Tag: Relaxation

Minor Milestone with the Helix Syn

Hey guys! I have been a lurker in r/aneros and r/prostateplay for a long time. About a month ago, I finally decided to take the plunge and buy myself an aneros. After doing some research, I decided that the Helix Syn seemed like the best toy and the one that was most recommended for beginners. When I first got the helix, I was super excited and tried it several times over a couple weeks, with little (if any success). I had a totally free day today, so I decided to have some fun. I thought I’d kind of journal what happened and post it here to see if you all might have any tips or advice for me for the future. Sorry in advance for the long post.

This time, rather than blitzing through clean-up (I prefer to douche before playing in the backdoor, I know it isn’t strictly necessary, but it helps me to relax) and getting the toy in as fast as possible, I decided to take my time and try and be mindful during the cleanup process. Read more »

Extreme Njoy Wand Super O Shaking Orgasm Due to Vigorous Prostate Massage / Ass Pounding Practice :P

Extreme Njoy Wand Super O Shaking Orgasm Due to Vigorous Prostate Massage / Ass Pounding Practice 😛

There’s 2 videos

One is a best orgasms compilation

The second is a whole 30 MINUTE!
Video of non stop njoy play
constant moans and orgasms…..
you have to sieve thru to find the peak orgasms

[Click here to watch the Njoy Super Orgasms](https://aspwlfwolf6266.smugmug.com/Super-O/n-8tv2jx/)

Hello, I hope your day isn’t going too bad so far?

This is a reupload from basically a year ago due to tuns of people messaging saying the link kept dying.
I’ve now uploaded it to my own
Well it’s like a portfolio photographer sharing website lol so it should stay there at least

Original post was

First of all. I have shown my body to only one person prior to this. For me to display myself publicly within a group is a notion to me that is equivalent to death.
I despise the body that I have, I deem unattractive, undesirable and ugly as f.
My dick is also small short and un grithy along with being ugly so that’s great :/
I do not know how I gained the confidence to post this, so I guess you can say ur lucky 🤣
Jokin 😒

I genuinely won’t get hurt over very hard harsh words or opinions I promise you. So let me know anything!

this needs explaining otherwise your gonna think what the ffff.. Read more »

Apprehensive after my first session

Straight male recently started exploring back door stuff. I just received a knockoff and spent an evening with it. I had bought more expensive stuff before and had initial regrets when using it, so I didn’t want to buy expensive things only to end up discarding it. I thought these cheap knockoffs would be a good way to test drive new types of toys and give me a better sense of what I like and disklike.

Tldr is while I loved the pleasure, it later turned into pain. I might’ve been clenching too hard and pushing too hard into me. Seems to have mostly resolved by following day, but apprehensive about trying again or buying the real deal.

With this knockoff, I definitely experienced some pleasure from it. Took a little while and was trying a bunch of different positions, angles, and muscle clenching techniques. After 30 minutes or so, I started feeling good; very nice sensations that I was searching for with anal play.

I think I have pretty well developed kegel muscles (thx to 10 yrs of erotic hypnosis hfos). But the biggest revelation for me was the feedback that the device provided. I noticed that even though I’ve reached max clenching or relaxing, the device would continue to move. When clenching, I feel the device get pulled in, and as long as I continued clenching, it continued to get more and more sucked in, applying a great deal of pressure to both my perineum and inside. this blew my mind as I realized my muscles are doing much more than what I thought I was consciously controlling. i noticed similar effects when relaxing, just continuing to move long after I thought I was fully relaxed. I found this absolutely fascinating and loved the feedback this was giving me. Read more »

Help with getting started

I’ve read up on the aneros beginners forum and listened to multiple podcasts, but I’m hoping for a little more specific feedback.

I ordered the Helix Syn V and I’ve used it 3 nights in a row so far. I’ve been mostly trying to learn to distinguish my different pelvic floor muscles and to incorporate them with using my aneros. I think I’m heading in the right direction (?) because I’ll generate precum multiple times in a session, but I can’t seem to get much further than that aside from the occasional ripple of tingling sensation throughout my body that I’ve felt before when I really had to pee but held it. I know it’s a journey, but I was hoping more experienced users could help point me in the right direction with a few things.

