“Portable Chastity”

Background
I decided to sleep in my Mueller cup overnight. When I awoke early this morning, I wanted to chill with some relaxing music. I set myself up on my sofa, put on headphones and started listening. At some point, I wanted to remove the cup and just relax in my PJs. So I did….

Thwarted by the Cup
When I settled-in wearing only my PJs, of course my hands began to wander. As sure enough, they found my rising cock and began to play. Since I am only in Day 4 of semen retention, I did not want to run the risk of ejaculating so soon. So what did I do? I took the cup out of the jockstrap and placed it over my PJs and my groin! And with my hand holding the cup, I was unable to continue the stimulation on my cock! Problem solved!

Waking-Up
At some point, however, I must have dozed-off. When I woke-up again, I could not believe the erection I had. It was so strong and I began to lightly “pump” the cup. Oh that feeling of being near the PONR was so strong, I honestly knew that I could ejaculate at that point. But I held-back, and kept the cup in place with my hand until the erection began to subside. At one point, I remember placing my hand inside the pouch of the jock and that was stimulating in itself!

The Progasm Ice

What follows is a summary of the session that followed the one in my previous blog, they could not have been more different. Apologies if it comes across as being too descriptive, I was just trying to capture the vigorous and sensuous experience. I actually left some bits out!
Bedtime couldn’t come quick enough. I had prepared everything in advance so that no time would be wasted with the preliminaries. There only remained the decision of which implement to use. The very second my gaze fell upon the PI I knew. Yep, that’s the fellow. Did I begin the session straight away? Erm, not really. Earlier in the evening after reading through a lengthy post I came across a link kindly posted by SOwithoutAneros, it was a short trailer featuring Serena of Hegre Art and her demonstration of orgasms. It had been a while since I had watched it so I searched out the full video and tormented myself some more as I watched her wondrous descriptions and demos of the various ways she likes to orgasm. By the end of the clip I was aroused way beyond imagination. So, after applying a generous amount of lube the PI was put to work. Within a few moments I began to feel what I can only describe as an overwhelming sense of energy building throughout my entire pelvic area. My heart began to beat faster, I found myself breathing deeply and blowing my cheeks out to exhale. I realised this was not going to be anything at all like the calm and relaxing ride I had experienced a few days earlier. My butt hole was clenched tightly around the PI. I tried to relax it a little but, each and every time I did so it was pulled back in, at the same time stroking my prostate causing my rigid member to strain and raise itself from the very root. I wriggled and stifled a moan, rolling gently from one side to the other. Beyond that I was lost in the moment, finding myself responding to the urge to move from one position to another. Throughout the entire session I was well aware of my strong erection and all the while I was producing a considerable amount of pre cum leaving long glistening strands everywhere. At one point as I was on all fours I sat back resting my buttocks on my heels, inadvertently causing my butt cheeks to part slightly, at that, the autofxxk response took over and the PI seemed to be alive. Those incredible moments were most erotic, I had to look twice to make sure no one had snook into the room behind me. It felt like I was being de-flowered and ravished by the invisible man. I’m not really sure how long the session lasted, maybe an hour, but it felt a lot longer. I had no big O’s I’m not even sure I had any small o’s but it was a magnificent wild ride, and an experience that I would certainly like to repeat.

Sessions 11 and 12

Hello all. I’ve had a couple sessions since I last found time to write. I won’t take a lot of time to write out all the details of each session, but I would like to state some observations I made.

With both sessions, I started out laying on the couch. I like the natural positioning of my body when laying there. It lends itself well to using the Aneros. I have noticed that the angle of my hips and/or the curvature of my lower back affects the sensations I feel. Specifically, it usually seems like having a straighter lower back helps. It feels almost like it aligns my rectum with my anus and allows freer movement. Or it brings my prostate more in contact with the device. Who knows? Sometimes I think that the things I feel are actually not at all what they feel like.

I also have found that I am getting better results lately with the Eupho Trident than with the Helix Trident. I don’t know why, but for now I’m just glad that Aneros had that sale in September and that I got myself the Eupho even though I’d only just purchased my Helix. It seems that things change over time, and I expect that there may be times when the Helix does better for me, or the Progasm. I’ve found that something that works well once won’t necessarily work great the next time, or the time after that.

