Quick question. When I use an aneros, my go to method is to relax and not clench. I’m curious for those who have success with the do nothing method, what do you do when you go aless?
Tag: Relaxation
Progress?
Hi all. Familiar story for me with use of the aneros line. Picked it up and put it down off and on for years. Only about 6 months ago did I get serious about training and practicing enough to create pleasure. That lit the spark and I’ve been feeling some very nice sensations though nothing mind blowing.
Tonight’s session though was a different story. I used my Syn Trident on my back with feet flat and did the usual relaxation and doing nothing at first. I’ve just started to really work on PC muscle strengthening so though I’d give some tug-o-war a try tonight.
The usual nice fluttering took place but then a VERY slow change started to take place. I held the toy in the middle of a slight kegel contraction and almost imperceptibly slowly I began to feel the toy draw up. Once it felt it was as high as it could go I could feel my body closing in on it. Next, again extremely slowly, my abdominal muscles began to contract. I held everything in the region of the Aneros steady. The abdominal contraction continued to build until I was in a full ab crunch (hard) and my ass was off the bed. My body has clamped down extremely hard on the Aneros. After two minutes my body slowly relaxed from this contraction and after 30 seconds (and catching my breath) another ramp up ab crunch came. This cycle repeated for probably 30-40 minutes.
Something good happened NSWF
I am 21 years old and have been using Aneros off and on for a bout 2 years. Today I popped in my helix And just sat back and relaxed. After about 30 minuets of me contracting my PC muscles I began to get hard and I felt this really nice feeling in my prostate. It felt like the Aneros was hitting it right in the perfect spot! I grew harder and hard and began leaking pre-Cum. It felt like I was being kicked in the prostate or like a stroking was happing. I was saying “don’t stop, don’t stop, keep fucking me, I think I might cum.” It felt like I was building really quickly to an orgasm. I was holding onto the head board and fist bumping each time the toy hit my prostate. After about 2-5 minuets of this sustained pleasure my body took a very fast and sudden drop off of pleasure and I felt super relieved, like I had had an orgasm. I was laying in my bed doing slight contractions after whatever the hell just happened. And I even contemplated taking the toy I’m just going to the store. I felt very satisfied. I took the toy out and didn’t even bother masturbating, because I just felt so satisfied. What the hell did I just experience? This is the first time in two years that I’ve ever had something like this happened to me! Also more tips and tricks are helpful for me to use the toys! Always learning.
Sucking in too much
Sometimes when I put the aneros in ( I use the Progasm) I feel like it goes in too much. When this happens the prongs of the Progasm press into me hard, making it in comfortable. Once it’s in for a while I am able to relax and it gets better but I would prefer it not to happen at all Does anyone have any tips so this doesn’t happen?
Accompanying audio
Can anyone recommend or link to audio that helped you reach a super O or HFDO/anal orgasm? I’ve been experimenting with Aneros for awhile now but admittedly struggle with relaxation, focus and tempering expectations.
I’m a mindgasm subscriber and I’ve been through the lessons but also seem to suffer from the pressure of keeping up with the directions and instructions.
Perhaps a prostate-focused binaural beat or even hypnosis?
Open to suggestions and ideas in order to reach the next levels of intense pleasure that I read about so often on here.
Thanks!
First dry orgasm
So I had just finished off a uni assignment when I decided to pick up my helix syn again as a reward. I’d been on a 4 week break so I wasn’t expecting much out of the session, I put on some porn while a-less and then kept searching for pleasure in my prostate, eventually the involuntaries got pretty frequent so I decided to put the porn away and focus on my body for a bit, I was just enjoying this part of my session as normally it takes a lot longer to get in the mood.
After a bit, I put my aneros in and relaxed whilst contracting my pc muscles every now and then. I put on some porn and continued with what I was doing, suddenly this heat and pressure started to build in my prostate and slowly spread until it hit my head like a ton of bricks, I could feel myself getting to the finish line and it was at this point I put the porn away and started to play with my nipples to get myself over the line. This is what I predicted and it worked! I had a dry orgasm that lasted about 8-10 mins, I just lay there completely in shock by how much pleasure I was feeling.
To anyone who thinks frequency is key, I’d say in my case it wasn’t. To me it was 100% about knowing what your body likes and being in the mood. Once you know how to look for pleasure in your prostate, you’re set. It could be months before you have another session and you never know, it could be your best.
Decreasing my porn consumption may be helping significantly?
I have been practicing with aneros for four years now, but never what I would call a Super-O. Many sessions where the sensations have been better than ever before, though. I own the Helix Syn, Eupho, and Progasm.
After reading enough posts about the distraction it causes, I’ve decided to begin cutting porn out. This is the end of my second two-week hiatus from it, and recently every other session has started feeling leaps and bounds better than it ever has before.
