I can’t anymore. ALWAYS a hands-free wet orgasm. I can do them on command. Please help.

Hello fellow Aneros enjoyers.

I have an Anerox Trident. I’ve been using it for almost two years now (~1.5 to be more precise). I’ve read and read, and read – Aneros forums, reddit, websites. In theory I know what a prostate orgasm is and most importantly that it is not an ejaculatory orgasm. However, whatever I do I ejaculate. Finally I decided to look for help. Here are my experiences. I’ll be as brief as possible. Please help.

I’ve identified two different pleasurable sensations.

One is directly in my prostate. It is always accompanied by an erection. I can clearly push my prostate with a contraction and it always hits the same spot. After a bit of stimulation I ejaculate. Sometimes it takes longer, sometimes it happens quickly. I’ve tried the slightest of contractions and they still trigger ejaculations. It is extremely pleasurable. Sometimes I edge it and it’s amazing. But it’s still an ejaculatory orgasm.

The other sensation is more eerie. It’s more expansive and energetic. It is a general feeling in the whole of my pelvis. Sometimes I get it without an Aneros, when I’m usually mentally highly aroused, mostly through thoughts or fantasies and when I haven’t ejaculated for a long time.

Best Aneros model for someone who enjoys intensity?

Ive just got an amazon gift card and figure id try out aneros. I really enjoy intensity but I’m also a total beginner and have no clue what I’m doing. Im thinking I want the Helix Syn Trident but Ive read that its small and I don’t want to get a product thats not going to be as stimulating as expected. Ive also read on this sub that the size doesnt really play a role in whether it feels good or not. What model do y’all think would be good for me?

amateur

I got the Helix Syn Trident. I have been doing 2 hour session after my night shower. I will get these fluttering (best one i can think of) which seems like the beginning an orgasm but i can’t sustain it. I have been doing kegels during the day and trying to slowly tighten the sphincter while using the trident. Are there any place with a list of beginner tips?

Help! £50 budget – which one?!

Hi all, I’m sure this has been asked a thousand times but I’m getting myself lost and struggling to make a decision!

I am looking to buy my first prostate massager, I’m not new to anal play and I’m lucky that my wife pegs me and I use a selection of dildos and plugs, but prostate massage is new to me!

There are several that seem to fall within what I’m looking to spend and all have very positive but also negative reviews, I also appreciate this will be down to personal preference. It seems my choices are…

Aneros progasm junior £40
Aneros progasm ice £45
Aneros helix syn trident silicone £50

Would love some help and guidance! Thanks in advance for your prostate wisdom!

Syn models

I have a Helix Trident, Program, Eupho, and MGX. All of mine are the hard plastic because I find that smooth plastic slides and moves a lot better than anything silicone.

Several people have commented that the syn models have flexible tabs so they move better. That might be good, but I am also thinking that if the tabs are flexible that they will bend more and allow the toy to be pulled in further when clenching. My prostate is shallow and most toys overshoot it so I am thinking that the flexible tabs may therefore be a disadvantage. Can anyone comment on this?

How easy is it to sit or walk around with a Progasm in?

Currently, the only Aneros product I own is a Helix Syn Trident, which is obviously very comfortable to sit with and easy to keep in, being relatively small and silicone. I’m thinking about getting a Progasm, but I’m wondering, since it’s larger and rigid, if it’s uncomfortable to wear it around or sit upright in a chair with it in. I like to have a toy in for extended periods of time, so I’d like to be able to sit and walk around with it.

In some of the pictures I’ve seen of the Progasm, there’s a tab sticking out below the arms. I’m not entirely sure which models I’m looking at that have the tab or don’t, but I would expect the ones with that tab to harder to sit up with. Can anyone with a Progasm of any model add some insight? Thanks

Movement

I have aneroses large and small. Each gives a different sensation. Each good. Each MORE than good.
The larger models allow me to bear down which creates orgasmic bliss for sure. But the smaller ones, especially the Eupho Trident, gives far greater pleasure because of its movement. I realize it could be because my hole is tight, but I’m wondering if movement makes a difference for you? Gotta love my long and slender Eupho Trident. It uses me up.

What am I doing wrong?

I purchased the Aneros Helix Sun Trident almost 10yrs ago and I’ve tried it maybe a total of 15 times always with high hopes and I’ve gotten minimal results almost everytime. I’ve relaxed and given myself space and time, used my muscles to work it back n forth, kept it in for about an Hr., even used it during piv sex and still nothing seems to give me anything mind blowing. I’ll even add when I stimulate my perineum I get an amazing result maybe not mind blowing but on the cusps of it. I’ve even tried prostate massages with partners finger and that feels better than the aneros but still not as powerful as the perineum massage and not mind blowing.

I do orgasm from masturbation and having something inserted gives a slight bit of pressure which feels better but I feel like I’m missing out on something with this. Does it sound like I just need to try something bigger or is my technique wrong?