Its not called Eupho for nothing

I haven’t had much time to update my blog recently. But I have still been quite active and have a bit of a backlog of events I would like to share with you all. At first I wrote one big bumper edition but decided it was too lengthy. I have split it into three episodes and will post them individually.
It must be almost a year now since I began this exciting venture into Aneros use. Never for one moment did I expect things to develop the way they have. Pre-Aneros, my solo sessions consisted of a quick wank, probably on a Friday night, more out of habit than anything else. Once out of the way I rarely gave it another thought until the next Friday came around. Contrast that with the present, where rarely a day goes by without me engaging in some activity or another, enjoying feelings of heightened arousal and frequent erections. Not to mention my collection of Aneros devices and related paraphernalia. I have the sort of sexual energy that I do not recall enjoying even in my youth, and that’s a while ago!
So after almost a year’s use I have learned never to have expectations, just go with the flow and enjoy whatever happens. So far this has served me well but I have still had lots of surprises along the way. A couple of my more recent sessions however have taken me completely unawares, with results at totally opposite ends of the scale. Let’s start with this one.
My choice for the session was my Eupho Trident, the smallest in my array. Thinking back I remember I had been a bit off colour with some stomach cramps and felt a bit yuck! I began the session making a conscious decision to ignore the urge to tense up my my abdomen as I usually find myself doing when the waves of pleasure build, I did not want to aggravate my tummy. Instead I lay completely flat on my back with legs outstretched and, relax, relax, r-e-l-a-x. It is very difficult to relax every muscle, even if you think you have there will still be tension. So with every exhale, I concentrated on individual limbs etc. It became like a meditation and I had the sensation that I was sinking further and deeper into the mattress with every out breath. This all took a little time, and while there were some pleasant sensations from my prostate I knew an orgasm wasn’t coming. I actually hoped one wouldn’t happen and disturb the serenity that I was enjoying. I was floating, enjoying the larva lamp-like display that I could see behind my eyes. Eventually, reluctantly, I had to come back to earth and settle down to sleep. What greatly surprised me was that the next day I was still floating on cloud nine and in a totally relaxed state. The cares of the day, of which thankfully I have few, meant nothing to me. World War might have broken out overnight and I couldn’t have given a shxx! The milk has spilled all over the floor, the washing machine has flooded the place, the next door neighbours music is so bloody loud? Ha ha, so what, who cares man. I glided through the day in this condition, it was strange. In a great sort of way. Sadly the day after, this all evaporated from whence it had come and I had returned to my usual, occasionally irritable, shouting at the tv self.
Over the next week or so I still had some nice therapeutic sessions, my tummy trouble was settling down and I was well into a spell of SR. Then into the mix came edging! Due to the terribly bad influence of one or two members on here I began reading posts on the subject and checking out various links. I have previously dabbled with what I thought was edging but I soon realised I was going to have to up my game. So I embarked upon regular edging practice but still maintained my run of SR. By now I was absolutely rampant for most of the time with persistent erections and a good supply of pre cum. It was then that I had my second only encounter with my Progasm Ice.

Sessions 8, 9, and 10

It’s been a while since I posted. I have had a few sessions since my last post. I’ll call it “three” sessions, but two were on the same day. I’ve just been too busy to write about them.

Session 8 was last Wednesday. It was not particularly exciting. Very relaxing, but no particularly powerful sensations. I also fell asleep. I tried some of the things I’d tried in the past and didn’t manage to spark anything exciting. Toward the end of that session, I thought I might be making some progress by just trying to maximize the motion of my Helix Trident using kegel-like motions, but then my time was up and I had to get to work.

Yesterday I decided to try riding my helix incognito on the couch. Usually I wait for alone time, but I didn’t feel like waiting this time, so I tried to ride in the afternoon while pretending to read/nap. It didn’t really work out that well. I did feel some things, but there were just too many distractions. I couldn’t really focus. I did find that the positioning while laying on the couch did have some benefits, so maybe in the future I’ll try laying on the couch again. Something about the angle of my hips or the slope of my back seemed to help the Aneros hit some nice spots.

Male “Chastity Cups” — At First You Feel Them But Then You Don’t

Introduction
I awoke about 3 AM with a very strong erection. I am near the peak testosterone boost caused by my practice of semen retention and no ejaculation for a week. I decided to put-on my Shock Doctor 218 jockstrap with Ultra Pro Carbon Cup. When I did, I immediately felt a surge of raw sexual power down to my groin, but then that feeling soon passed. What happened?

Sexual Relevance of a Hard “Chastity Cup”
I believe that the body gets used to the feeling of having a “groin cup” protect the male package. After a while, that “sexy” feeling just seems to disappear. If it didn’t, I would probably have a constant erection and that is never good. So having the erection fade while wearing the cup is what is desired.

But in the meantime, before the erection subsides, what is the “male chastity” feeling? It is a good feeling, and when I touch and “check” the cup from time to time, I am reminded of the “real” reason I wear it.

Preventing Masturbation and Ejaculation
Of course, there are no two ways about it—-the cup is there to prevent me from masturbating myself to ejaculation. It performs its function very well. In fact, the combination of the 218 jockstrap with the Ultra Pro Carbon Cup is one of the best-fitting items on the market. All kinds of elite athletes* wear them: baseball players, hockey players and others depend on the close-fitting support and protection it provides.

A “Chastity Cup” Takes It All Away!

