Tag: Relaxation

First session

I hipecyall don’t mind – I am going to use this account to document my aneros/prostate play journey. I will post mostly to my profile but when I have a break thru or questions, I will go ahead and put in r/aneros.

A little about me: 47 years old, married for 17. I am a complete newb to solo prostate play. My wife has tried to stimulate my prostate with a finger and a toy before, but I’ve never felt anything but uncomfortable. The last time she tried, I googled why I’m not getting anything good, and eventually found Aneros and that’s why I’m here.

I purchased the Helix Syn Trident and finally had the opportunity to try it last night. I asked my wife for some “alone time” where I wouldn’t be disturbed. I took a quick shower to clean up and then a nice, long, hot bath to relax. I hopped in bed, lubed up, and worked the Aneros in…slowly. when it inserted, it felt completely fine…not uncomfortable at all, but I knew it was there.

I put on my headphones and listened to mindgasm – the first lesson. It went great! I definitely had involuntary contractions as I flexed my base – like my hip and thigh muscles were pulsing, in addition to my PC muscles. I enjoyed it so much I went to the second. lesson two was about vibrating the sweet spot -I was able to do that once but could not repeat it. Read more »

Supplements for relaxation

I can’t do weed because of my job but I am interested in supplements that help me achieve a deeper state of relaxation. Ashwaganda has done wonders for my nighttime anxiety and helps me sleep restfully and soundly. I’m thinking this could help with my sessions. I have been able to achieve HFWO a number of times but never back to back. What else can recommend?

Help! A New Dry Spell?

I was having all kinds of P-gasms up until this week. (almost 15 months) It is like my prostrate got tired & now it just relaxes me for an hour but maybe 1 or 2 orgasms. I just call it the Relaxation Phase. Does anyone have any advise? I have been using different Aneros massagers & hey all worked great until this week. My favorite massager got broke, Helix Syn V.

What just happened? Holy Crap!

Hi all,

I decided 2 days ago to order 2 aneros (I had 0 experience with prostate stimulation) I choose the Helis Trident and Helix Trident Syn. Yesterday I recieved them and tested them later that night.

I didn’t expect too much from it. After a nicely hot shower I lubed what was needed and inserted the Helix Trident Syn. I started playing around with the muscles around it but came to the realisation that I felt nothing… So I took it out and found out I inserted it the wrong way… I twisted it around and reinserted it as intended (The head didn’t point up to the belly but down to the back…).

Immediately I felt a difference, it was pretty nice, not painful and more ticklish. So I started playing around with the muscles, within 2 minutes I suddenly felt I didn’t had to do anything, my body started to move the aneros by itself. About 20 seconds later I started to feel my whole body tensioning and spasming. I was short on breath and feels like a orgasm? It was way more intens, I had 0 control over my body and everything just happened. It took about 2 minutes before I came back and had a chance to relax a bit. It didn’t take too long (note: less then 5 minutes…) though before my body started the whole routine over again. Read more »

Body cramped like I was a dying spider

Im fairly new to prostate play but something happened today.

Today was my 9th or 10th session using the Edge 2 from Lovense without it vibrating. I don’t think I’m rewired yet at all but maybe this is a start. I did the usual thing of laying down, relaxing and preparing myself, slowly inserting my toy, relaxing more, applying more lube, eventually getting the whole thing in and relaxing more until it all feels fine. Then I started reading doujinshi as it can build a slow arousal throughout the story and facilitate fantasizing of wanting to be some of the characters. I was breathing slowly and deeply through my diagram and using my pelvic floor muscles to move the toy like usual when something new happened.

As I read, my hands, feet, face, and the top of my stomach started to tingle. I didn’t try to chase this feeling and just stayed relaxed. I continued breathing and reading as the tingling grew more and more. I allowed myself to sink deeper and deeper into the feeling, but realized it was not just my skin being sensitive, but my actual muscles in my hands, legs, feet, wrists, lips, and fingers all were being activated and holding. My wrists was bent in, my fingers splayed wide, my thumb curled into the palm, my arm curled into my chest, my lips pursing, my legs bending and feet flexing outwards. I felt like a dying spider, with all my limbs coiling into my chest. Read more »

Aneros instruction classes – like Pilates!

