Tag: Relaxation

Super-O mindset?

I’ve been doing prostate play on and off over many years, without getting to the Super-O. Except once. I had been doing a session, initially without much success. At a certain point I dozed off, and as the toy got caught up in an involuntary contraction, something special happened. My prostate was sending waves of pleasure along my spine towards my head. That lasted a few minutes. Heavenly. Not full body shaking, just these highly pleasurable waves. This was over 10 years ago, and I’ve been unable to reproduce that sensation ever since.

Generally, I’m quite impatient (waiting in line is torture) and I have a very active and analytical mind. I’ve tried to go into hypnotic trance for a long time, using different files, but without any success. Even an IRL session with a certified hypnotist (just for helping me to relax) went nowhere. It would seem that I’m just unable to “let go”. Also, it takes a long time for me to fall asleep at night (30-60 minutes on average).

Where am I going with this? I’m wondering if I’m “doing it wrong” somehow. I’m not expecting a miracle solution, but I’d be interested if there are other people like me out there, and if they were able to “get there” somehow. What did you do to relax? Did you use a specific technique? Read more »

First Super O

Finally had my first super O last night and it was intense, and I owe it all to marijuana. I recently got into weed and it has really helped me make progress. My 3rd time pairing my sessions with weed, I started having my first HFDO’s; it was also my first time using coconut oil as lube. I was using my Helix Syn V and had it at the lowest intensity, 2nd pattern. The weed heightened the sensation and really helped me focus directly on the pleasure coming from my prostate, which led to some dry O’s. The day after this session, I felt like my prostate was craving more, which was a new feeling for me. I decided to go with it and have another session, this time without weed. Instead of chasing an orgasm, I decided to focus on staying relaxed and really focus on the feelings coming from my prostate. I felt more in touch with it than I had before using weed. I had a couple more sessions like this over the week where I would just focus on getting in touch with my prostate and identify the feelings it was giving. But then last night I decided to pair my session with weed again now that I was more in touch with my prostate. I used my Helix Syn V again with the same settings, and let it go for 40 mins to wake up my prostate while I watched a show on Hulu. After this I took some hits off my weed pen and started to focus on the feelings. Pretty soon I could feel the pleasure building and I had a dry orgasm that before it could end chained into a 2nd dry orgasm that was even stronger. Several mintues later this happened again, I had 3 dry orgasms that chained into each other and grew in intensity each time. I was in heaven, and while it was happening I was thinking that maybe these were Super O’s. But then the 3rd dry O chained into the most intense orgasm of my life. I was gripping the back of my couch with all my strength as my body convulsed uncontrollably, just lost in the pleasure that just seemed to keep growing. It lasted for what felt like minutes as I just kept convulsing, moaning, and whimpering uncontrollably. I was flaccid during the dry O’s, but at some point during the super O I got rock hard and starting cumming so hard it felt like I was peeing cum. When it all faded I just lay there breathing heavily in disbelief at what had just happened. People always say you will know without a doubt when you have a super O, and they are 100% right. After a couple minutes of recovery from my super O, I kept going and had a couple more dry orgasms that I could tell would build up into another super O if I stuck with it, but my body felt so tired so I just jacked off for 2 more regular orgasms cause I was still horny. The whole session was about 2 and half hours and I had 6 or 7 dry orgasms, 2 normal orgasms, and a super orgasm. I removed the aneros and it felt like my prostate was buzzing for a while afterwards, and my legs felt trembly and shakey for the rest of the night. It was an amazing experience unlike anything I ever imagined and I can’t wait for my next session. So happy to have made so much progress so fast.

First HFDO!

Following on from previous posts about pwaves always ending in HFWO, I experienced my first definite HFDO! Thanks to all of your helpful advice received.

