Having discovered the Aneros revolution and this wonderful supportive forum, I have ordered and am eagerly awaiting a Helix Syn Trident.
In the meantime I’ve been practicing kegals and relaxing, thinking about connections down there. I have to say I read an article on here about having a dry O just by contracting the muscle just above the penis, then contracting the perinea and relax!
This has led to me experiencing small but lovely dry orgasm feelings.
Cant wait to get the Helix inside, having read so many brilliant comments on here, I’m definitely going for the “do nothing, relax and explore the feelings” approach!
Tag: Relaxation
Never judge the PERIDISE by its look or size
Since getting into prostate play I had been experimenting with some different massagers. I suppose like most people starting out it did take many sessions, and some different techniques before I finally got to reach my first Prostate (or Super “0”) orgasm. That experience happened using the Helix Trident and was completely out of the blue. As usual (and where possible) I usually always try to take a dump before a session and on that particular evening I had been lying down (helix inserted) and I was going through my breathing and relax exercise. I happened to fall asleep when suddenly I was woken by a surging type of pleasure that appeared to be building from my anus and expanding out through my body. These pleasure surges continued until they came to a peak, and with a lot of body shaking and moaning I experienced my first prostate orgasm(s). It was long lasting and fantastic.
I also had some good results with using a butt plug, though I felt that these plugs are difficult to insert and remove, and the resulting PO is somewhat reduced by them. So I’m looking through the net and I happened to see an Aneros Peridise. Like from the image of the item it looked quite large and actually included 2 plugs. On reading about it I was surprised to find that apparently it will self vibrate even tho its just a solid piece of plastic like material with no means to get it vibrating? Anyway I placed an order and it duly arrived. At first glance I was kinda shocked by the small size of the plugs. I thought they were bigger –they looked bigger on the particular website. There are two plugs supplied. I suppose the larger one is for the man –and that’s the one I went for. As I looked at it I was saying to myself this thing is so small and not much is going to happen with it –it really looks like a small toy! Sometimes I will insert a plug when going to bed and enjoy an early morning pleasure session as I find this time to be the best for prostate orgasm arousal.
Now this Peridise has instructions and its basically to lube it well (which I done) and just insert the head of it into your anus, Apparently then you can contract your anal muscle(s) to draw it in further after insertion. I would normally sleep in T shirt and briefs and the plug felt very comfortable getting into bed. I was flexing my anus to get the plug to sit fully home. I fell asleep. I got woken a few hours later by –of all things- my legs shaking! I never experienced this before? Included with this was a building of pleasure, really strong and centered around my anus. Wanting to go back to sleep I turned in the bed to off-set this, but I was hit by more involuntary leg shaking and I really felt pleasure waves building. For some reason the leg shaking appeared to be setting off these strong waves. I felt that I couldn’t breathe properly. I was now wide awake and I was shaking along with the bed. Wave after wave was going right thru me. I was starting to moan and grip the top of the mattress with both hands. I was trying my best to obtain a position in the bed that might allow me more control over the situation. I remember feeling my briefs were wet and sticky – when suddenly my body went into a convulsion and I got hammered by a massive P wave.. OMG OMG.. Massive waves were hitting in quick succession. I really thought I was going to suffocate! For a second or two they stopped and I got more leg shaking and the waves repeated over and over again. I thought I could see flashing lights and felt my whole face going contorted. I was biting down on the pillow. OMG there is no let up.. There was so much pleasure packed into every one of these peak waves that I done my best to ride on every one of them . I got a quick look at the clock, and guessed I had been awake for about 40 mins. There was no let- up in the intensity of these orgasms. I just couldn’t take any more. The leg shaking was triggering them and I was going to have to pull out the plug. Otherwise it was going to be a vicious erotic circle that I just wasn’t able to handle. As I was reaching to take out the plug I got more leg shaking, and then it dawned on me “is this the way this device goes about self vibrating” –so it makes sure your anus /prostate is well messaged -fully and automatically? After the plug came out I lay there totally exhausted, and as I was drinking some water there were still little semi-orgasms firing off on their own that kept coming from my anus until I finally fell asleep.
