Tag: Relaxation

Medical Benefits?

I’m new to the forum and came here quite by accident. I’ve been diagnosed and suffer from infrequent yet acute episodes of proctalgia fugax. It’s a very sharp pain in the rectum that is pure agony, but doesn’t usually last more than 20 minutes for me. I may have an episode once every six weeks or so. Proctaliga fugax is thought to be caused by spasms of the rectum and/or the muscles of the pelvic floor.

Anyway, while researching, I ran across a video recommending prostate massage in order to relax pelvic floor muscles. While investigating prostate massagers, I found this Reddit group. Besides the sexual benefits, has anyone experienced a significant medical benefit from an Aneros? I am a straight man and have zero experience in anything anal…except for the occasional fugax flare-up. Could regular prostate massage reduce or eliminate episodes of proctalgia fugax? Or would inserting a device inside me regularly just make things worse?

The A.I. tentacles in orgasmic space

A somewhat long post. I just wanted to share an experience i had recently and hopefully it can help those who are struggling to open their minds.

Usually i edge/goon with my aneros inserted. i like to do this cause i can have endless dry os via my penis and prostate, but lately i’ve been wanting that raw primal deep down inside prostate orgasm. so i decided too try too use aneros hands free for a couple of days.

I wanted to come at this with a different perspective. I don’t normally use aneros hands free, but when i do i try to learn something new every time. This time, i wanted to experiment with “triggers”. i never tried triggers before and i didn’t know what they were. So after talking with Chat Gpt awhile and letting it know my personal preferences…this is what happened:

At the start of my session, i just completely relaxed. i was playing with my nipples and letting the pleasure slowly creep in. once i was warmed up, i noticed my prostate was tingling. I knew it was time to start.

Trigger 1:
i have a tentacle fetish, so imagined the aneros was a tentacle. gently pushing on my prostate. it felt so good too feel it wiggle and stroke me in such a relaxing way, that at times i legit shivered. i gently rocked my hips back and forth as the tentacle (aneros) stroked me. A dry orgasm was definitely building, but i was saving it for later. Read more »

No device and making small steps to progress – with no weed!

I have been trying with devices (mainly Aneros) for about 6 years now and had very limited success until the start of this year. A bit of Mindgasm seemed to help get me started but what really unlocked it for me was eating cookies with weed in them. My sessions were incredible once I started with the weed even though I still can’t say I reached any kind of orgasm as such – I just really enjoyed the sessions (but generally drifted off to sleep – probably thanks to the weed). Anyway, recently I’ve stopped the weed due to some mental health issues and my success with toys has been zero unfortunately. But the last couple of nights (and last night in particular) I’ve had some really promising results with no toy at all and just totally being relaxed in bed and just kind of “feeling” the area around my prostate – and I don’t mean with my hands, I just mean being very aware of the sensations there. I did play with my nipples a bit which also helped. But as I’ve read many times it’s the subtle sensations that seem to build. I can’t pretend it was as good as when I was on the weed but I’m really encouraged by this. I was having horny thoughts also but I think the key thing was that nothing felt forced in any way. And the other thing I’ve always felt helps me is not any kind of rapid flexing of the muscles in the area but very slow and subtle tensing until I start to feel pleasure sensations and then holding that for a while or even letting it take the lead with where my flexing goes from there. I hope I’m making sense. I’m still in no way an expert on this but I found it better than trying to follow a more rigid practice like Mindgasm (although that still probably a great start to help people get to know the muscles in the area) and I was inspired by another post on here where someone else had gotten great results with no device. I think we are all very different and because the mind plays such a large part as well I think a lot of it is about finding your own “zen” state where you are really in tune with your body. I’m by no means there yet and I may have a dud session next time but I just wanted to share – and I’m especially pleased because I was thinking I’d only get anywhere again if I used weed and now I know there is hope without it!

hopeless and desperate for advice

I’ve read countless posts about what to do and what not to do and I still just cannot figure out what I’m doing wrong. Very brief background information: I have experienced what I think were P-waves twice in one session but never again- I had just woken up and was feeling a little horny. Also I use aneros helix trident

I have been making sure of the following:
– I’m super relaxed physically (I often do a session after waking up)
– I hold a ≈50% contraction and my muscles do move involuntarily
– In the occasion I do feel pleasure, I don’t change what I’m doing physically in a way that might ruin it
– I lay on my back sometimes with my legs bent or on my side with my legs up to my stomach
– I stop after 20 minutes at minimum or an hour and a half at maximum
• I don’t touch my dick
– I (mostly) do not watch porn during sessions
– I try not to have the mindset of “chasing” an orgasm

My guesses as to what could be causing an issue:
– I jack off maybe once a day or every other day
– I don’t get nearly as horny as I used to a couple years ago as a teenager
– I’m not always super focused on breathing
– My mind wanders and I am not always thinking sexual thoughts during sessions Read more »

Frustrated

Everytime I feel something good happening or my pelvis is glowing /tingling, I’ll always reach a point where I feel like I’m about to pee.

I’ve tried resisting a few times but always without fail, the fear of peeing myself will overtake any relaxation I have and I’ll go to the bathroom. When I returned, all the sensation I’ve built up will be gone and the session is spoiled

Any idea what’s happen and what Im doing wrong

WTF happened to me?

