Tag: Relaxation

So I just had my first “session”…

(TLDR at the bottom)

if you could call it that. I’m brand spanking new to this but it seems like there’s a lot of rules although that may be too strong a term, guidelines I suppose it more apt.

In terms of those guidelines, I didn’t really follow them. This is my maiden voyage and I’ve never had anything up there besides my gfs tongue and maybe two inches of her finger. I got cleaned up, smoked some weed, got naked and lubed, and took a good 5 minutes to actually relax enough to get my helix syn inserted.

I watched porn, I stroked my dick, and generally just did what I would do when I jerk off, but I also stopped touching myself at points, relaxed, moved my pelvic muscles, felt my very first sensations ever from prostate stimulation. I wiggled and moaned but ultimately ended up stroking my cock until I shot a huge load and I think that’s ok.

Because I’m so new and still getting comfortable, while I understand there are specific methods to get to the specific goals we’re all aiming at, I also think it’s ok to do what you’re comfortable doing and taking you’re own route to mastering this type of prostate play.

I know I did it “wrong”, I know I’ll have to change, but that was pretty fun and felt really good and I’m going to bank that session as a relative success. Read more »

I got close!

I’ve been using aneros (helix syn trident) on and off for almost two years. Been making slow but steady progress, and yesterday I got closer than I ever have before to what I think could’ve became the start of a super o.

I found that the do nothing method works best for me. But not only did I just “no nothing”, I also did 3 steps which are what got me close.

1. Physically relaxing as much as possible.

2. Mentally relaxing as much as possible. This was the game changer and involved me actively clearing my mind and removing all intent and thoughts. (This was also the hardest step because I am normally kinda scatterbrained).

3. Steady breathing. The only thing I actualy focused on was keeping a rhythm of deep steady breaths.

By sticking to those three steps, I started to feel stronger sensations and after a short time my heart started POUNDING and I could feel the blood pounding acorss my whole body and it did not stop until the session ended. While that was happening I started to feel like the world was unstable or shaking and I even saw bursts of color coming out of my pelvic area at one point, like fireworks (I’ve heard people describe this as accompanying a prostate orgasm but had never experienced it before). My body (arms and legs) also started to quiver and shake a little. Read more »

A-less technique

I’ve been experimenting with an A-less technique that was written up on the Aneros forum and recently showed up on Reddit too. The technique has you contract the ischiocavernosus and bulbospongiosus muscles (aka “top/secret muscle in Mindgasm vernacular) ever so slightly to build up pleasurable sensations and the relax everything. During the relaxation phase, apparently some can continue to focus on the pleasureable sensations that got kicked started during the contraction phase and enter a pleasure loop that manifests into orgasm.

I can get very pleasurable feelings going by these ever so light “top” squeezes but can’t figure out how to build/amplify arousal during the relaxation phase.

Wondering if anyone here uses a similar technique and how they go about it. Any tips or variations welcome. Basically looking for a discussion on this topic as usually people have single pieces of fantastic wisdom that ends up being the key for others success.

Thanks in advance!

Helix Trident Owners: How The Hell Do You Work This Damned Thing?!

I’ve had this toy for a few months, and if you told me to give it a performance review sans operator error, 2/5 easy. Thing would work better held between the knuckles for use as the world’s funniest push dagger, specifically for use on whatever shit-for-brains convinced me to buy it.

I can’t get the movement down consistently. I’ll often feel like I’m not sufficiently lubed due to loss of movement, “extract” the device, and find it hard to maintain a grip before even looking to re-grease. Tried switching up the type/strength/speed/combination/range/intensity/psionics of the kegels, leg and body position/posture, “doing nothing” and letting the involuntaries (if any) work it, incorporating body movement and letting the hips work it, guiding w/ fingers, switching between fingering and device (which usually sets me off, no dice), fucking inserting it “upside-down.” Just can’t nail it down. I can make a very similar “rock-and-tap” movement w/ my eupho syn trident, and that produces great results. The helix trident, thus far, has mostly produced great consternation.

Hell, even the “rock-and-tap” motion, the reason I bought it, provides inconsistent pleasure. Light-yet-firm prostate presses are a winner, and yet I’m mostly getting just p-waves from this thing’s taps. Increasing the frequency of the “tap-kegels” for more pleasure is more hindrance than help, especially when trying to relax. Read more »

MGX – will just doing nothing really work?

I picked up an Aneros MGX last year and have tried it a handful of times.

So far I’ve managed to get some pleasure from it but not the elusive pgasm – whether dry or otherwise.

I’ve tried manually moving it using the kundilini handle even though I heard it’s not recommended. I’ve tried contracting and relaxing my anal sphincter.

I’ve tried various positions and various kinds of thrusting.

Someone that I picked up on /r/prostateplay however sounded very promising.

Someone commented that you can do literally nothing – as in just lie there – and the natural peristalsis of your anal muscles will sort of manually push the toy in and out therefore stimulating your prostate.

Obviously you have to be in the right frame of mine. But… If the more vigorous methods of stimulation have thus far failed me does doing nothing other than lying there with it in hold any potential for success?

