Tag: Rewiring

Help with getting started

I’ve read up on the aneros beginners forum and listened to multiple podcasts, but I’m hoping for a little more specific feedback.

I ordered the Helix Syn V and I’ve used it 3 nights in a row so far. I’ve been mostly trying to learn to distinguish my different pelvic floor muscles and to incorporate them with using my aneros. I think I’m heading in the right direction (?) because I’ll generate precum multiple times in a session, but I can’t seem to get much further than that aside from the occasional ripple of tingling sensation throughout my body that I’ve felt before when I really had to pee but held it. I know it’s a journey, but I was hoping more experienced users could help point me in the right direction with a few things.

Do I need an erection for this work? I’ve enjoyed listening to erotica and trying perineal massage, but I’m not always hard when I do it.

Why does everyone mention binaural beats? Just because it’s relaxing? Will I not achieve the same result lying in bed?

Are the vibrating settings helpful or more for enjoyment once I’ve rewired?

Should I try blue balling myself and then focusing on the pelvic floor muscles? Or should I be totally disassociating my cock and prostate? Read more »

First HFDO?

Hello friends, here I am again. Today I am trying to understand what I’ve felt on my last session (a few hours ago).

First of all, I know that everyone has different experiences with this and nomenclature is just a way to simplify concepts that we are trying to communicate. But I really want to understand what I felt tonight, so I will try to explain.

Recently I started to felt and recognize the p-waves, feeling that pleasure and accepting that my prostate awoke and I started to rewire. Tonight I tried my vibrating prostate massager (it’s like a vice 2) in another position: with my legs more elevated than my body and watching porn. In a certain moment I started to feel some really good vibrations. I decided to (try) not pursue the feeling and continued to enjoy the moment. A few minutes later the sensations started to get really strong and good, and I closed my eyes, not focusing my attention on the porn anymore, to enjoy these sensations.

Then, I (think) felt an orgasm coming up. I remember that I was doing really strong kegels and contractions, holding up really strong and for as much time as I got. In a specific moment, I thought I was ready to orgasm. The feeling was very similar to a penile orgasm, but missing the sensation of ejaculating on the end. I had a few involuntary contractions, like when you have a penile orgasm and the dick moves up alone. When this passed, I was like “no, please, it was too good, come back”. It was like being on the edge of an abyss, just needing to make a leap of faith… and then going back. It felt incomplete, waiting for the feeling of ejaculating and this feeling never arriving. Read more »

Super-o through penetration?

Just wanna know if any of you is a able to reach a super-o when getting penetrated. Even though bottoming became even more satisfying for me since I rewired myself it still isn’t on the same level as if I play with my progasm.
Any tips on how to improve that or is it just impossible to reach a similar intensity through anal penetration?

Who needs drugs when you can have aneros.

This is my story. Many years ago I bought my first aneros. I practiced and practiced, patiently waiting. Over the weeks, small flutters became cascades of back-arching orgasms that began nearly before I could get the aneros completely inserted. I was rewired. I was on fire.

Life happened and I put my collection away. Recently I stumbled upon this group and I began to wonder why I ever gave it up. I wondered if my body had forgotten how to respond. It hadn’t.

Today I reinserted my helix. Time stood still as wave after wave of endless pleasure washed over me again and again. I had to force myself to stop. I had forgotten how utterly pleasurable the sessions could be.

During my orgasms, I am creative. I am pensive. I am alive. Today I thought to myself, who needs to take drugs when immeasurable pleasure can come from a perfectly crafted piece of plastic.

I’m hooked once again. No turning back this time.

Problems having normal orgasms?

So, I’m in a kinda relationship and since a few weeks she and me are having sex.
I noticed something weird: before I started using Aneros-toys I just had to tighten the kegelmuscles and I was on my way to a normal wet orgasm. Recently I noticed that, especially if somebody else is source of the stimulation, another set of muscles tighten up, but that way I can’t cum. First time I thought “oh hey, maybe this helps with a dry-o” but sadly it just ends in frustrating her that I haven’t cum in 10mins or more. So if thats because of the rewiring I’m stuck in between now?