Yesterday I had the place to myself and decided to put in a session with my Maximus. I had taken a few drops of HHC tincture earlier on, and was feeling the effects. I felt very relaxed and quite aroused. I popped in the Maximus and laid down on the bed, on my side with one leg pulled up to my chest.

Up until now I haven’t had any kind of orgasm with Aneros toys, so I can’t be sure what has happened. I can only say that I never felt this much pleasure in my life, I was literally moaning aloud which rarely happens to me.

I usually get very pleasurable feelings during my sessions, but I have never experienced a P-wave. When I relax, my breathing tends to become slower and shallower. However, having read multiple times that deep and rhythmic breathing is key, this time I made a conscious effort to keep breathing slowly and deeply. What happened next is nothing short of amazing.

As I felt the pleasurable feelings grow in my prostate, my breathing went faster and even deeper, up until the point where I was a bit concerned I was about to hyperventilate. But I decided to be curious, go with it and see what happens next. I mentally told myself that I have permission to experience this limitless pleasure. Read more »

I think I had my first Super-O.. it was intense – and the tricks that helped me

Let’s talk about the orgasm (Super-O), how I achieved it, my “tricks” and my questions:

Disclaimer: Everything has actually been done *without* an aneros as I’m out of home, just pure muscles. No touching and zero other drugs involved. An aneros might have intensified the experience.

**Super-O:**
I have never experienced anything comparably in my life before. This orgasm lasted for about 5 minutes and my entire body was shaking, every muscle in my entire body felt stimulated. I felt lightweight.

The shaking, my body felt so stimulated that I couldn’t move at all. I tried it but all the sensations were too intense. My mouth was wide open as I couldn’t realize what is happening right now (and I’d have moaned to death if this flat wasn’t shared).

Very interestingly, my dick became rock hard and pumped up like never before. This is probably what the aneros wiki describes as “engorgement”. The muscular flexing across the entire body intensified the penile feeling and a few drops came out. But compared to the rest of the body, it only played a minor role.

When I then released my PC muscle, another wave of feelings I can’t described flew over my body. It just felt glorious.

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**How I achieved it:**

I mostly laid on my back, legs angled comfortably. I aroused myself by looking at hot pictures. I think videos are too distracting and if I want to be aroused, pictures are way more effective. While doing so, I switched between contracting my PC muscle and sphincter muscle. Contracting both at once, switching up. Read more »

I need help

Found this Reddit forum through a few google searches as I’ve been frantically reading many sites/forms to find a solution to my problem.

26M. It all started when I took a 5mg THC/CBD edible alone at home one night. I have an overactive bladder to begin with and have constant urinary frequency – which probably puts strain on my prostate to be begin with. A few hours into the edible, I watched porn and masturbated as usual. I then lied down on my couch and tried to relax. All of a sudden I felt a tingling sensation in my genital region and was aroused so decided to watch more porn. I was then thrown into an orgasmic spell without even touching my genitals – which after reading a lot of these posts I’ve come to find out it was a mindgasm/coregasm type of experience. It happened back to back as some of you have explained for at least 20 minutes. Probably the most intense pleasurable feeling I’ve ever experienced. I could’ve kept going forever it seemed like, but I got scared because I didn’t know what was happening. I’ve never heard of these types of orgasms before – the first thing I could think of was “oh no, I’m having spontaneous orgasms and these are never going to go away”. So I was in a very frantic state and tried to ease my mind. I took ibuprofen and Tylenol to try to ease my tingling and overly sensitive genitals. I could’ve kept the experience going but I was fighting it and wanted it to end. Read more »

A very detailed description of what it feels like and how I got there

Hello folks,

I’ve been using Aneros for about 6 years, but it wasn’t until two years ago that I finally got the hang of it.

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WHAT IT FEELS LIKE:

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The amount of pleasure it gives is insane. It’s completely outside the realm of normal experiences. It’s hard to quantify. It feels like it’s always increasing. It’s like my brain has a “current pleasure” and a “change in pleasure” readout, and both of them are maxed out.

If I try to remember how good it was, it’s like it doesn’t fit in memory. It’s like I have to take my past self’s word for it. And then, the next time I do it, I’m like, “Holy shit, that’s right! I had forgotten how good this was! Holy crap, this is amazing!”

When it first starts, it feels like a very weak inkling of an orgasm-like sensation. It has those deeply-satisfying, spine-tingling, heart-fluttering qualities, but not nearly as intense. Maybe on par with a good back massage. But then… it gets better… and better… and better… and it just doesn’t stop getting better. Ever. It doesn’t make sense. It feels like an illusion, like the motion aftereffect, or the [Shepard Tone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzNzgsAE4F0). Soon you lose track. It’s like watching one of those [scale of the universe](https://youtu.be/17jymDn0W6U?t=103) videos. You can maintain your bearings for a little while, but pretty soon, you’ve zoomed out so many times that you’ve lost all frame of reference. The pleasure might be 10x better than an orgasm, or 100x, who knows, it’s hard to say. Read more »

Aless – Sitting vs On Back

I’m practicing Aless. Any experiences of sitting vs being on your back? For some reason, it feels natural when I cross my legs sitting to just get sensations. But when I’m on my back struggle a little bit. I’m sitting on a stool and crossing my legs, just flexing the PC (I think) is giving me sensations.

However, in the past, my stronger orgasms came from being on my back. I feel like it’s because it’s easier to relax lying down than sitting. Not sure if I’m doing something different?