My main point would be that it occurred in a session 2 days after ejaculating through sex. I only usually use my aneros if I’ve not cum for about a week and feel particularly horny. So I’m the urge to squirt cum wasn’t there, and neither was any expectation of orgasm. I had some free time to myself so thought I’d have a play. I was relaxed and quite early on started experiencing pleasurable pwaves. I wasn’t thinking about cumming, just going with the flow. Then (I think) my 4th pwave didn’t subside as usual, it just kept building and building. I was literally losing my mind with the pleasure, lost the sense of where I was, what I was doing and was shaking, writhing around, grabbing bedsheets and growling! And then just a release, lying still and panting heavily wondering what has just happened. I then realised I hadn’t been thinking about my dick at all and felt no need to cum by ejaculation. After a minute or so I started another pwave, less intense this time and I ended the session.

I’ve had a couple of pleasurable sessions since, no HFDO or urge to HFWO, just pwaves which – as someone posted before, to me feel like the start of a HFDO but without the duration or intensity. I need to keep in mind not to chase and go with the flow and hopefully more HFDOs will follow 😃

A new journey

Sorry if this is a long post but I wanted to share my experience and would welcome any advice…

I’ve been an Aneros user for about 10 years, and have tried the Helix, Helix Trident, MGX, Progasm, Eupho Trident and now have a Maximus.

I’d had occasional pleasant feelings but nothing close to some of the experiences described in this forum. I didn’t bother trying for several years but then read through some of the details and tips provided in this forum recently and decided to try again. Some of the key changes that I’ve tried over the last few weeks..

1. Remove any expectation of an orgasm and just enjoy any good feelings
2. Breathing deeply when you inhale and exhale and using your whole body to do it
3. Big contractions aren’t good – either do nothing or do very gentle contractions
4. Use lots of lube (I’ve been trying boy butter recently and it feels much better and I don’t dry up as quickly).
5. Doing pelvic floor exercises through the day

I’ve had a lot more pleasurable feelings since doing this but last night was quite something else – although I didn’t have what would be described as a Pgasm or Super-O.

My wife and I went to bed and I was feeling a bit horny. She fell asleep so I decided to put the Maximus in and just have a light session and see what happened. Read more »

Problems with feeling numb after attempts at longer sessions with the MGX Trident

I’ve tried having longer anal-only sessions with the MGX Trident and throwing in some nipple play, clenching while imagining vividly and while I have the usual “get so excited you lose control of your muscles” problem, I have another one, if the toy is in long enough, I start feeling nothing and after a while, feel like I have to take the toy out.

No pleasure, a little bit of discomfort (though no pain) but relief if I take the toy out, it’s almost like the region the toy aims to rub against is fatigued and even if I relube and slide it back in, almost no sensation except a little bit of discomfort, I find that pulling the toy a little outward moves the spot the toy hits a little bit and makes it feel actively pleasurable again but that fades away very quickly and I go back to feeling nothing.

I’m not sure what to do, it’s not a lubication problem, it’s not a relaxation problem, it just feels better to stop using the toy after some time. It feels like the fatigue against my insides isn’t be tested any further.

Takes me at least a week or so before I’m in the mood of trying anal play again because I don’t like the sense of numbness and mild discomfort, it’s like having someone splash ice cold water on your while you’re edging, kills the mood and all you want to do after that is clean up. Read more »

Intense P waves, but no HFDO

Thanks to practicing the the first few Mindgasm lessons, I now find I can start off on my p-wave journey fairly easily when relaxed and horny – ie not ejaculated for a few days. Lube up, slide in the Aneros trident helix and with some gentle contracting of pelvic floor and sphincter muscles start building pleasure resulting in long, body shaking, heavy breathing waves of pleasure. If I really allow myself to lose control, the 3rd or 4th wave is so intense that the involuntary contractions become really firm, causing a wet orgasm. It literally feels as if the cum is being squeezed out of my prostate. This is immensely satisfying, but I want to carry on fucking myself silly! I can sometimes consciously stop this by relaxing all muscles, but then lose the wave and the orgasm. I’ve posted similar before but any HFDO tips would be much appreciated 🙂

Ever changing definition

I recently posted about the pillow between the legs being the best advice I’d had yet. Well that has certainly led to a redefinition of what I’ve been experiencing over the past couple of years.

