, right?). I focus back on the movement of the toy and while my pleasure grows, the discomfort grows at a faster rate. Eventually, the discomfort turns into constant, throbbing pain (like a bruise after a nasty hit or pulling a muscle, not pleasurable at all), and I am forced to stop the session because the pain is overwhelming any other sensation.

I hobble over to the bathroom and have what seems to be the longest piss of my life – the fluid that comes out is almost entirely clear, and afterwards, the pain instantly goes away (though I’m too far out of it to get back to work).

This usually happens 3-4 hours into a session, so I feel like I’m just taking too long and need to actually pee. I discussed it with my doctor and I’m positive I don’t have some kind of injury/illness, so is there just too much fluid building up in the prostate? Does that mean I’m taking too long? Or am I supposed to just power through the pain? Can you even urinate out excess prostate fluid? Read more Â»

Making some progress but would like to know if anyone can offer advice on how to go further

I’ve been a prostate play fan for about 2 years now and my collection has grown from a single Aneros to 3 Aneros toys, dildos, vibrating prostate massagers and the famous Njoy Pure Wand. However, my question really relates to Aneros massagers as I feel these have the most potential for me to achieve hands free orgasms.

I struggled for AGES to get involuntary contractions but I recently started to get them by focusing more on slowly tightening the sphincter muscle, holding the contraction for 30 seconds and then slowly relaxing. This now creates a lot of quivering which continues even when I fully relax – I consider this to be involuntary contractions. Sometimes this quivering causes what I think are “p-waves”. For me, this is when the scrotum moves (if you know, you know) and my penis gets hard very quickly and my perineum generates a lot of pleasure. This is the best way I can describe it and I’d love if someone could also confirm if this is considered p-waves as it’s just my assumption to what these are.

Whilst this eventually makes my prostate feel quite good, I’m at a loss of where to go now in terms of going for orgasms. I always thought that if I achieved involuntaries then these would lead to hands free, dry orgasms but sadly this hasn’t been the case. Read more Â»

Having lube issues

Hello. I’ve been playing with aneros for 5 years now. Never had a dry prostate orgasm. I think the lube is an issue for me. I have been using Walmart equate water lube but it dries way too quick. I’ve tried some Amazon water lube but that also dries quick.

Tried Coconut oil and put it in an injector and squeezed out like 4 tubes worth and also coated the toy. It still felt very dry inside the hole. Afterwards I was having wet farms and had to go to the bathroom everything I felt it coming. That lasted for 2 days 🤕

I just don’t know what else to try. Some of the toys I have are silicon so no silicon lube.

I’m at the end of my rope here as I think the lube problem is dampening my experiance

Solved my Helix Trident Problem!

Months ago, I schitzo-posted about my buyer’s remorse over my Helix Trident due to being unable to consistently p-gasm from it no matter how I switched the technique up. I’ve revisited it a number of times trying to chase that “classic Aneros experience” w/ mixed results. Bad mentality, I know. The results reflect that. Until recently.

I planned to do another 30d abstinence after running out of Slippery Stuff, but my horniness beat the fuck out of my willpower, so here we are. I have a castor oil/fractionated coconut oil blend I use for hair and as a pre-shave oil. Turns out, it’s not bad for fingering either. Turns out, a more viscous lube is the ticket for me w/ this particular device.

I can “feel” the Helix Trident much more w/ the thicker oil “lube.” It somehow has more movement now than w/ the Slippery Stuff and I can somehow feel more pressure on the prostate. Wish I had some kind of explanation for all that, but I sadly can’t give a comprehensible reason for any of these subjective claims.

All I can tell is that switching up the lube w/ Helix Trident made the world of difference. While still not as consistent as the Progasm Jr. at making me cum and not as destructive as the Eupho Syn Trident, it now has the potential to put me through several rounds of very hard p-gasms. I’ve also grown to appreciate the “rock-and-tap” movement provided. Read more Â»

Having aless pwaves/pgasms and cannot sleep

TL;DR I am currently on my second night of no sleep. Send help.

I’ve been at this whole prostate pleasure thing for many years now. Have a Helix Syn and love it to death; this sub was very useful for figuring out the techniques <3

About a year ago, I finally had a super O and also was able to experience Aless pleasure. Having spent years to get to the top of the proverbial mountain, I felt incredibly satisfied with myself.

Fast forward to two or three days ago. I hadn’t done any prostate play in a long time, and had reverted to jerking off. I think I overdid it though, because my prostate kinda stung sometimes.

Anyways, I had smoked some bud and was feeling pretty good but not at all in a mood for an Aneros sesh (had shit to do in the morning lol) when I was suddenly overcome by a massive Aless super O that came out of nowhere and blindsided me. When it happened, I was pleasantly surprised, but the thing is.. it was only the beginning.

It seems the progressive relaxation techniques are a double edged sword..

Now, whenever I’m trying to sleep, I get intense pwaves and I literally can’t sleep. It’s the second night of no sleep. I feel like absolute shit but God, it feels so damn good too.. fuck

Send help.