Porn is still present to some degree in my sessions–I usually warm up with it, and listen to some audio porn during, but that’s now the only time I consume porn, and I hope to continue decreasing this in the coming months.
Tonight, I started to feel the sensations begin to spread from my pelvis outward, for the first time ever, but my concentration was already collapsing, and it was over in a flash.
The session before last, I experienced pleasant tingling and aching in my penis and prostate, which was another first for me.
As amazing as the sessions have started becoming, I’m still learning to strike the balance between “relaxed” and “focused.” I hope I’ll be blessed with continued success, and that you all will be, too!
OMG IT FINALLY HAPPENED (first orgasm)
okokok so 18 yo male been experimenting with my aneros for about three months with little results other than involuntaries (with minimal pleasure). tonight i had just finished working out and was lying on the couch and felt that “whisper” i keep seeing brought up (horniness from my prostate). i tried flexing both muscle sets than tried to release my base muscle and continue holding my pc muscle and the involuntaries started quicker than i have ever experienced. i quickly walked to my room, grabbed the toy and lubed it up. before insertion i did a few more flexing exercises, and the involuntaries started up again. after a minute or two of this, my ass was the twitching and begginggggggg for me to put it in. i inserted it about half way, then my ass sucked it in and it hit the spot so hard i saw stars. i spent the next thirty minutes building the imbalance with little results other than an almost burning level of horniness growing – then decided to try something new. I simply focused on that horniness and let it build up while holding a light contraction in my PC muscle and trying to almosttttt let go of my base muscle. I was so insanely horny – hornier than I’ve ever been in my life. I don’t know when but at some point that horniness just spread over my whole body and turned into an orgasm. my prostate was pulsing and clamping down on the aneros FUCK i was in heaven. at some point after about 40 seconds it started to dissipate,
and try as i might I was not able to have another one. does anyone have any tips on how to keep the session going? am is supposed to just completely relax or keep holding the imbalance? i cant believe it finally happened buttt i’m going to bed still extremely horny and almost unfulfilled LOL?
If you can’t fully relax and can’t stop yourself from thinking about random stuff try this
I’ve made so much progress with this audio file, it’s super relaxing and makes it feel like you melt into your bed.
I’m an over thinker, whenever i go down for a session my mind always races and i just start thinking about random shit, this can be detrimental to aneros and the whole relaxation needed to succeed
The file is called Aneros Session By Nikki Fatale. it’s truly tailored around using the aneros, relaxing and clenching. I must warn you it does have instructions to start stroking but i just ignore it and do it handsfree.
There’s a lot of relaxation involved but once i’m there i turn the file off and continue on my own.
Good luck!
Here’s a link to the file
https://m.freelistenonline.com/artist/Nikki+Fatale
Also here’s another bonus file that is very very good it’s by shibby and also truly focuses on aneros and relaxing. This is more fdom so if you not into that just listen to the other one.
https://shibbydex.com/file/94c23214-3c38-4656-a78d-c78c3aa5d46c
I believe files like this are good for people who can’t focus fully without distractions, if you can do it without there’s no need to listen to them. This also raises arousal while focusing on relaxing as you may know this is the key to aneros play
my first successful session where I had rolling orgasms over and over.
Hi bros, first time posting here but i felt I had to share my experience the other night and get some feedback. Its probably guna be a pretty long post but please bear with me.
First a bit about me.
Im 31 years old and been on the journey for over 2 years now with little success. Ive had a few sessions where things feel like theyre heading somewhere but they sort of fizzle out. Ive had the racing heart, slight moaning, tingles and muscle spasms at different times.
The toys i have are the aneros (helix trident, peridise, mgx, eupho trident, maximus trident and progasm ice) and the lovense edge vibrator. Ive used all at some point.
My typical session starts with cleaning up and then going upstairs and laying on the floor on some towels near to the warm radiator. Im laying down with my head proped up on some pillows and my legs laying to each side with my feet pulled up close to my ass. I then put in my earbuds and put on some good biaural beats or mindgasm. This is usually where I’d lube up my hole with coconut oil and rub a layer of water based lube on my chosen toy.
Then i try to relax for a bit listening and deep breathing and after a while i look at some hot pics on reddit whilst hitting my weed vape at a low temp.
I’d usually have in the helix or the maximus for a while until swapping to the progasm where things kinda get nicer. This nice contact feeling doesn’t usually last or progress but recently i found that if I push out (like a reverse kegel) instead of doing kegels and manual contractions I feel strong pushing contractions in my lower abdomen which feels kinda nice. Now if I start slowly thrusting the progasm the faster I go the harder my body pushes ( and i mean really pushes) until its so intense I can’t take it and il leak cum, pre cum and finally squirt clear slippery liquid…this feels really good but not what I’m looking for.