From what I’ve read on all this prostate play stuff a big part is like “awakening/enhancing” how your prostate feels. And I’m just wondering if this is an all the time thing? If I somehow rewire myself does that mean I’ll feel it even in times I don’t want to do anything sexual and just go about my day?
Tag: Prostate
Shift your focus!
Hey,
For quite some time now I try to reach that elusive Super-O. I felt some pleasure here and there and had some p-waves but nothing earth shattering so far. Today I was kinda frustrated about another dud session, when I read the following quote in the aneros forum: “Pleasure is where attention is”. This made me think: I always felt the pleasure generated by the aneros in the general penis area. Maybe this was because my center of attention was very much penile focused? Penile pleasure waves are easily induced, so why not try to induce pleasure waves from the prostate? I mean, it’s a prostate massager after all, right?
So I had another aneros session with the intend to actually shift my focus from my penis to the spot, where the aneros makes contact with the prostate. At first nothing much happened. The penis sent some pleasure waves as always, but I tried to ignore them. I tried to even feel the tiniest sensations in my butt. After some time I felt some warmth at the spot where the aneros makes contact. Then, all of the sudden, holy fucking cow!!!, this sensation changed. It suddenly became pleasureable and pleasure was groing very deep inside of me. And not only that. It felt like a very substantial type of pleasure that felt like it could grow into a Super-O very easily. Compared to the pleasure induced by penile attention, which only feels like you are on the brink of a normal boring orgasm but dies down very easily, this one felt warm and fuzzy and lovely and like it could spread across your whole body. When I have p-waves in my penis, they die down easily when I get an errection, but the prostate centered p-waves weren’t affected by my errection at all (which, by the way, emerged much more rarely with the mentioned prostate pleasure than with the penile pleasure).
Finally achieved P-Waves
I decided to do an impromptu session tonight and although my preparations were hasty, it’s my most successful one so far.
I had tried the “do nothing” method a few times before and it really didn’t do anything apart from a few nice sensations sometimes.
I gave it another try, this time laying on my front instead of my back in exactly the same posture I use to sleep and closed my eyes.
After about 15 minutes of getting used to the feeling and just breathing normally I started getting tingles in the area near my prostate. These would last for maybe 30 seconds before going away and coming back.
However, after another 10 minutes the tingles came back and enveloped my whole body and it was honestly one of the best feelings ever, as if I had melted into nothing. This feeling continued for about a minute or so before going away.
For the rest of the session I had other similar feelings but none that enveloped my whole body so I decided to end it by manually having a HFWO, which I rarely achieve usually but came very easily this time.
I have never felt this drained yet satisfied after a session , I probably won’t have horny thoughts for the next few days.
Sorry for bad english, it’s not my first language.
Help to choose my 3rd Aneros
Hello people of the interwebs,
i need help to decide my 3rd Aneros, i would love to get some input form you guys 🙂
What i already have:
– PROGASM: first one i bought years ago. I like the feeling, but it seems to be very fixed in place. I feel kind of “full” with it (even if i can take WAY bigger toys usually), so not much movement i can induce. Needs some affort to keep it in, which can be annoying
– HELIX SYN TRIDENT: have it for a couple of month now, love it overall. gives me nice feelings. Easy to keep in, easy to move with my muscles down there. Overall very fun and the reason i started investing more and more time into playing with my prostate.
– LELO HUGO: kinda like Progasm but vibrating, very strong, alsmost overkill i would say. I enjoy it a lot tho
Further information:
I recently got into mindgasm which helps a ton to get deeper into prostate play. I never got to any HFD/WO nor Super-O or anything, just nice feelings during long sessions. I feel like i make progress due to the mindgasm sessions tho.
My thoughts:
– maybe the Progasm jr.? I really like the overall shape of the Progasm, it just seems to be a tiny bit to big/fixed to move around
I am getting there…
It‘s been some wild 2 -3 weeks and today is probably the most intense and craziest day so far…
I‘m a single 49 y/o straight male who is used to watching porn and wanking off, almost on a daily basis.
It even went so far that I‘ve developed a temporary ED, simply because of numbing my natural senses and overloading my mind and body with way too many stimuli.
My porn kinks got stronger and more bizarre and I literally spent more time searching for the hottest flics than enjoying my wanks.
Last month I‘ve made a decision to get rid of all the old blocking and harmful behavior and to kind of „restart“ myself in several ways.
I‘ve always been open to anal play, prostate play and other stuff but all the dildos that I have bought over the years just did not do it for me and probably only have supported my fantasy as I wanted to get pegged by my gf – if I had one lol.
Well, somehow I stumbled across this subreddit and found „Mindgasm“ which definitely was a huge eye-opener. Right from the beginning I could „roll“ my PC muscles and leaked a lot. On the third day, I had the first longer P-waves – still veeeery low level of course.
Then I read about the Aneros and ordered Progasm, Progasm Jr. and the Helix Syn because I‘ve been horny as hell and wanted way too much, way too fast. A huuuuuge mistake!
