Tag: Prostate

Help on progressing [Question]

Hi so I would consider myself an intermediate aneros user, been using mine on and off for about 2 years while including the use of porn in my sessions. Today I decide to go without porn to feel out the vibes and I experienced what I hope was my first P Wave, if felt as if the aneros was going in and out on its own causing pleasure every time it moved, all while my legs were shaking and I felt tingles all over my face and body. This was my first time experiencing this but have not been able to recreate it. Later on in my session I tried but just got an erection and got the usual feelings of my prostate swelling against the aneros and forcefully pressing against it (this usually leads to a HFWO which I don’t want). Does anyone have any advice on how I can recreate and grow from that experience? Thank you.

TL;DR: Had my first P Wave, couldn’t recreate it where do I go from here.

The Progasm. Such a great purchase for me

I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about two years. Due to my family schedule and my own naivety and me being impatient I did not make much progress, or rather I didn’t make quick progress. I had worked my way through fingers to ‘training kits’ to generic toys to more expensive toys and finally settled on a dildo and an Aneros, the Helix Syn Trident.

Even then they didn’t do things for me every time, only some of the time. I looked at what I had and used and I decided I needed a bigger toy, but not bigger for the sake of being big. I wanted something with purpose so I picked up the Progasm the other day.

I have seen the posts of people saying, ‘my prostate to too high up,’ and I chalked it up to them meaning, ‘it’s not as easy as it sounds / looks in the videos.’ Boy was I wrong.

When I first opened the box I was surprised by how big the Progasm is and thought, “What have I gotten myself into?”. It’s much bigger than the Helix Syn Trident. Looking back at it I was disappointed with how small the Helix was but I trusted that Aneros knew what they were doing.

I prepped myself and inserted the Progasm and immediately knew I had made the right decision. I felt it press against my prostate and I started getting hard which was thrilling to me. I stood for a few seconds just enjoying the feeling. Read more »

Bit of a ramble

So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it. Read more »

Question about first session

Hi everyone. I bought my first prostate massager today and tried it out a a little while ago. I didn’t notice anything for a while, so eventually I just relaxed and focused on my breathing, pulling it in on the in breath and relaxing on the out breath.

Eventually I started to get erect, the sensation got more intense, and my contractions got stronger involuntarily. It got to the point where I was moaning and shaking uncontrollably, but the sensation would then die down pretty quickly. I then relaxed and started over, and this happened a few times.

What frustrated me, though, was that this wasn’t exactly pleasurable. It felt like I was on the verge of an orgasm, but didn’t quite make it. Is this normal? Does the fact that I had masturbated a few hours earlier have something to do with this?

Need help!

hello everyone
I‘m so frustrated. Since more than 10 years I‘ve been trying and I don‘t get there. The thing is that , as a kid, and long before I discovered my dick for masturbation, I discovered my prostate. It was something natural for me, it felt like magic, I had no idea that it was sexuality. At some point I stopped having super O’s during puberty because feelings had become overwhelming and I was kind of scared of it.

In my mid 20s I started using aneros and basically since then I‘m trying to have this feeling again. Everytime I think that I‘m getting there I‘m starting by zero again and I feel like I‘m just not able to be connected to my body. It‘s so frustrating because I remember the feeling of ecstasy , the pure bliss, feeling “whole“ ,don‘t want to sound dramatic but it feels like a big part of me and my sexuality is missing. I lost it and I‘m afraid that I‘ll never be able to feel it again.

I‘ve been listening to mindgasm on youtube which helped somehow, sometimes I get some shaking in the legs , it feels nice but that‘s it. Don‘t know how to make it bigger. I try to not expect much, try to relax etc… in the end I’m frustrated and sad. btw I‘m using helix trident. I used others in the past , was not any different Read more »

Did I have a prostate or penile orgasm?

I purchased an Aneros Syn V on Black Friday and have generally felt disappointed with my limited experiences so far.

Let me begin by saying I’m not chasing the Big O. I realise it takes months, sometimes years, before you might have the Big O. I have, however, been interested in prostate milking or something lesser than the Big O.

