Tag: Prostate

Why are my dry orgasms so rare?

I think my blog posts are gone but it doesn’t matter 🙂
I’m 32 year old from Portugal with very little sexual experience (just been with other men occasionally and curious to be with a women but in general much less interested in women).

In super resume I’ve had aneros for 8 years now and I’ve got dry os but very rare, and never got a super o.
Some sessions I had in the last week kinda exemplify what I was able to get with aneros and how I think I have much to evolve.

In general my aneros sessions are pretty uneventful.
They generally take 3-4 hours (I use do nothing), and I can get some background pleasure but it generally don’t evolve much.

It’s extremely common however for me to quickly (especially if I just take a quick look at porn or just sexual images) start having some rhythmic movements of the aneros and my dick, because it’s hard when this happens. There rhythmic pulses are pleasant but I won’t call them pleasurable, because they’re just “nice” and nothing special.
Like I said this is extremely easy to get, but also they do pretty much nothing. Read more »

My SO edging exercise and practice

Hi guys,

For the few weeks, I have been meaning to post a blog entry detailing my SO edging exercise and practice.

Before I get to the body of this post, one of the most important dictums of Aneros directions for us is Penis Not for guys beginning their Aneros journey. An Aneros beginner has to learn and master the ropes of using the Aneros. He also has to experience the awakening of his prostate through using the Aneros. It is essential that he leaves his penis out of the equation. Once his prostate awakens, he experience his Alessness, the sweetness of Aless outside of his Aneros sessions. He experiences P-waves and such experiences as chairgasms, walkinggasms, or orgasms that come unawares upon him in bed at night. Thus he truly has embarked on his Aneros journey.

For me, the sweetness that has comes from my nearly eight Aneros journey was prepared many years ago by more intense jockstrap and athletic cup fetish happened during my pubescence and adolescence when jocks and cups were mandatory for athletics in the 1950’s and 60’s. Wearing a jockstrap or a jock/cup combo to bed often focuses my attention open my “man area” (using MLB great, Mark Littell, inventor of the Nutty Buddy athletic cup). Doing this has been over the years so powerful, so sweet, so sexual!!! -:) Read more »

A cure for erectile dysfunction, at least for me!

Hi guys,

Early this morning, Sunday at 2 a.m., we switched over to daylight savings time. This year the transition from standard time to daylight savings time was not too traumatic for me. I stay home from church and viewed morning service online. However, I am dressed for bed and will be heading there in a few minutes.

I am in the tenth year of my Aneros journey which began in early June 2012 with Aneros Syn. June 2012 to mid September 2016, my Aneros journey was hard work. I had a resolute schedule of Aneros sessions three to four times a week, Sundays off. My prostate began to awaken three weeks into my Aneros journey. A couple weeks later in July 2012, I began to have powerful, sweet Aless which I enjoyed immensely. I believe in November 2013, I added to my collection of Aneros tools Tempo which added power to my sessions. On July 4, 2014, I experienced a mild Super-O.

However, I had to wait until mid September 2016 before I experienced my Super-O and MMO breakthroughs. Since then my Aneros sessions have been effortless. Diddling my nipples and wearing my jocks and cups became very special.

Tonight I decided to wear a BIKE jockstrap to bed. Wearing a jockstrap magnifies the power and sweetness of nipple diddling and the Kegels. Read more »

Eupho Syn Euphorium Weekend

Eupho Syn Euphorium Weekend

Hi everyone.
It’s extremely rare (in fact I don’t remember if it ever happened) that I use the same massager in two back to back sessions. This is exactly what happened last weekend.

On Friday night, I felt like a low key, non aggressive session and so my body whispered it’s choices tool, the Classic Eupho Syn. The plan was to have a quiet session designed to simply sit back and enjoy whatever sensation the unit would yield me. Sometimes, I feel like having an aggressive approach so my MGX or Progasm Ice would be selected. This time, the ES did not disappoint!

As soon as it was inserted, I was transported to the edge of bliss but rather on the calm side. At no point in the session was I looking for more results than what I was experiencing, I did not try to escalate anything, as I sometimes do, in a quest to get to Super O country.

The session was such a great success that I simply wanted an encore on Saturday night. Well the short history repeated itself. My two-session weekend was exactly what my prostate prescribed!

The Classic Eupho Syn definatly has its place in my arsenal!

Good vibes to everyone!