Will ending a session with a traditional orgasm affect my rewiring?

I’ve only been experimenting with prostate play for a couple months now but have made some great progress. I now experience intense pleasure from any toy I use and look forward to sessions. That being said, I believe I am still rewiring and have only had “HFWO” after edging myself the traditional way.

I’ve been ending essentially every session with a traditional penile orgasm while the aneros is in; by then I am usually low on time and extremely horny. It’s a satisfying way to end a session. The best orgasms I’ve had have been when I’ve waited until my prostate is building up pleasure and finished the traditional way, seemingly cumming from my prostate and penis at the same time. I also find that as soon as I start touching my penis, my prostate becomes significantly more sensitive and pleasurable.

My question is, do you think that ending sessions this way is hindering my rewiring? Ultimately, I would like to have more truly HFOs and experience many of the things I’ve read on here. I still feel like I have been making progress, and this enjoyable end to a session is part of what keeps me coming back for more. Thanks in advance for the advice.

No success without weed

So I’ve been experimenting on and off with prostate play for about 5 years now but without any real success until I started experimenting with Mindgasm in January. Even then I just felt like I was on the right track rather than actually having outright success. Weed isn’t something I would usually use but I decided to make up some cookies (smoking makes me nauseous) and instantly my sessions were transformed. Still no actual climax but I was getting some real pleasure and lots of moments of feeling like I was on the edge of some kind of climax. Anyway, I’ve now run out of cookies and would rather not use weed long term (I have problems with addiction so need to steer clear really) but my sessions since are pretty much void of any pleasure – maybe some very mild pleasant sensations but nothing much. I try not to end any of my sessions with traditional masturbation but I find it hard to go more than a couple of days without penis stimulation. The only thing I can think to try is a longer time abstaining from traditional masturbation to help with rewiring. Any thoughts from others? Especially from people who are having success without the support of THC?

Body cramped like I was a dying spider

Im fairly new to prostate play but something happened today.

Today was my 9th or 10th session using the Edge 2 from Lovense without it vibrating. I don’t think I’m rewired yet at all but maybe this is a start. I did the usual thing of laying down, relaxing and preparing myself, slowly inserting my toy, relaxing more, applying more lube, eventually getting the whole thing in and relaxing more until it all feels fine. Then I started reading doujinshi as it can build a slow arousal throughout the story and facilitate fantasizing of wanting to be some of the characters. I was breathing slowly and deeply through my diagram and using my pelvic floor muscles to move the toy like usual when something new happened.

As I read, my hands, feet, face, and the top of my stomach started to tingle. I didn’t try to chase this feeling and just stayed relaxed. I continued breathing and reading as the tingling grew more and more. I allowed myself to sink deeper and deeper into the feeling, but realized it was not just my skin being sensitive, but my actual muscles in my hands, legs, feet, wrists, lips, and fingers all were being activated and holding. My wrists was bent in, my fingers splayed wide, my thumb curled into the palm, my arm curled into my chest, my lips pursing, my legs bending and feet flexing outwards. I felt like a dying spider, with all my limbs coiling into my chest. Read more »

Importance of abstinence?

I keep hearing sort of conflicting advice on whether to limit/avoid ejaculation while you’re rewiring. I know everybody is different, but has there been any consensus formed around this very important element of prostate play?

For some context, I’ve been ejaculating about once a week for several weeks now and having consistent aneros sessions 2-3 times per week, making sure to not stimulate my penis at all. So far, there’s not much progress to report, at least nothing noticeable, and in fact I feel like my libido is decreased. However I look back on good aneros sessions I’ve had in the past, and I’m certain I was cumming frequently around that time. However some people swear by abstinence as the thing that finally helped them make good progress with the toys.

I guess I’m answering my own question here, i.e. “do what works for you and don’t worry about other’s journeys,” but I’m still curious to hear everyone’s input on this!