Do I need an erection for this work? I’ve enjoyed listening to erotica and trying perineal massage, but I’m not always hard when I do it.

Why does everyone mention binaural beats? Just because it’s relaxing? Will I not achieve the same result lying in bed?

Are the vibrating settings helpful or more for enjoyment once I’ve rewired?

Should I try blue balling myself and then focusing on the pelvic floor muscles? Or should I be totally disassociating my cock and prostate? Read more »

Things I’m learning about myself doing daily sessions that have nothing to do with orgasm.

I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.

Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.

I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.

I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now. Read more »

How to feel aroused

My drive has been fairly low, i’m 20 and i have abstained for a week now. I thought it would be fairly difficult but i havent had any urge to masturbate at all. I know being aroused and relaxed are the main components of aless. I can get fairly relaxed but I just cant get aroused enough. How do I focus on my arousal and how can i increase it. Im practicing my kegels and trying the mindgasm files. I cant seem to take the involuntaries to the next level. I get some flutters here and there but it doesnt lead to the muscles moving all by themselves.

I feel like I’ve had the perfect session

This afternoon I had possibly my most perfect session and I feel so lucky I just want to share it with you all.

It essentially started off in the morning when I woke up extremely horny. I did some deep breathing and kegels, let my self get even more aroused and then got up, had a really nice relaxing morning. By the afternoon my body was craving an aneros, I was really very aroused and had that tickly feeling coming from deep inside me.

Laid on my bed and did some deep breathing to calm my mind as it was a little frantic with how horny I was. I pre-lubed when I’d silenced my mind some more and then began to tease myself slowly. Nipples, thighs, hole. All got a good teasing until I was REALLY ready.

Even coating the Maximus in lube was enough to turn me on even more and inserting it was soo satisfying. Immediately had leg shaking and tingles around my hole as it settled in to place. More deep breathing. The tingles soon turned to pleasure and my anal canal was overcome by a warm and gentle pleasure as my thighs shook. Read more »

Dry O success!! And other non-related questions

A couple nights ago I had laid myself down with my progasm like I normally do, I’d showered and douched about half an hour beforehand.

My session went off to a great start when I had my aneros slip right in first go, I’ve started using coconut oil which has been surprisingly easier to clean up as opposed to my regular water-based lube.

My session was pretty uneventful for the first hour or so as I normally scroll through porn and get myself in the mood during this time, then I started to feel some light tingles and twitches around my prostate, so I decided to put my phone down. After about an hour of this the pleasure I was able to wring out of this aneros had me cursing non stop.

I had to remind myself to keep my breathing controlled cause normally at this point I’d either start touching my nipples and get distracted, or I’d have a dry o and end things there. But for some reason this first Dry O that had been building for what felt like the last 10-15 minutes surpassed any other Dry O I’d had up until that point.
I focused on my prostate and my breathing and after another few minutes of this a gentle yet heavy wave of pleasure crashed on top of my whole body and I felt so relaxed, the best part about it was the fact that it didn’t stop after a few minutes, it just kept going and going and going. Read more »

Should I take a break or see a Dr ? Or both ?

I have a progasm. I was using it almost every day this past week. I’ve been getting to really good places and practicing keegles daily. I haven’t achieved a full O yet but I’ll get there soon.

In almost every session I end it with a great moment of masturbation then ejaculation. I’ve enjoyed the meditation of it all and the discipline of working through it. Then ending it with some pleasure. I find it really relaxing.

Now in the last 3 days my prostate at times feels kinda sharp or stingy when I’m not using my Aneros. Like it’s cramped up and sore. Then as it feels sore I have an urge to fill it up again with my program. It’s not super painful but noticeable. I hope I’m not overworking it. I’d do this nightly for 3 hours if I could. What’s the proper frequency and duration for this activity?

CBD Lube + Coconut Oil?

I’m about to ride in a bit and will experiment to melt down coconut oil and add some CBD oil in it, then I will insert all the juice inside me. Hoping to full rectum relaxation and lots of pleasure.
Has anyone tried something similar?