Such a beautiful experience to achieve in my sexual life at nearly 40 – PART 1

2020.01.16 / PART 1:
I’d like to pay a tribute to Aneros and Helix Syn Trident and all here who write so much interesting testimonials and reviews. This smartly designed and soft thing added something tremendous to my already fulfilled sexual life, having a loving wife and 3 kids. It happened in just a few days and I still hardly can’t believe it is possible!
When I have read for the first time about P-spot and big “O” a few days ago, I knew it was something for me.
I have tried prostate massage by hand first. Prostate massage alone and by hand turned to be a total failure. I guess this is because of two much anal stimulation and because I didn’t feel comfortable at all, doing it alone.
Then I tried Kegel exercices in bed at night while everybody was sleeping. I did feel pleasure coming the first time with perineum contraction, doing this first in my bed.
Then I found the Helix Syn Trident on internet and ordered it immediately, after reading Aneros web site and blogs, I went on trying Kegels exercises, feeling pleasure, but not more. But the will to go further was growing incredibly fast, I was really waiting for it!
When it was delivered to my office, packed as a present, my boss was out for some reason, and I had nothing special to do… I could’nt resist to try at this moment! I went to a safe place, put a large amount of lubricant and inserted it softly. I put my clothes back over it and went back to my desk.
There, sitting towards my computer, I focused on my sensations and felt nothing, looking for a position that wouldn’t hurt on the chair. Then I started de Kegel exercises: Contraction of perineum, holding, releasing, waiting spasms, contracting slightly, and so on… Slightly I felt the Helix Syn Trident working, I felt growing pleasure, and I felt waves of pleasure, each time bigger in time and intensity. As I was alone, I started some other positions but each position change would stop the waves immediately. I also realized touching the Helix Syn, was doing the same. I didn’t touch my penis at all, according all I had read about it. I finally lied on the back, knees up and feet on the floor, and it was the best position. I let it go and started to shake, feeling strong muscle contractions everywhere. I didn’t see the time flowing but it was good! Jesus! It was already time to go home. I brought the thing home in a safe place because I had no time to play.
The following night I was once again awake in my bed, and for some reason I tried de Kegel exercises. Without the Helix Syn. I was surprised to feel the waves coming back again without it, but I stopped it before shaking not to awake my wife.
The next day I was working. At one moment I began to think about my experience of the day before and it started again without the Helix Syn, becoming stronger, this time I felt an orgasm happen. When it happened I had the feeling of an energy flow going through me upwards, was it just my imagination working?
The following day, I tried the Helix Syn early in the morning but I had not enough time to have an orgasm this time because I had to go. I was kind of frustrated. But the waves came back in the car on my way to my job without the Helix! I suppose this is not quite a good idea for security. I have had orgasms the all day long with hours of pause in between: in the evening I was so exhausted and feeling hurt at the perineum and others muscles, so I decided to make a break to rest.
But from time to time I can’t resist to let it happen again. While cooking, in my bed, and it keeps coming back better.
This weekend I will give it another try at home with the Helix Syn because I think I can get more if my body has rested. I can’t really explain how it happened, I guess this is all a question of confidence, relaxing and muscular training too. Sometimes orgasm is not coming at once but if I just let waves happen again and again it finally comes. Now I have to explain and explore this with my wife. I have to normalize the practice, keeping it for intimate places! I have still a lot to learn about it. I see now this prostate stimulator as a surf and as a key to pleasure… Many many thanks to all from my ocean of pleasure, surfing on this wonderful wave! feeling happy! Cheers!
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Such a beautiful experience to achieve in my sexual life at nearly 40 – PART 2