Now, I’ve had maybe four or five sessions, so I’m a complete noob. I’d never had any luck before whatsoever. Tonight, however, I decided to give it yet another go before deciding if I’m going to keep it or return it before the 60 days are up. I came back home after staying at my parents’ for the holidays; decided as I hadn’t had much alone time, I’d be aroused and might feel something special.

# The Session

I gave it a go and I quickly got hard and kept my boner for a good ten minutes or so, before it died down. I got a boner again and kept it for another ten minutes or so before, again, it died down. At this point, I thought I’d listen to one of my favourite pieces from r/gonewildaudio. I got a boner again and felt very aroused. Decided I’d top it off by watching one of my favourite porn videos. Read more »

I was using my PC muscles wrong and saw instant results after doing it right

This is actually incredible. I thought I could manipulate the Aneros well after 2 years of use. I am a not a newbie to this, yet I feel like I was doing it wrong the whole time!

People usually just say to move the Aneros use your PC muscle (the same one that bounces your dick) so I did. I isolated the muscle and could hold and move it well.

This would cause the Aneros to move but not much maybe in and out 2-3cm. I was doing the same in my last session but felt like I saw videos of peoples Aneros’ practically fucking them in a in and out motion.

I thought I tried it all. being super relaxed, relax the sphincter muscles and let the toy do the work but I was wrong. Your sphincter muscles can go a level deeper to practically not holding anything in. I realised that your base level of muscle relaxation (so you not thinking about tensing your pc/base muscles) isn’t actually how relaxed they can go but a mere constant flex you do unconsciously to stop shitting and pissing yourself.

So I can’t describe the feeling of what I did but the closest thing is a reverse kegal but a very light one. Then the PC clench. This caused my Aneros to move so much better and it felt much better than what I was doing before. Read more »

So I just had my first “session”…

(TLDR at the bottom)

if you could call it that. I’m brand spanking new to this but it seems like there’s a lot of rules although that may be too strong a term, guidelines I suppose it more apt.

In terms of those guidelines, I didn’t really follow them. This is my maiden voyage and I’ve never had anything up there besides my gfs tongue and maybe two inches of her finger. I got cleaned up, smoked some weed, got naked and lubed, and took a good 5 minutes to actually relax enough to get my helix syn inserted.

I watched porn, I stroked my dick, and generally just did what I would do when I jerk off, but I also stopped touching myself at points, relaxed, moved my pelvic muscles, felt my very first sensations ever from prostate stimulation. I wiggled and moaned but ultimately ended up stroking my cock until I shot a huge load and I think that’s ok.

Because I’m so new and still getting comfortable, while I understand there are specific methods to get to the specific goals we’re all aiming at, I also think it’s ok to do what you’re comfortable doing and taking you’re own route to mastering this type of prostate play.

I know I did it “wrong”, I know I’ll have to change, but that was pretty fun and felt really good and I’m going to bank that session as a relative success. Read more »

I got close!

I’ve been using aneros (helix syn trident) on and off for almost two years. Been making slow but steady progress, and yesterday I got closer than I ever have before to what I think could’ve became the start of a super o.

I found that the do nothing method works best for me. But not only did I just “no nothing”, I also did 3 steps which are what got me close.

1. Physically relaxing as much as possible.

2. Mentally relaxing as much as possible. This was the game changer and involved me actively clearing my mind and removing all intent and thoughts. (This was also the hardest step because I am normally kinda scatterbrained).

3. Steady breathing. The only thing I actualy focused on was keeping a rhythm of deep steady breaths.

By sticking to those three steps, I started to feel stronger sensations and after a short time my heart started POUNDING and I could feel the blood pounding acorss my whole body and it did not stop until the session ended. While that was happening I started to feel like the world was unstable or shaking and I even saw bursts of color coming out of my pelvic area at one point, like fireworks (I’ve heard people describe this as accompanying a prostate orgasm but had never experienced it before). My body (arms and legs) also started to quiver and shake a little. Read more »