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There’s a big difference between HFWO from physical prostate stimulation and dry super O. I am able to HFWO using toys and I’m also on my aneros journey with some great progress with relaxing and mindfulness. I’ve achieved strong p waves but no super o… yet.
Is it possible to achieve a non ejaculatory prostate orgasm from prostate play? And is it short lived or can it last over an extended period like a super o?
Would appreciate some advice…
Long post – sorry…
As the title says I FINALLY hit my first Super O and it wasn’t at all how I thought it would go. I’ve been playing for several years now with varying degrees of success – some sessions are great, some I experience nothing. Still, I kept at it and when I LEAST expected it it finally happened.
I wrapped work up early yesterday and decided to have a session. After a quick 10 – 15 minute meditation to clear my head I popped in my helix syn trident – no porn – just some ambient music to give me something to focus on and zone out.
I’ve noticed that no matter how much I try to not “chase” in the past I always end up chasing and trying too hard to make something happen. Also, I realized I keep expecting it to feel like a traditional, penile orgasm and so I’m probably searching for something that just isn’t going to happen. This week I decided my focus would be entirely on FEELING and LISTENING and being okay with whatever happens while also ignoring any pleasurable feelings that may involve my penis and focusing as much as possible on my prostate.
Nothing actually came of my session other than some light p waves and honestly I was okay with that. However, it finally dawned one me – I’ve been feeling these p waves all along but was failing to recognize / let them build before because as soon as they’d happen I’d clamp down and scare them away, basically. Anyway, I showered up and went along with my day.
After approximately 3 years of trying, albeit rather inconsistently, I finally reached what I think was a hands-free orgasm.
It took about 90 minutes of wearing the aneros along with watching some porn and teasing my nipples. A warm, incredibly relaxing feeling overcame my body. A bit later a small stream of squirt came out. At first I thought I was peeing so stopped the stream. Once I realized it wasn’t, I relaxed further and a huge stream of squirt started almost as if I was peeing. I was soaking wet but the feeling was incredible.
My question is: what’s the difference between when your prostate play causes squirt vs cum? Is there a way to cause one versus the other or is it just all individual anatomy?
Hello everyone.
In my first post I was writing about my frustration. I keep on trying and don‘t want the frustration to win. Thanks to all the recommendations and experiences, I probably would have given up already without reddit and other forums.
I‘ve made some progress in my last sessions. I feel like doing nothing works best for me atm. Just feeling, relaxing, no squeezing, no porn , (only listening to mindgasm in the beginning for relax and then to some erotic stuff), breathing and touching my nipples , belly and thighs (of course not the penis)
Last night I had a nice session, my body started trembling, I felt a nice pressure on my prostate, moving my hips.. but somehow my body was like “exhausted“ at some point if that makes sense. Maybe I was trying too hard or I was simply tired ? I cannot do a session during the day unfortunately. I think it‘s so difficult to stay “patient“ when things start to feel good .. what can I do when the tremblings start for example? Just keep on breathing, enjoying without wanting more?
A little concern of mine is that I don‘t live alone. i have seen videos of people screaming and moaning uncontrollably, I would literally wake up the whole house (i live in the city, have neighbors also 😅) i don‘t want them to call the ambulance haha
A question to the super o experts: how loud are you? Do you live alone? What about neighbors?
I’m in the middle of my journey towards the super-O, and have noticed something interesting happening.
When I orgasm during sex now, it feels different. It feels like my whole pelvic floor is involved in the orgasm.
*It’s like this:* my pelvic floor is super relaxed and then as the orgasm builds it almost feels as if my anus is opening up?
And then, weirdly, it’s almost as if I’m about to defecate lol as I ejaculate? The thought that I am going to does momentarily cross my mind.
It’s very strange. And ***extremely pleasurable.*** Is this unusual? What accounts for it?
I thought I would just relax with my Vice 2 & play with all the vibration levels on the remote from 01 to 17 and on different strengths from 1 to 4. I wasn’t trying for orgasms unless they happened. 2 separate times I started trembling all over pretty hard ( or shaking) but then it quit after 5 or 15 seconds. Whatever it was I did not want it to stop! What exactly was happening or starting to happen? I have had alot of P-Gasms , back to back, in multi P-gasms too with intense orgasms. Thanks in advance for all answers! Its a new experience for me.
So I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about 5 years now and own lots of toys – mainly Aneros. My practice has been a little inconsistent with periods of activity followed by months of not trying it. I guess when I first read about it in my naivety I was just gonna stick a toy up there and experience this incredible new type of orgasm. Sadly that didn’t happen and I’ve spent lots of time reading all sorts of techniques and toy reviews and persevering (albeit sporadically) hoping that at some point I’m gonna “get it”. I think I started to doubt that it even existed and that maybe this whole thing was a con – or even if it wasn’t that maybe I was just incapable of experiencing it.
Hi everyone. I bought my first prostate massager today and tried it out a a little while ago. I didn’t notice anything for a while, so eventually I just relaxed and focused on my breathing, pulling it in on the in breath and relaxing on the out breath.
Eventually I started to get erect, the sensation got more intense, and my contractions got stronger involuntarily. It got to the point where I was moaning and shaking uncontrollably, but the sensation would then die down pretty quickly. I then relaxed and started over, and this happened a few times.
What frustrated me, though, was that this wasn’t exactly pleasurable. It felt like I was on the verge of an orgasm, but didn’t quite make it. Is this normal? Does the fact that I had masturbated a few hours earlier have something to do with this?
hello everyone
I‘m so frustrated. Since more than 10 years I‘ve been trying and I don‘t get there. The thing is that , as a kid, and long before I discovered my dick for masturbation, I discovered my prostate. It was something natural for me, it felt like magic, I had no idea that it was sexuality. At some point I stopped having super O’s during puberty because feelings had become overwhelming and I was kind of scared of it.
In my mid 20s I started using aneros and basically since then I‘m trying to have this feeling again. Everytime I think that I‘m getting there I‘m starting by zero again and I feel like I‘m just not able to be connected to my body. It‘s so frustrating because I remember the feeling of ecstasy , the pure bliss, feeling “whole“ ,don‘t want to sound dramatic but it feels like a big part of me and my sexuality is missing. I lost it and I‘m afraid that I‘ll never be able to feel it again.
I‘ve been listening to mindgasm on youtube which helped somehow, sometimes I get some shaking in the legs , it feels nice but that‘s it. Don‘t know how to make it bigger. I try to not expect much, try to relax etc… in the end I’m frustrated and sad. btw I‘m using helix trident. I used others in the past , was not any different
This is actually incredible. I thought I could manipulate the Aneros well after 2 years of use. I am a not a newbie to this, yet I feel like I was doing it wrong the whole time!
People usually just say to move the Aneros use your PC muscle (the same one that bounces your dick) so I did. I isolated the muscle and could hold and move it well.
This would cause the Aneros to move but not much maybe in and out 2-3cm. I was doing the same in my last session but felt like I saw videos of peoples Aneros’ practically fucking them in a in and out motion.
I thought I tried it all. being super relaxed, relax the sphincter muscles and let the toy do the work but I was wrong. Your sphincter muscles can go a level deeper to practically not holding anything in. I realised that your base level of muscle relaxation (so you not thinking about tensing your pc/base muscles) isn’t actually how relaxed they can go but a mere constant flex you do unconsciously to stop shitting and pissing yourself.
So I can’t describe the feeling of what I did but the closest thing is a reverse kegal but a very light one. Then the PC clench. This caused my Aneros to move so much better and it felt much better than what I was doing before.