2020.01.18 / PART 2:
Hey Chaps! Feeling quite orgasmic, erotic, happy and energized this morning!
I know, I previously said I’d have a rest but I didn’t really managed to do it!
I’m afraid to be kind of addicted to prostate massage and orgasms…
As a compensation to the constraint to rest, I practised a massage on my perineum area and my anus with a mix of argan oil and a few drops of rosemary essential oil, and got early to bed.
To this point I must say I’ve never practised Kegel exercise with an erection or even touching my penis, and it didn’t lead me to an ejaculation.
Yesterday I was suddenly awake early in the morning in my bed, feeling horny. I guess I did unvoluntary some Kegel contractions on my perineum. It started hands free, without my aneros Helix Syn Trident. But I felt something different this time. My aim was to rest, so I stopped acting on the perineum and the anus muscles. I released my muscles, abdominals in particular, but nothing stopped. I relaxed and let it go, trying to avoid any muscle contraction.
I felt waves of involuntary contractions (not a series of spasms this time) coming in my abdominals, synchronised with my perineum. I would describe them as a series of small bowl contractions in my belly. As it was fast leading me to shake, I went off my bed, got my Aneros and started my third session with it straight away.
I decided to go on without acting on my muscles. I felt beautiful contraction waves with different rythms and intensities. I felt plenty of gorgeous sensations, having fun. This lead me to an orgasm, but running out of time, I had to interrupt the session.
Later at my office, in front of my computer, like in the first Aneros session, I was working. Suddenly, a reckless thought of this first session started the muscle contractions again. But this time I think that the Aneros had unlocked something! The contractions became uncontrollable, leading to waves of pleasure, orgasms, and the intensity was the highest I’ve ever experienced in my entire life (hands free and without prostate stimulator). My abdominals where contracting with the perineum altogether. Other muscles where involved, just like all muscles in my body reacted to the same signal. I’d rather say they were reacting to the same wave length! Sometimes I felt perineum and anus swirling inside, which sounds quite weird. At this stage, it was obvious to me that it was impossible to stop the process unless some event occured, emotionally or externally. I noticed the good spot to stimulate de P-spot externally on the perineum since it was pulsating with the waves. I played with it, feeling strong contractions immediately. But pleasure became to lower due to fatigue and strain on the perineum once again, and I grabbed this occasion to let them fade away and vanish. They would come back after a couple of hours, but it was still hurting at the perineum, so I stopped. I felt no frustration at this point because of what I had experienced before. This is a chance that I’m not working in an open desk and I’m now really afraid to go back there on monday! I am just addicted and ashamed towards my boss but no one noticed what happened! I’ll find a way to reward him another way and find a trick to avoid this in the office in te future. I hope I can have some control on it one day
I see this Aneros prostate stimulator as a key and the prostate as a locked door. The perineum is the handle opening the door of a land of pure erotic pleasure, for some time at least, until a lack of stimulation, time and context would finally shut and lock this door again. It means for me that I can use the Aneros as a key, then remove it from de lock. Then I use my perineum muscles as a handle to reopen the door and let pure pleasure flow through me. All day long, as many times as I want or as I can…
This is quite an exciting thought…

MGX Classic Night

Everything I mentioned about my Progasm Ice in my yesterday’s blog entry could be repeated here for last night’s session with my MGX!

In fact, I feel that every one of my massagers are performing as my very favorite lately. My prostate does not seem to care which toy to kiss, it just accepts it and reciprocate by giving me endless pleasure waves.

My next session will be Wed or Thur this week. Until then, I will enjoy my daily aless and edging sessions.

External prostate massge

Hi guys,

When I had those Aneros breakthroughs with Super O’s and MMO’s those couple days in the middle of September 2016, that is when I believe I became fully rewired by my nearly four years of Aneros sessions since early June 2013 when I used the Traditional Helix Syn for the first time.

Since those magical nights in mid September 2016, my Aneros sessions became effortless and my nipples became alive for the pleasures of nipple diddling at any time of day or night, especially nights in bed.

Those of you who have read my blog here know of my intense jock and cup fetish which began in earnest when my 7th grade gym coach told us boys we had to buy a jockstrap for gym class. It was a required part of our gym uniform. I wore my jockstrap with pride underneath my gym uniform and also for the erotic feel it gave my genitals. The summer after 10th grade, I summoned enough courage to get my first cup and jock. It was a Black & Bauer Procup with cup jock holder. The cup itself was a traditional flat cup which was not comfortable nor did it fit one’s genitals well. Athletes in many cases shunned flat cups as a result and thus risked unprotected genitals. This was in 1965. Read more »

First blog post

Hi

This is my first blog post, although I’ve posted several times to the forums after especially great sessions. I’m a 70 year old on the journey for a year or so now. I’m having pretty great success, although not every session leads to the super O. My best sessions have been mind-blowing, with multiple SOs that leave me limp (in more ways than one)! My wife is on board, and we share our PureWand in partnered sex, while I also slip off for solo play in the guest room.

I have a pretty good collection of Aneros and nJoy toys; Progasm Ice, MGX Trident, Helix Trident, Eupho Trident, PureWand, and PurePlug large. I have a Lelo Hugo, but don’t really care for vibratory toys. I will typically cycle through several toys each session.

I use THC; 25 mg dose of edibles and 20 mg of THC oil mixed with my injected lube. I also use poppers to trigger the super Os. In a good session I will typically have a series of powerful SOs lasting for 30 – 60 seconds each. My best sessions are usually after a period of abstinence, when my arousal level is at its highest.

I have ED, which I use Cialis for, and typically am flaccid during sessions. Most sessions I am unable to finish with a TO. Thank god for prostate orgasms!

Anyway, thanks for all the great knowledge shared here in the blogs and in the forum. It has really helped my progress.

nJoy Pure Plug

I just picked up the nJoy Pure Plug, large size, and am really liking it! It is super comfortable to wear, and keeps my arousal level on high when in place. I plan on using it anytime I plan for a session later in the day. That should really help keep the arousal going as the hour of power approaches.

I would have bought the pFun instead, but reviewers said it slips out pretty easily. The Pure Plug doesn’t have that problem, but the insertion length is quite a bit shorter, so is not as direct on the p-spot. Still feels awesome, though. I’ll update in a few days when I see how my next session goes.