The title. I feel like starting kegels would go a long way but can’t help but feel it seems counterintuitive – if I’m not going to be using a muscle, why does it need to be stronger? Isn’t the point of involuntaries the fact that the muscles get tired and start to flutter? Won’t making them stronger make that harder to happen?
Tag: Relaxation
WTF! WTF! WTF did I do
So first time poster. Long time no enthusiast. Well I have some questions that I wish someone could help me with.
1. Can someone explain what “p-waves” feel like?
2. How do I stop them? This is explained in the long post below.
3. What does a dry orgasm feel like and what’s the difference between them and pwaves? I had and incredible experience yesterday and not sure exactly what I was feeling?
4. What is an Aless orgasm?
I have been experimenting for years with prostate massage and never managed to have anything really happen until a few months ago. I was playing around and had my first HFWO which sent me searching for that feeling aLong story short. The other day I was reading through a bunch of post and saw a lot of post about Mindgasm and aneros. So I thought what the hell could it hurt. So down loaded the app and started listening and fallowing along. Now this is with out any device because i was at work. As I progressed through I started feeling the butterfly’s in and around my p spot and I started leaking precum like crazy. So much so I soaked through my jeans. I can’t explain the pleasure. That evening I would periodically work my pc muscle and I kept kept feeling these waves of pleasure that would resonate from my prostate through my body like a bell being struck. Which I thoroughly enjoyed. So far everything was amazing until I tried to go to bed. I could not sleep these waves of pleasure took over and I couldn’t stop them. I was leaking like a faucet again and thought what the hell did I do? Can I turn this off? Do I even want to turn it off? So I went to where I could be more discreet and figured I’d see where this would go. And let me tell you. It went. I had wave after wave of bliss fallowed my moments of peacefulness. Might I add this is all without a device. Just relaxing breathing and working the pc. After 2 hours of this I couldn’t take it anymore. The feelings were so strong I thought if I kept going I would wake up the hole house. So I finish my self off in the traditional handed approach and I exploded like never before. I can’t explain how cum there was.
What did I do to myself?
Using Aneros and Experiencing Sexual Awakening The Past Few Weeks
Just thought I’d share my story here. These past few weeks have been incredible and I’m feeling things I’ve never felt before with my aneros. Basically things have been very positive in my life, I’ve been working out, taking supplements, spending time in nature and simply feeling great. I’m beginning to have what I can only describe as a sexual awakening.
The story is that I hadn’t bothered with prostate play for a while but a few weeks ago I decided to take the plunge again. This means having a session every 2-3 days and no masturbating in-between for a massive build-up. The result is long, beautiful, luscious, mind melting and body contorting sessions that get longer and longer, better and better the more I keep up my routine. These sessions are better than those of the past.
It’s been an amazing ride. I’m experienced and as soon as I slip lube up my aneros (original MGX and Eupho Syn are my favs) and slip her into my relaxed hole the fluttering and the pleasure begins, no waiting around. I can now easily achieve multiple controlled HFDO’s and when it all becomes too much I let my control slip, open the floodgates and climax the session with a HFWO. I lie panting, exhausted and covered with a flood of my juices before taking a nice shower and then bed. I’m actually still not sure if I’ve ever had a Super O but I now know that it’s my destiny to get there. (My wish, that I’m beginning to achieve, is to use these sexual experiences to unlock higher states of consciousness and love. I have found the key to prostate pleasure is as much mental and spiritual as it is physical. A bit beyond the subject of this post lol)
Night Session!
Last night went to bed late because of late dinner.
Couldn’t get asleep with loaded stomach so decided to kill time with a Eupho Syn session.
Lubed up and lay on my side and upper leg bent. Relaxed with deep presleep breathing pwaves appear.
I got in the mood now…pulled out my Eupho and slide it in again but with the tip pointing to my back….this gives me a tender but firm pressure on my prostate.
Normaly i can sleep on my stomach in this set up.
