Tag: Relaxation

Progress with weed and Progasm

I’ve been trying the aneros on and off for close to 10 years now with mixed success. I feel like I had something like an orgasm or possibly an orgasm a few years ago but have struggled to replicate that experience since.

The first time I felt what I think was an orgasm I had been doing a session for around 3 hours with the original helix model and I felt what started to feel like a regular orgasm building but it started to spread. The sensation started in the tip of my penis then spread outwards envolping my legs and whole abdomen. I haven’t experienced anything like that since until recently.

I think the main sticking point for me has been trying to relax, it’s hard to find time to do a session let alone drop everything else going on in my head to enjoy it. I’ve also tried multiple models with varying degrees of success. I now have a helix, helix syn, eupho, progasm, an njoy wand and a few different vibes.

I recently decided to try and throw weed into the mix and see if that helped.

Well…

I’ve tried a few sessions with some great results feeling waves of pleasure eminating out of my prostate and periods where I feel like I get consumed by it all and almost black out. Read more »

Feeling Frustrated

So tonight was my fourth session with my aneros. So far I really haven’t felt all that much. At times I can feel my pulse, I even get a few involuntary contractions. Though nothing really pleasurable.

I know that I can’t just expect good times right out the gate, but it is hard to dedicate to rewiring when the reward is so elusive.

I’m mainly whining, and I know I need to learn to relax and just go with it. Any advice on how to get into the mental space needed?

New progress

About me: 37 year old male who has been playing various anal toys for about five years.

I own the Helix classic, Mgx syn , Eupho trident, Njoy pure wand and Progasm . I’ve had varied levels of success with each of the toys and have always had fun while learning.

I recently had some extended alone time and decided to purchase a Helix syn v for the vibrating patterns and a small dildo with suction cup.

With the freedom to enjoy the time alone, I spent lots of time to relax and get in the mood reading on literotica and listening to gone wild audio.

Once fully aroused, I started running my hands all over my body, focusing on my inner thighs, neck, stomach and nipples. My nipples get overly sensitive really quick, so I used some body oils to keep everything slick and pain free. I was oozing a fair amount of pre cum before I inserted and found myself desperate for more.

I started with the Helix syn V and a healthy amount of aneros sessions lube. Once inserted, I concentrated on the feeling of being opened up by the toy and how my deep breathing was softly grinding the toy against my prostate. I absolutely love that sweet feeling of first noticeable contact when the prostate starts to engorge. Read more »

Gonna do my first session with weed tonight

I’ve been using aneros toys off and on for 10 years or so but never have tried a session with marijuana. My usual routine is different from what others typically do. I like to take a high amount of Adderall and then get super crazy horny to play with my ass and prostate. Stimulants make me want nothing more than to have a huge ass dido in my rear and just ride it all night. This results in me watching a lot of femdom and pegging porn or reading stories on literotica and listening to soundgasm, but I think I start revving up and then plateau from all the porn consumption. I remain super horny but I’m not able to truly relax amd breathe like I need to. I have already taken my high dose of addy tonight and will get my ass all lubed up and insert my Progasm but then I’m gonna eat an edible so I can slowly transition from amped up horniness to super relaxed highness.

Any suggestions on what may help my session tonight? I really love reading femdom stories and listening to femdom audio but like I said, I’ve never done this on weed.

What to do at this point?

I’ve been using my helix syn V for a few weeks now. I have got to a point I can reach regularly where I can feel my prostate (?) Swell up and get hard, similar to an erection but inside, along with high state of arousal and feel goods. I can get here with it off or easier with the lowest vibe setting. I don’t know at this point whether I should try to contract and push the aneros against it, hold light contraction for that “tickle” feeling, or try and relax all contraction.

So far contracting hard makes my legs buck and bounce and sometimes that motion upsets the contact to the happy spot. Holding the “tickle” feels AMAZING but eventually something moves inside and it stops. The relax completely kinda makes me lose the happy feeling.

Advice?

Staying in the NOW & Avoiding Fantasy

It’s easy to get ahead of the sensations and fantasize about what the waves of pleasure COULD be like, but this attitude almost always shifts me out of the current pleasures and grinds them to a halt.

Seems like fantasy builds tension which kills relaxation…and the Super O.

How do you stay grounded in the now and avoid being too focused on reaching the Super O?

Had some progress and need advice

I got the Aneros Helix Syn V a couple of months ago and have been occasionally playing around with it working towards a prostate orgasm. I’ve had mild success before; a little bit of shaking during long sessions, but nothing to crazy and definitely no hands free o / super o.

I saw a post here saying that before your session it helps to edge for a little bit so I did just that. I jerked off for maybe 30 min and brought myself close 10 or so times.

I did this late at night and was in a very relaxed state, which probably helped a lot. After a bit of fun (no cumming, though) I decided it was time to start with playing with the toy. I took 10 or so min before starting to hit my weed pen and to make sure it had been a bit since I touched my cock.

Laying down on my bed, I lubed up the toy and after rubbing it against my hole for a bit I gently pushed it in. I started the session with the vibration off and just trie to focus on contracting. I also made sure that I tried different types of contractions; I saw a post saying that they didn’t have to be big ones and found that I had the best results with little contractions. Read more »

Multiple HFO and rewiring in 4 weeks

Hi again. Unlike my last posts, I’m not going to describe you my latest session. I’m here to tell you that rewiring is possible and that all efforts made in order to achieve HFO are completely worth it. As some of you may know, I started focusing on my prostate 4 weeks ago. Since then, I haven’t had any penile masturbation, and I can really tell you that I don’t miss it.