In conclusion I should probably offer an apology to the Peridise for taking it at its face value and judging it by size and shape that it was nothing more than a simple toy. Now I’m convinced that this is the most powerful plug that to date I have ever used. It has the awesome power to literally bring me –a 12.5 stone man to my knee’s .
Why are my dry orgasms so rare?
I think my blog posts are gone but it doesn’t matter 🙂
I’m 32 year old from Portugal with very little sexual experience (just been with other men occasionally and curious to be with a women but in general much less interested in women).
In super resume I’ve had aneros for 8 years now and I’ve got dry os but very rare, and never got a super o.
Some sessions I had in the last week kinda exemplify what I was able to get with aneros and how I think I have much to evolve.
In general my aneros sessions are pretty uneventful.
They generally take 3-4 hours (I use do nothing), and I can get some background pleasure but it generally don’t evolve much.
It’s extremely common however for me to quickly (especially if I just take a quick look at porn or just sexual images) start having some rhythmic movements of the aneros and my dick, because it’s hard when this happens. There rhythmic pulses are pleasant but I won’t call them pleasurable, because they’re just “nice” and nothing special.
Like I said this is extremely easy to get, but also they do pretty much nothing.
Todd
Hi guys. I have been working with the Progasm and Helix models for about 3 weeks. I am enjoying the experience and I actually find the time relaxing. So far nothing but relaxation no good feelings. What rhythm do you use when doing your keagels? is the temp like you may masturbate or much slower? Also, how hard would you say you squeeze when doing the Keagels? So far, I think I am finding that keeping about a 60% at the top of the squeeze and around 30% at the bottom of the squeeze. I know the process for some can take time, I am willing to put the time. However, and shortcuts are always good.
Thanks
2-19-20
Great session today, I was trying to “hold” the device with 40% pressure. That was tough, used my fingers to feel it and trying to get used to what that is. Warmed up with Helix Syn, had some good feelings. Switched to Eupho and kept trying to just hold the device, and as I got feelings, “P Waves”, I tensed up my body subconsciously. So I tried to relax into it, seems like maybe I was learning a little about how my body works and that I can hold the device @ 40% without tensing. At this point I had some VERY intense feelings and very erotic fantasies popping into my brain. It did not last too long, maybe 2-4 minutes. I tried to stay there as much as possible, but relaxing my body seemed to take it down a notch. A couple times i realized I was arching my butt right off the bed.
Eventually things seem to cool down some and I switched to the Progasm. I was lubing it while holding the Eupho in partially and seems like I started up again, almost like being distracted with the lubing was a good thing. So I spent a few minutes and kept lubing the Progasm. Eventually inserted the Progasm but the most pleasure was the insertion. So I went to the Njoy, small end first, nothing, switched to large end. On my back hands free I started to contract the PC. The small end was on my thigh and the extra feeling on my leg seemed to be a turn on. I had an even more intense feeling here, and at one point was not sure that I was voluntarily moving the Njoy or if it was going on it’s own. This was also a turn on, this was the most intense feeling I have had yet, so this is greatly encouraging.
primera vez
Hello everyone, I’m sorry for my English, I use google translate ,excuse the spelling mistakes
With my partner we already have sex games with anal stimulation included and very pleasant
one day chatting with a friend of anal games and sex in general, he told me I have at home an aneros device that I am going to throw you want?
if I got one and the first time I used it.
The first time I read little but I prepared an enema, abundant lubricant, and I went to bed to introduce it cost not much but a little
then I lay on my side as I read and began to relax and breathe slowly I began to feel some tingling in the balls
and notice how it seemed that he had something inside his ass moved, the muscles would not feel very good and never felt before
To not have much idea I felt very well the other 2 times it has not been the same maybe the desire to get it and read is bad counselor
I’ll keep telling you, advice and suggestions are welcome
have a good day
Greetings Meet
Bueno antes que nada disculpen mi ingles uso traductor de google .
