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I’ve had an aneros toy for a few years. For the first 2 years, I was able to play with it many times with limited results. I’ve gotten some p-waves (maybe), but nothing close to a super-O.
I’ve got a weekend to myself and am looking for suggestions of things to do /try. Thanks!
I had my first proper session with my massager during the middle of the day yesterday. It was great fun and very enjoyable but no super o. I did feel a tingle/small buildup of what felt like an orgasm/penile orgasm and just kept clenching and releasing and enjoyed it whilst it lasted but it just faded out and it was really just 10% of the feeling of an orgasm. It was fun nonetheless though!
This morning I woke up and felt drained(I usually do after penile orgasm so I avoid them if possible because of brain fog etc). I checked the sheets and it looked like I may well have had a wet dream in the middle of the night but I don’t remember a sexy dream or anything like it at all. It’s crazy to me because I’m 34 and thought I was too old for that lol.
Why did this happen?
Has it happened to you?
I’m in the middle of my journey towards the super-O, and have noticed something interesting happening.
When I orgasm during sex now, it feels different. It feels like my whole pelvic floor is involved in the orgasm.
*It’s like this:* my pelvic floor is super relaxed and then as the orgasm builds it almost feels as if my anus is opening up?
And then, weirdly, it’s almost as if I’m about to defecate lol as I ejaculate? The thought that I am going to does momentarily cross my mind.
It’s very strange. And ***extremely pleasurable.*** Is this unusual? What accounts for it?
I’ve been using my progasm ice for a year now but have yet to achieve a super-o. Not sure what I’m doing wrong….thinking about getting the Helix Syn V hoping the vibrations will get me over the edge. Any advice?!?
I’ve been experimenting with prostate play for about two years. Due to my family schedule and my own naivety and me being impatient I did not make much progress, or rather I didn’t make quick progress. I had worked my way through fingers to ‘training kits’ to generic toys to more expensive toys and finally settled on a dildo and an Aneros, the Helix Syn Trident.
Even then they didn’t do things for me every time, only some of the time. I looked at what I had and used and I decided I needed a bigger toy, but not bigger for the sake of being big. I wanted something with purpose so I picked up the Progasm the other day.
I have seen the posts of people saying, ‘my prostate to too high up,’ and I chalked it up to them meaning, ‘it’s not as easy as it sounds / looks in the videos.’ Boy was I wrong.
When I first opened the box I was surprised by how big the Progasm is and thought, “What have I gotten myself into?”. It’s much bigger than the Helix Syn Trident. Looking back at it I was disappointed with how small the Helix was but I trusted that Aneros knew what they were doing.
I prepped myself and inserted the Progasm and immediately knew I had made the right decision. I felt it press against my prostate and I started getting hard which was thrilling to me. I stood for a few seconds just enjoying the feeling.
My previous session was a success. Lots of precum, my dick twitched a lot and lots of super Os. However, after that session, whenever I try to stimulate my prostate again, I feel good but not as good like my previous session.
Is it possible for it to go insensitive when you milk it often?
I started out so well. Read the wiki, forums, this reddit and just about everything possible. Practiced regularly. Had some early results (different feelings anyway).
Now I’m just totally confused about it all.
I posted early in my journey that we needed a clear definition of terms to avoid confusion and allow people to identify what they’re experiencing. I feel we need it now more than ever.
I haven’t experienced anything out of body so I’m assuming I haven’t had a super o.
I have no idea what a p-wave is. Nor mini o, hfdo, or any other term you want to mention.
I love my toys. Love anal play. I think I’m just going to chuck the dictionary out and ride!
Peace out and happy new year to all!
Wow! Just had the most intense aless outside of during a session. At work, hit the sweet spot with the contractions and almost tipped into a Super-O. My dick tip actually buzzed!
Where we describe how our session went for the day, what went through our minds, any changes to technique, etc?
Example: “Today’s super o was the best one I’ve ever felt. The pleasure was so intense that when my eyes tightened shut, my mind placed me in the middle of the sky floating with a beautiful sunset behind me. It was incredibly intense.” (True story).
Thoughts?
I’ve been using aneros (helix syn trident) on and off for almost two years. Been making slow but steady progress, and yesterday I got closer than I ever have before to what I think could’ve became the start of a super o.
I found that the do nothing method works best for me. But not only did I just “no nothing”, I also did 3 steps which are what got me close.
1. Physically relaxing as much as possible.
2. Mentally relaxing as much as possible. This was the game changer and involved me actively clearing my mind and removing all intent and thoughts. (This was also the hardest step because I am normally kinda scatterbrained).
3. Steady breathing. The only thing I actualy focused on was keeping a rhythm of deep steady breaths.
By sticking to those three steps, I started to feel stronger sensations and after a short time my heart started POUNDING and I could feel the blood pounding acorss my whole body and it did not stop until the session ended. While that was happening I started to feel like the world was unstable or shaking and I even saw bursts of color coming out of my pelvic area at one point, like fireworks (I’ve heard people describe this as accompanying a prostate orgasm but had never experienced it before). My body (arms and legs) also started to quiver and shake a little.