When I started my journey I went through the usual stages. Feeling nothing, to periods of intense contractions which I’d assumed were p-waves, to intense abdominal contractions which I’d assumed where some form of prostate orgasm They had been my measure of success to date and while some had a better feeling than others, they never really matched the hype.

I’d read somewhere that orgasm and ejaculation are different and that the orgasm usually immediately preceeds ejaculation. Breaking that down in my head and compartmentalising the two, I figured that intense pleasure just before reliance must be the orgasm.

With my new found positional knowledge and waking up to an empty bed the other morning I thought it was an ideal time for a little pleasure. I grabbed my Progasm Ice and quickly slipped it in, closed my eyes and relaxed. Pretty soon the involuntary contractors started and I quickly had my usual abdominal contractions. Happy with where I was at, I tried to get back to sleep. All of the involuntary contractions had stopped and I was just happy within myself. Read more »

My experiences after 10 years of aneros

Aneros user of about 10 years. Warning: long post ahead. Unfortunately no TL:DR. Tips and tricks section after the wall of text 🙂

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While penis-centered sexuality as I learnt it as a teenager is more of a mechanical approach the joy your prostatate can give you requires a more holistic process. For me set and setting are important. Nowadays I rarely have time to use my aneros (job,kids,friends, sports … ) but when the opportunity arises the foreplay / preperation is an important part of the experience.

Throughout the day (s before) I do some PC muscle squeezes which already activate my prostate because it knows whats to come. I like to take a bath or a nice hot shower, do some hair removal around my penis, the balls and the perineum/anus (Sugaring ftw!) so everything is smooth and hairless, give myself a pedicure (soft feet feel amazing 😉 and eventually put on a jockstrap (it feels sexy and keeps the penis out of the way while the anus is accessible) and douche just for the ease of mind. Ill then go about some chores, gardenwork, go for a walk or do some yoga, sometimes with a buttplug in, sometimes without – all in the sexy anticipation of whats to come. Read more »

Is it uncommon to lose all pleasure and feelings after not that long into it? At the start ( even inserting ) I get immense pleasure almost an orgasm in itself tbh. But a few mins into sessions I just lose pleasure and interest?? Where’s does it go?

Hello, I hope your day isn’t going too bad so far?

I’m not sure if my body is just not normal
But I can get a type of super o
Which from my understanding is just an orgasm that keeps building and buildings endlessly until u either can’t take it or you stop
Which is exactly what I can achieve from doing the opposite to relaxing and pounding my prostrate fast with say a njoy wand or anything

So I wanted to try going back to achieving it with an aneros hands free

But firstly when I’m inserting and even before inserting if I just massage my Butt I start moaning
And then inserting the aneros even a bit I loan and it’s almost a type of orgasm in itself

But once It’s all in and stuff for a few minutes it will feel okay and then it will just wear off
Not feeling much at all and then I get bored??

So it’s like I’m half programmed but half ain’t? Is it because I’m not used to going slow or?

Would it be possible to look into this, please? thank you sincerely for responding to me, Your kindness is appreciated. I hope this is not a hassle for you and Have a Wonderful day ahead! 🙂

Newbie Questions

I have the helix trident syn and I have been practicing with it and mindgasm. I think i am getting the hang of it. last night i was gently edging my prostate and suddenly i my heart rate jump and my whole body was vibrating. I relaxed my whole body to enjoy this wave but then i lost it. I am guess this was something near a P orgasm? Was i suppose to barely clinch to hold that feel?. Also Now during work its feels like my prostate is awake like it is just a small tickle or little vibration. If i do soft kegel exercises its feel good. is that normal or should i have finished by hand last night?