Soy novato en busca de este placer tan grande que explicáis en esta web.
Me regalaron un Helix en mi relación de pareja algo de juegos anales muy estimulante e tenido y muy placenteras y un amigo despues de estar charlando del tema , me regalo este aparato que iba a tirar
Such a beautiful experience to achieve in my sexual life at nearly 40 – PART 1
2020.01.16 / PART 1:
I’d like to pay a tribute to Aneros and Helix Syn Trident and all here who write so much interesting testimonials and reviews. This smartly designed and soft thing added something tremendous to my already fulfilled sexual life, having a loving wife and 3 kids. It happened in just a few days and I still hardly can’t believe it is possible!
When I have read for the first time about P-spot and big “O” a few days ago, I knew it was something for me.
I have tried prostate massage by hand first. Prostate massage alone and by hand turned to be a total failure. I guess this is because of two much anal stimulation and because I didn’t feel comfortable at all, doing it alone.
Then I tried Kegel exercices in bed at night while everybody was sleeping. I did feel pleasure coming the first time with perineum contraction, doing this first in my bed.
Then I found the Helix Syn Trident on internet and ordered it immediately, after reading Aneros web site and blogs, I went on trying Kegels exercises, feeling pleasure, but not more. But the will to go further was growing incredibly fast, I was really waiting for it!
When it was delivered to my office, packed as a present, my boss was out for some reason, and I had nothing special to do… I could’nt resist to try at this moment! I went to a safe place, put a large amount of lubricant and inserted it softly. I put my clothes back over it and went back to my desk.
There, sitting towards my computer, I focused on my sensations and felt nothing, looking for a position that wouldn’t hurt on the chair. Then I started de Kegel exercises: Contraction of perineum, holding, releasing, waiting spasms, contracting slightly, and so on… Slightly I felt the Helix Syn Trident working, I felt growing pleasure, and I felt waves of pleasure, each time bigger in time and intensity. As I was alone, I started some other positions but each position change would stop the waves immediately. I also realized touching the Helix Syn, was doing the same. I didn’t touch my penis at all, according all I had read about it. I finally lied on the back, knees up and feet on the floor, and it was the best position. I let it go and started to shake, feeling strong muscle contractions everywhere. I didn’t see the time flowing but it was good! Jesus! It was already time to go home. I brought the thing home in a safe place because I had no time to play.
The following night I was once again awake in my bed, and for some reason I tried de Kegel exercises. Without the Helix Syn. I was surprised to feel the waves coming back again without it, but I stopped it before shaking not to awake my wife.
The next day I was working. At one moment I began to think about my experience of the day before and it started again without the Helix Syn, becoming stronger, this time I felt an orgasm happen. When it happened I had the feeling of an energy flow going through me upwards, was it just my imagination working?
The following day, I tried the Helix Syn early in the morning but I had not enough time to have an orgasm this time because I had to go. I was kind of frustrated. But the waves came back in the car on my way to my job without the Helix! I suppose this is not quite a good idea for security. I have had orgasms the all day long with hours of pause in between: in the evening I was so exhausted and feeling hurt at the perineum and others muscles, so I decided to make a break to rest.
But from time to time I can’t resist to let it happen again. While cooking, in my bed, and it keeps coming back better.
This weekend I will give it another try at home with the Helix Syn because I think I can get more if my body has rested. I can’t really explain how it happened, I guess this is all a question of confidence, relaxing and muscular training too. Sometimes orgasm is not coming at once but if I just let waves happen again and again it finally comes. Now I have to explain and explore this with my wife. I have to normalize the practice, keeping it for intimate places! I have still a lot to learn about it. I see now this prostate stimulator as a surf and as a key to pleasure… Many many thanks to all from my ocean of pleasure, surfing on this wonderful wave! feeling happy! Cheers!