Super-O mindset?
I’ve been doing prostate play on and off over many years, without getting to the Super-O. Except once. I had been doing a session, initially without much success. At a certain point I dozed off, and as the toy got caught up in an involuntary contraction, something special happened. My prostate was sending waves of pleasure along my spine towards my head. That lasted a few minutes. Heavenly. Not full body shaking, just these highly pleasurable waves. This was over 10 years ago, and I’ve been unable to reproduce that sensation ever since.
Generally, I’m quite impatient (waiting in line is torture) and I have a very active and analytical mind. I’ve tried to go into hypnotic trance for a long time, using different files, but without any success. Even an IRL session with a certified hypnotist (just for helping me to relax) went nowhere. It would seem that I’m just unable to “let go”. Also, it takes a long time for me to fall asleep at night (30-60 minutes on average).
Where am I going with this? I’m wondering if I’m “doing it wrong” somehow. I’m not expecting a miracle solution, but I’d be interested if there are other people like me out there, and if they were able to “get there” somehow. What did you do to relax? Did you use a specific technique?
First Super O
Finally had my first super O last night and it was intense, and I owe it all to marijuana. I recently got into weed and it has really helped me make progress. My 3rd time pairing my sessions with weed, I started having my first HFDO’s; it was also my first time using coconut oil as lube. I was using my Helix Syn V and had it at the lowest intensity, 2nd pattern. The weed heightened the sensation and really helped me focus directly on the pleasure coming from my prostate, which led to some dry O’s. The day after this session, I felt like my prostate was craving more, which was a new feeling for me. I decided to go with it and have another session, this time without weed. Instead of chasing an orgasm, I decided to focus on staying relaxed and really focus on the feelings coming from my prostate. I felt more in touch with it than I had before using weed. I had a couple more sessions like this over the week where I would just focus on getting in touch with my prostate and identify the feelings it was giving. But then last night I decided to pair my session with weed again now that I was more in touch with my prostate. I used my Helix Syn V again with the same settings, and let it go for 40 mins to wake up my prostate while I watched a show on Hulu. After this I took some hits off my weed pen and started to focus on the feelings. Pretty soon I could feel the pleasure building and I had a dry orgasm that before it could end chained into a 2nd dry orgasm that was even stronger. Several mintues later this happened again, I had 3 dry orgasms that chained into each other and grew in intensity each time. I was in heaven, and while it was happening I was thinking that maybe these were Super O’s. But then the 3rd dry O chained into the most intense orgasm of my life. I was gripping the back of my couch with all my strength as my body convulsed uncontrollably, just lost in the pleasure that just seemed to keep growing. It lasted for what felt like minutes as I just kept convulsing, moaning, and whimpering uncontrollably. I was flaccid during the dry O’s, but at some point during the super O I got rock hard and starting cumming so hard it felt like I was peeing cum. When it all faded I just lay there breathing heavily in disbelief at what had just happened. People always say you will know without a doubt when you have a super O, and they are 100% right. After a couple minutes of recovery from my super O, I kept going and had a couple more dry orgasms that I could tell would build up into another super O if I stuck with it, but my body felt so tired so I just jacked off for 2 more regular orgasms cause I was still horny. The whole session was about 2 and half hours and I had 6 or 7 dry orgasms, 2 normal orgasms, and a super orgasm. I removed the aneros and it felt like my prostate was buzzing for a while afterwards, and my legs felt trembly and shakey for the rest of the night. It was an amazing experience unlike anything I ever imagined and I can’t wait for my next session. So happy to have made so much progress so fast.
Caffeine and prostate play?
Does anyone here have experience in whether consuming caffeine before a session increases the pleasure or chances of having a super O? I see a lot of people with anecdotes about THC, claiming it completely changed their success rate and it only makes sense that caffeine or nicotine would improve the chances as well. Afterall they are all psychoactive chemicals.
Need help finding the right technique
I’ve been getting into prostate stimulation and have had some amazing prostate boosted penile orgasms, but I want to work on getting to a true prostate orgasm without touching my penis at all.
I’ve read [this legendary post](https://reddit.com/r/CumFromAnal/s/CU5lc6VcJr) and love the image of the prostate as a sponge that needs to be gently tapped while horny to get it going.
I’m also very much aware of set and setting, but I also feel like I haven’t found the right position/technique yet that clicks with me. How do you do it?
I find the idea of lying on my stomach and grinding against a toy very hot, but I feel like there’s always some friction against my penis. any tipps on this one?
Any favourite techniques aside from that?
I have a glass dildo, an aneros trident, the lelo loki wave and an njoy pure wand.
“Advanced” Nipple play recommendations
I was wondering if anyone here has experience with nipple toys, clamps etc while using aneros?
I love playing with my nipples while I have sessions which is mostly just with my hands. This makes my prostate come alive so I am thinking if I “up my nipple game” I can have even better results.
Any advice or feedback would be appreciated