But not last night…i felt my prostate had a nice interaction with Aneros.
I felt the toy pressed out while pc muscles pulled it back.
Had to turn on my side again to avoid penis contact with my matras and spoil the moment.
From that moment i felt like had to pee and precum pumped out of my glans with a tremendous orgasm.
I cleaned up but let the Eupho inside felt asleep.
have started my journey, maybe some clues
Hi there! Got very excited about mindful prostate play. Have been enjoying this kind of meditation for almost 2 weeks. It really gets me relaxed, wow…
A little bit of background: I’m gay, 22yo, bottom. So some feelings and cravings are not new for me 😅 I use my dildo every once in a while, and I know how ejaculatory orgasms feel this way… But I remember that I was always at some point when I was on the edge and couldn’t get over it (acceleration doesn’t help). So I get real sweat and all, a lot of precum craving for something more, so I usually need to finish it by hands. But then I found articles on anal orgasms and according to descriptions that what I was craving for all the time! So yeah then I found aneros, purchased progasm and here I am.
So far, I found the most comfortable position laying on my back, bent knees, feet flat, but over some time I just lay on my back flat. Ive started doing kegels recently, and it makes me horny af all the time, so I crave for the aneros all day haha. Today I tried mingasm, just really helped to separete out the muscles. Actually I can get some nice subtle feelings in my booty very easily during the day, I could feel what and where my prostate was and all, even before having aneros, but now its all sharpened a bit. Also, I found that my d is now very sensetive all the time (especially head) , even in a soft mode, idk if it’s OK.. Now I can get some shivers down there without aneros as well (question below). As for the session, I defenitely can feel a lot things, very subtle, sometime the d gets hard out of the blue, but then it dies out. Sometime I get some small kicks in my pelvic area (like prostate outside), and it turns into some body wave, but then dies out.
Seems like involuntaries are hard to separate out. I kinda figured how to separate sphincter and root of my d muscles. And when I contract the latter, it always starts shaking very tensely at the root of the d. And when I try to keep it there, it gets mentally hard to keep doing that, like it’s nice, but tiring. Sometimes half way letting it out I can get a feeling as if a needle pricks in a middle of sphincter and the d, and it gives some pleasant full body wave, which dies out quickly though. This is pretty much it. Can you please confirm if those are the involuntaries we’re after? Some ppl say that it must be subtle and like where the prostate and aneros meet..
Also, I found that watching any arousing stuff gets me very horny quickly, I’m kinda very sexy all day long (maybe hormones), is it better to not use any visual/audio stuff? Just focusing on feelings?
Maybe some other hints (maybe specifically for bottoms 😂)
What was this? Excitement over progress
I’ve been a user for a long time but due to my life being shuffled around a lot from my past, I’ve been having way different sessions very recently. I’ve been struggling to make progress for years partially due to psychological problems hampering my progression, but that’s changing.
I’m finally in that area of “what is this?” and I’m trying to split up prostate orgasms super-o’s calm seas stuff and more.
It happened in my most recent session. I had this, relaxation of sorts. It started with feeling like everything in my waist was combined into a singular spot on my stomach, and it went totally relaxed.
Whilst normally I can still feel tension in my pelvic area, if only slightly, this feels like one big muscle is sleep levels of relaxed.
Afterwards this feeling in my stomach goes through changes, either feeling like heat or feeling like it’s clamped internally. Sometimes my core tenses up. The model I use is also slid in further, and feels way more responsive even if it’s not actively moving.
If I can stay empty headed, this kinda evolves into this weird static-y but very pleasurable feeling over chunks of my body. It only lasts a second or two. It’s not really full body at this “moment”.