Just a month ago I was lost, I really tried my best to follow all the tips I’d been reading on reddit, but nothing was happening while playing with my prostate. I then realized that chasing a sensation was sabotaging myself. I had never had a prostate orgasm before, so I could not look for one, I just had to have fun and, someday, it would come. It finally did.

During these last weeks the pleasure I’ve been getting from my prostate has only increased. I don’t even know where the limits are now because each session is better than the previous one. I can now say that I have had prostate orgasms. I wasn’t sure about it, but yesterday I realized that all those amazing sensations were orgasms. I mean, as we are used to penile orgasms, we can’t distinguish any other until we have finally rewired our prostate/nipples. During yesterday’s session I had several very strong prostate orgasms and I ended with a HFWO. It has been my best sexual experience. The thing is that, after the previous session, I felt the same. Which means that the limits of pleasure are unthinkable until we feel something better. Read more »

Second Prostate Play Session

Massager: Aneros Helix Trident

Lube: Coconut Oil (Lubed toy, hole, and used a lube shooter)

This session was pretty similar to the last one except for the last part.

I had like a full minute where my whole body was shaking violently, my legs were flailing like fish on a boat deck. It was definitely pleasurable, but still it didn’t feel like it was “conscious” pleasure.

I was in such a state of relaxation to get to this point that I was just kinda in a trance. The best equivalency I can make is to wet dreams. I come out of it very exhausted and I know that what I went through was pleasurable, but it kinda felt like it was in the background.

It was very intense, but there was never really like a point of no return or final finish like I’m used to with orgasms.

I don’t know if what I had was a prostate orgasm or p waves. With a prostate orgasm is there a “finality” to it? I never came in this session or the last, so idk.

First Aneros Session Recount

Massager: Aneros Helix Trident
Lube: Coconut Oil (Lubed toy, hole, and used a lube shooter)
So, before I started I read a lot about common techniques and practices. I even watched a couple of videos of people having prostate orgasms and super orgasms (or so they say) with the aneros to have a frame of reference.
Once the toy was in, I laid flat on my back and started to do some deep breathing exercises. After a few minutes of this to get relaxed I remembered that in some of the videos they say that stimulating your nipples can help. So I started with that and rubbing other parts of my body (never touching my penis) and this did feel good, especially with the deep breathing.
After a bit of this I started to do some kegel exercises. I was having a tough time of actually feeling the massager inside me, I didn’t feel pressure or full or really anything. But I tried visualizing the toy inside me and that helped a lot, I got a clear picture of where the toy was and what it was doing.
While doing the kegels I felt what I could only describe as “wisps” of pleasure, like tiny little bursts of a pleasurable feeling I felt move from my prostate area upwards. I tried focusing on that feeling like some guides say, but I couldn’t really hone in on it. I went back to my deep breathing and nipple play and kinda just reset the situation.
Then, instinct just kinda took over, it was much less cerebral. I started moving my hips up and down while doing the kegels, it felt good so I just kinda rolled with it.
I knew I felt something, but I didn’t know what. It didn’t feel like anything I’d experienced in sex or masturbation before. The best way I can describe it is when you see sheets of water going down a window, but the water was small bits of pleasure and the window was my body (from my ass to my head).
At this point I don’t really remember what I did, I was just continuing what I was doing (the kegels, the moving my hips up and down, the nipple play, and the breathing) when suddenly my breathing went shallow and fast, and after a few seconds my torso was having uncontrollable spasms. My breathing got very heavy and fast, and my torso was shaking for about 10 seconds. Then, nothing.
I just remember feeling thirsty, my lips were dry, so I grabbed some water before looking down. The towel under me was dry and my dick was still soft, so I knew I didn’t cum, but I did feel a good amount of pleasure. At this point I wanted to reapply lube (I probably didn’t have to, but I’ve never done ass play before and I don’t want to take any chances of not being lubed enough). This was a natural break point anyway. I checked the clock and it had only been about 20 minutes since I’d started, so I knew I was gonna go back in for more.
After my quick break, I put the toy back in and got ready again. I watched one of the videos again to see what the success stories looked like, and I noticed way more leg shaking than torso shaking, so idk.
Anyway, I went back to what I was doing before, breathing, kegels, nipples, worked my way back in over the next few minutes.
Then, my breathing went shallow and hard again. I could feel myself quickening my hip movement involuntarily. Then my whole torso and legs went into spasms, the waves of pleasure were more intense this time (still not really that strong though, any penile orgasm would be much stronger), but I couldn’t really focus on them at all, I was just experiencing them. My knees eventually bent and were shaking vigorously. This time the shaking went on for about 30-45 seconds (at least so I think, it was much, much longer than the first time). Then, it just stopped all at once.
The upper part of where my quads meet my hips were sore and I just kinda laid there catching my breath. I can only describe what I was in as a trance, I didn’t really have too much conscious control of my body. Again I hadn’t cum or even gotten an erection.
I’m not really sure what happened, not much of the pleasure was deliberate and it wasn’t really comparable to anything I’ve experienced from sex or masturbation. I don’t really know what to make of it, but I did like how relaxing it was and I see that there is definitely potential there.
I’ll probably give it another go sometime this week.
Is there anything I should be doing differently? How do I have more “conscious” pleasure, like something I can definitely feel, not something that’s like in the background?