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Such a beautiful experience to achieve in my sexual life at nearly 40 – PART 2
2020.01.18 / PART 2:
Hey Chaps! Feeling quite orgasmic, erotic, happy and energized this morning!
I know, I previously said I’d have a rest but I didn’t really managed to do it!
I’m afraid to be kind of addicted to prostate massage and orgasms…
As a compensation to the constraint to rest, I practised a massage on my perineum area and my anus with a mix of argan oil and a few drops of rosemary essential oil, and got early to bed.
To this point I must say I’ve never practised Kegel exercise with an erection or even touching my penis, and it didn’t lead me to an ejaculation.
Yesterday I was suddenly awake early in the morning in my bed, feeling horny. I guess I did unvoluntary some Kegel contractions on my perineum. It started hands free, without my aneros Helix Syn Trident. But I felt something different this time. My aim was to rest, so I stopped acting on the perineum and the anus muscles. I released my muscles, abdominals in particular, but nothing stopped. I relaxed and let it go, trying to avoid any muscle contraction.
I felt waves of involuntary contractions (not a series of spasms this time) coming in my abdominals, synchronised with my perineum. I would describe them as a series of small bowl contractions in my belly. As it was fast leading me to shake, I went off my bed, got my Aneros and started my third session with it straight away.
I decided to go on without acting on my muscles. I felt beautiful contraction waves with different rythms and intensities. I felt plenty of gorgeous sensations, having fun. This lead me to an orgasm, but running out of time, I had to interrupt the session.
Later at my office, in front of my computer, like in the first Aneros session, I was working. Suddenly, a reckless thought of this first session started the muscle contractions again. But this time I think that the Aneros had unlocked something! The contractions became uncontrollable, leading to waves of pleasure, orgasms, and the intensity was the highest I’ve ever experienced in my entire life (hands free and without prostate stimulator). My abdominals where contracting with the perineum altogether. Other muscles where involved, just like all muscles in my body reacted to the same signal. I’d rather say they were reacting to the same wave length! Sometimes I felt perineum and anus swirling inside, which sounds quite weird. At this stage, it was obvious to me that it was impossible to stop the process unless some event occured, emotionally or externally. I noticed the good spot to stimulate de P-spot externally on the perineum since it was pulsating with the waves. I played with it, feeling strong contractions immediately. But pleasure became to lower due to fatigue and strain on the perineum once again, and I grabbed this occasion to let them fade away and vanish. They would come back after a couple of hours, but it was still hurting at the perineum, so I stopped. I felt no frustration at this point because of what I had experienced before. This is a chance that I’m not working in an open desk and I’m now really afraid to go back there on monday! I am just addicted and ashamed towards my boss but no one noticed what happened! I’ll find a way to reward him another way and find a trick to avoid this in the office in te future. I hope I can have some control on it one day
I see this Aneros prostate stimulator as a key and the prostate as a locked door. The perineum is the handle opening the door of a land of pure erotic pleasure, for some time at least, until a lack of stimulation, time and context would finally shut and lock this door again. It means for me that I can use the Aneros as a key, then remove it from de lock. Then I use my perineum muscles as a handle to reopen the door and let pure pleasure flow through me. All day long, as many times as I want or as I can…
This is quite an exciting thought…
Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV
To Whom It May Interest,
Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.
from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?
Hi Guys,
Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.
I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches.
SR #4 Expecting nothing
Started with 15 minutes guided meditation. Nice relaxed session. No hard on. Caught myself chasing feelings when they built up, trying not to do that. I did pretty good one time, trying to just stay where I was. Kind of a overall “warm” feeling sort of thing. Couldn’t stay there long, but at least I tried. I think when I get aroused feelings I build or chase them. I need to NOT do that, so trying to just let go and let whatever happen. So different from a normal orgasm.
About 45-50 minutes in I almost fell asleep. I let it happen, stopped moving, stopped touching. Not sure if I really went to sleep or just a hyper relaxed state. But the one track ended and I came out of it. I felt pretty aroused then, probably chased again. Really need to just ride the balloon, let it take me wherever.