Just chilling early this morning, wearing my XO cup. While relaxing on my sofa, I began to dwell on the possibility of me having any kind of sex while wearing it. And what did I discover? That there is nothing left! Every possibility I could imagine for anything “sexual” was effectively stopped by the cup!

Examples:
Any kind of masturbation or edging……no!
Cuddling or petting with my wife…no way!
Making out in unusual places…stop it!
Getting turned-on by seeing my erection….get out of here!

Get the idea? So where that leave me? Listening to “old disco” classics while performing kegels! Fortunately, the prostate still has the capacity to orgasm without any penile involvement!

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Conclusion
This is why semen retention and prostate massage go hand-in-hand! Feeling the “inner burn” without the usual male “tools” seems to intensify the possibility of prostate orgasms, with or without an Aneros massager. “Necessity is the mother of invention?” Put that in your pipe and smoke it! Touche’.

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“Pleasure Through Abstinence (Sexual Satisfaction Without Sex)”

Introduction
I had a groin irritation which resulted in me not wearing my “chastity cups” for about 5 days. At the same time, I self-imposed an “abstinence” period from my Aneros prostate massages. This combination proved to be quite formidable for my pelvic pleasure. Let me explain…..

Pre-Session
While awake early this morning, I had the urge and “prompting” from my Japanese urologist* that I must wear a groin cup for a period of time to arouse my prostate. I selected my Mueller FlexShield and put it on. Wow! That feeling had been absent for more than a few days and I could not believe the stimulation that I felt! At the time, I did not suspect that an Aneros session was coming, so I just went about my early-morning business as usual, which included breakfast, etc., all while wearing the cup.

Session
When my morning “chores” were completed, I had another “prompt” from my Japanese urologist who insisted that I perform a 15-minute “milking” session with my HIH 950 prostate massager to help alleviate my BPH symptoms. I dutifully lubed-up with SSG and went to lie-down. No sooner did I start to relax that I could not keep the massager “still” within my rectum—-it began to move and quiver entirely on its own! At the same time I began to feel an intense pressure on my prostate and I honestly felt that I was “this-close” to a hands-free wet orgasm! It was that intense, that mesmerizing. I could only lie-there and try to absorb all that I was feeling. After 15 minutes, I felt that I should end this “milking session”. When I took a look inside the cup, I was amazed to see a pool of very clear, non-sticky fluid that had collected at the tip of my penis. I felt much better and knew that, while only in Day 5 of SR, I needed this prostate milking! If it makes any sense, I now feel sexually satisfied without sex! Plus, I don’t have (yippee!) a refractory period!

Releasing a bit of tension

So I had therapy today to talk about some of the stuff with my mom, so I was pretty chill when I got home. After therapy I went to a Starbucks and read a chapter of 12 rules for life about raising your children. It didn’t quite hit on the “don’t be an absolute monster to your kids” that I thought it would, but I also practiced laying out some of my feelings about my mom in the framework of crucial conversations. I had gotten a Facebook message from my mom asking “if I got her texts”, but since I had blocked her on my phone and unfriended her on Facebook, this message came as a surprise to me. I got home and meditated a bit after lighting a scented candle (which smells like boy’s deodorant :)). I was reminiscing about my adolescence. In practice, I tried imagining how it felt to have my whole being be in some pleasant adolescent memories (which I realized were rooted in the pleasantry of being away from my bitchy mother). I also wrote down some potentially “Freudian Nightmare” phrases relating to my mom and Aneros usage. I tried channeling my inner, vulnerable childhood voice and got emotional as I articulated:

* “Mommy why did you get mad at me for using sex toys to make myself feel good?”
* “Mommy, why don’t you love me when I make myself feel all nice and good inside?”

Progress updates

So I believe that an open blog like this, where I can talk about my progress and stories in an aneros-centric community, will help me with changing my mindset to not judge my sessions as “successful” or “unsuccessful” and to simply be mindful of what occurred.

I had found myself a little over 7 days abstinent going into this weekend. On Friday, I also met a cute new guy who’s going to be coming over on Monday to see me 😀 In our talking, I mentioned that I had been saving up my loads (in my own head for an eventual Aneros session), but he seemed to really like the idea of me being all horny for when we meet up.

Anyway, I was pretty busy Saturday with a concert so Sunday was my me time. I spent the morning running errands on my bike, but once I came back from doing my laundry my interests started getting naughtier. I was looking into buying a latex catsuit (since I’d love to try latex), and realized I was starting to get myself horny. Eventually, after browsing online long enough, I decided to lock myself in my Holy Trainer v2 chastity cage and go run an errand. Once I got back however is when things started to get hot.

I realized that I hold a lot of tension in the muscle that raises and lowers my balls when I put my chastity cage on. I had also discovered in previous aneros sessions that relaxing the tension in this muscle made for a good session, although I struggled putting it into practice.