33d Total Abstinence + Eupho Syn Trident/Progasm Jr. = This Post!

No superpowers, and I’m frankly glad it’s over. I feel like there’s a level of meme mysticism built around NNN due to habitual porn-watchers suddenly stopping. At least, I feel like quitting porn early got me through. Maybe I was supposed to do something specific during the challenge besides not nut idk.

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Endpoint was wednesday morning; I started the challenge early to avoid having to wait until midnight of the final day. I didn’t use any porn for these sessions. No weed either. I actually stopped consuming any weed half-way through NNN. No square-assed reason for that, just felt like stopping.

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11/30: Released from the challenge, I finally allowed myself to fixate on sexual fantasies, doing kegels when they’d manifest throughout the day. No orgasms, but quite a few p-waves. Eventually got old. Once afternoon hits, I cleaned, came out w/ towels, laid one down and started fingering. First orgasm after 1mo was a light-yet-deep, very pleasant dry-o from minutes of fingering. Obviously, it’s not the “grand entrance” others would work to after a nut-ban or whatever, but that’s how I wanted to start. 3 followed, each more intense than the last. Once I had enough of that, slid the eupho in, laid down on my back and relaxed.

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I did it! Holy hell, I did it…

I pulled it off this morning. A dry one and then a hands free one. Back to back. It was fucking incredible. Like, I get it now. How am I this old and just now discovering this kind of orgasm?

Not even a week ago I posted that I was worried it wouldn’t work for me and here I am, needing to recover from a freakin’ orgasm!

It’s been about an hour since I came and I’m still feeling the tremors and a tingle. I have never had an orgasm like that. Not even my first.

I was working on it for two hours on and off, different positions, trying different things, had some smaller ones, taking quick breaks, and then it hit. Just like everything I’d read about it. It just slowly took over. My whole body was trembling violently. I was on my back with knees up. Every part of me tensed up to the max, my hips raised until I was practically in a bridge, and held it and it just washed over my entire body like a slow wave. I was moaning VERY LOUDLY, like it was completely out of my control. To that kid who posted about being worried about prostate orgasms in a dorm hall, be warned my dude. Your roommate won’t be the only person you’re going to need to worry about. I’d be shocked if my neighbors *didn’t* hear me. Read more »

Newbie looking for advice…

So for about a year or so I have experimented with various vibrators in my ass which definitely have felt good and have led to some amazing orgasms while masturbating or having sex. But I more recently learned about prostate orgasms that have nothing to do with the penis and bought myself a new toy… I decided to start in the bath tub since that’s where I play with other toys in my ass a lot and once I got the aneros in I definitely could feel how it worked but as I relaxed and tried to build the spasms and contractions I just never could. After a good hour or so of different techniques I decided to get out and try it in bed with some porn on to help get me really stimulated.

Once in bed I began on my back again like I was in the tub and still wasn’t really able to get much to build together. I was doing deep breaths, holding the contraction and everything I had read online but not much was working. Decided to flip over to my stomach and what a difference that made. I quickly started to squirm and move around as the spasms and contractions began to build and I was just letting my body do its thing. Read more »

THC. Please help

Been chasing this friggin life changing orgasm for over a year now, without amy luck.
I tick all the boxes. Relaxed, Aneros Trident, Tons of lube, gentle touches, precum, pissing sensation, you name it.
I am willing to try anything cos I really want this so bad. So, for the first time EVER, I got my hands on some edibles (Brownies), with about $50 of gear in them !!

Now, heres were you guys come in. Yes, advice would be nice;

1. How smashed do I need to bec?
2. When relaxed, should I use the “do nothing” method, do kegels, or juck fuck myself to death ?
3. What is the optimal position?
4. Are my chances of orgasm greatly increased with edibles?
5. Do you have any other suggestions that might get me to heaven ?

I’m really hoping to get some constructive suggestions from you, as I’m as horny as a fucking toad, CONSTANTLY !!

Thanks in advance ❤️

Second time using, I take back what I said yesterday

What follows is a long meditation and reflection on the orgasm I had this morning. It’s mostly a means for me to analyze what happened and how to steer myself closer to the intended prostate orgasms that come from proper use and habit with the Prograsm. Your feedback, of course, is welcome.

Had plenty of time to myself this morning and I took it for another spin. Relaxed, popped the Progasm in, and tried out a bunch of positions:

1. The classic laying face-down with one leg up
2. Piled some pillows up and lay over them, elevating my pelvis
3. Lay on my back, knees up

I also applied the lube differently this time. Applied to my anus with fingers, but poured a bit into my hand and then lightly cupped it around the Progasm. The result was a nice, thick coating that I’m sure was about to get squeegee’d off by my rectum but I had a thought yesterday that maybe it had a hard time moving around inside of me because it wasn’t slippery enough. I have a hard time reaching in with my fingers, if you get my drift. The dimensions of my body seem to be short arms, long torso, zero flexibility, and I can really only get my middle finger into the sphincter but not much further, hence the dependence on toys.

Position #1 produced an effect but didn’t really feel comfortable. Read more »