I was just thinking how much fun an Aneros instruction class would be.

Bunch of people lying on mats trying to relax with people groaning and jerking at the get p-gasms. Maybe the teacher could give out marks for technique!

1st Aneros Session After 2 Months of Only “Toy-Free” Orgasms

I’ve had plenty of fun w/ kegel-induced orgasms since working on getting them consistent over the course of this past winter, and I decided to challenge myself to both only ALESS orgasms and semen retention starting 1/13. I don’t care about the SR claims, just felt like doing it. If anything, abstinence made the ALESS orgasms more consistent and led me to discovering just how pleasurable I find reverse kegels.

Yesterday, the prostate was badly aching for direct stimulation. I already planned to break out an aneros at the 2-month mark, so the anticipation was making it worse. Weapon of choice was the progasm jr. No weed or porn since NNN, didn’t even do much fingering this time. Basically just cleaned-down, lubed-up and got to work.

Like the advertisement, I did not last 5 minutes. That was one of the most intense and downright exhausting sessions I’ve had in some time. No prior ALESS session could stack up. I wanted it so damn bad, but no fuckin way I could take more than 1hr of what I can only describe as a conniption of cumming. Didn’t ejaculate, didn’t need to. How much precum and seminal fluid must one generate before the p-gasms are no longer considered dry? Half a ballpoint pen? A small lake? Tadpole pond?

Usually, aneros sessions leave me w/ that post-sex refreshment feeling. Not this one. I felt downtrodden and disheveled, a victim of the aftershocks that persisted for ~20mins after removal of the device. I was watching a Metroid speedrun trying to relax but I kept orgasming. The shame…

I’m interested but unsure about how save they are

I am interested in these aneros products, but if they make me feel unsafe, it will not put me in a relaxed and excited mode. I found out that some users had cracks in their aneros product and some broke. I gues the silicone version would provide some protection if things go wrong. How different does the silicone feel from the plastic versions?

I want to buy an Aneros toy to my bf for his bday

Hi, my boyfriends bday is approaching and I would like to buy him an aneros toy.
I have to say that he is new to this and has never tried anything anal. My ex in comparison really enjoyed it, but he knew himself so well, that I didn’t have to take care of anything (he knew how to ease himself into being able to take up big sizes too, he did the cleansing himself etc. …).
I don’t do anal toys at all on myself so I am not really experienced – thus, I would like to ask:
– should I get him the Helix trident? What is suitable for a beginner?
– I guess he will need an anal doushe too? Can I get any recommendations for that?
– should I get him poppers?? Are there other alternatives to them? (Never used them. Im scared they work similar to drugs)
– I would also like us to use it together on him – meaning maybe having some kind of mutual sexual experience while him using it (I am a woman), do you think this is possible? I don’t know if him having it inside and me stimulating his penis would be the same as me as a woman having a vaginally inserted dildo while the man pleasuring her orally on the clitoris … I assume that he needs to be relaxed w the aneros inside to have some pleasure, no? How should we approach this so it would be a mutually pleasurable experience and that he would be as relaxed as possible anally?
– my idea was to introduce him to this since he enjoys outward prostate stimulation so much. My and ex and me did pegging but I think we can’t start with that and he is open for internal prostate play for starters… Read more »

Movement issues?

Does anybody else have issues with their aneros moving in and out? I use a good amount of coconut oil and the only toy I can seem to get any movement out of is the progasm ice. And that’s only if I forcibly push to make it slide out like a quarter of an inch. It seems like I can’t get my sphincter muscles to relax enough to let any toy move in and out. I’ve even tried weed and while it helps me relax and gives me better results overall, still no movement. I also feel like the texture of the progasm ice helps with movement being that it’s slippery. Any advice? I’ve been trying for about 5 years now and still no luck. Small progress here and there but it’s still almost none. Even tried mindgasm. Any pointers is greatly appreciated!