First time
Have had an Aneros for a while and done a little with it but not much. Today was the first time that I actually set an hour aside to experiment, relax, and see what happened. I laid flat on my back and tried to do nothing but lie still and breathe. I noticed that when I lightly clenched everything it felt good so I started doing that very gently while I relaxed and kept breathing. About ten or fifteen minutes in, I noticed it started feel like a small spasm inside me. After a few minutes, that spasm became a little more intense and pleasurable. The only way that I can describe it was that it felt like it was pulsating when I clenched up. I began breathing a little harder and noticed some fluid coming from my dick. The pleasure only lasted a few minutes between moving and getting distracted but was enjoyable. What was going on and where do I go from here?
Great Aless today
Decided to have a rare for me Tuesday session today and since I have to work tomorrow I used CBD instead of THC. The CBD that I have is exceptionally effective at relaxing me so helps, not as good as THC, but helps. Took a couple of turns with various Aneros devices, Edge 2, and my newest dildos (7.5 and 8.5 insertable.) Got some decent P-waves but nothing exceptionally pleasurable. Finished my session and sat in my recliner for a nap and felt my sphincter returning to normal after a good pounding with the larger dildo. The feeling very subtly moved towards pleasure and I relaxed into it while maintaining a very light steady contraction. The pleasure soon blossomed into full body euphoria, a calm seas orgasm! I rode these waves for a good half hour, profoundly thankful for the extended pleasure.
Help me take that next step
Hello! I’ve been working through my sessions, making incredible progress, and feel like I’m at a point where I might need some advice. I’ve been able to achieve p-waves regularly and get to where I feel like a prostate orgasm is within reach but I’m unable to get over the threshold. I can achieve a growing feeling of tingling, warmth, pleasure, arousal, involuntaries, and large muscle quaking but seem to have plateaued. It feels like “edging” but without the conclusion. Here are two quotes from the wiki I’ve been thinking about in relation to what I’m feeling and what I’m doing:
>If you feel something building don’t hammer it with a strong contraction. Instead approach it very gingerly…
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>When you feel encouraging sensations, think more in terms of supporting them or bolstering them with some supportive contractions and rhythmic breathing. Once the orgasm is imminent, you may employ stronger contractions to constructive ends.
I’ll get to a point where my entire lower body is quaking; the glutes, hamstrings, and quads are going crazy and I feel the near-orgasmic pleasure building and I believe this is where, perhaps, I’m making some mistakes. At this point, I feel like any light squeezing is impossible and I can only contract tightly, entirely bridging my waist (I prefer to be on my back with my legs slightly bent and my feet flat). When I get here, it feels very much like a penile orgasm build-up (but originating from the prostate) and I think my mind it telling me to “push the orgasm to completion” in a way similar to typical masturbation; something I’m aware isn’t the recommended approach. I’d like to just let it happen and take me over but when I get to this point and focus on my breathing, a gentle approach, and the sensations, that warm, tingling, building sensation seems to just fade away.
First time having multiple Super O’s – arousal is important!
I had my first Super-O about a month ago now and I’ve been able to achieve a Super O once in every two to three or more sessions I’d say. This week I’ve had a lot of free time and have been having 3-4 hour sessions every single day and it’s been amazing. So many different orgasms and feelings! I’ve been experimenting with different ways of preparing and changing things up in my sessions just to see how it is. Last nights was the best by a long way.
It’s been 10 days since I ejaculated and I can easily arouse myself to a fairly intense level. I often just dive straight in to my sessions but really took my time last night. Gave myself 90 mins to prep my body, which included pre-lubing, relaxing and reading a book until my mind was too distracted 🙂 then another 30-40 minutes of arousing and teasing myself. I touched my body, did PC/kegel exercises, teased myself with my progasm and it was great. It’s rare for me to pre-cum but I was lovely and wet and it was at that point I just *had* to start.
Laid on the floor with my legs on the bed, sort of like a Z shape. Inserted my Progasm and just relaxed… really savoured everything. The way it felt inside me, how good it felt to finally have what I was craving. Involuntaries started quickly, and then p-waves, and then my first prostate orgasm. I’d say this was within the first 15 mins. An hour or so went by that was filled with intense p-waves, a few prostate orgasms and a dry orgasm.