Tag: Trident

Using a bath to practice full muscle relaxation

I made a comment recently about something I began doing in the last two to three months that I got a lot of messages about, and I promised I’d write a standalone post.

That is, using the Aneros in the bath.

Long post ahead!

I’ve been practicing Aneros use for a few years now, and figuring it all out. Mid-2022 I began noticing that I wasn’t actually fully relaxing, even though I would practice the “Do nothing” approach, I wasn’t actually doing nothing. Even while relaxed I would be subconsciously holding a very light contraction the whole time. Once the pleasure would begin, I would totally take over again and be clenching an tensing to try to force the pleasure to grow, only tiring myself out.

A huge leap forward for me was when I began to just try to breath through everything, deep breaths into my belly, so that my stomach rises up. Even actively pushing my belly muscles up. This would free up the important muscles below to do their own thing and huge pleasure would grow. However, when it gets intense, I would still take over and do contractions and end up chasing the pleasure away.

The practice of Aneros for me at the moment is to have discipline and actively try to relax any muscle contractions, no matter how good everything feels. To keep breathing deeply through everything and constantly letting everything be fully relaxed. If a muscle tenses, I try to release it as much as possible. This makes everything insanely intense as it is. So pushing that further and further is my gameplan. Read more »

Is the MGX Trident suitable for long-duration wear and exercise?

I bought an MGX Trident after I bought two other anal toys (both buttplug styled) and both of them were sources of discomfort that didn’t seem to get better the longer I wore it. It was probably the most expensive sexual purchase I’ve made but… after a few tries and finding the exact kind of lube that works for me (using a lube injector with coconut oil and covering the toy with a water based lube), I was able to achieve my first penile-assisted orgasm (getting to the edge with penile stimulation and going over by clenching my muscles to make the toy rub against my insides).

Though I was more interested in anal-exclusive play and found limited success in that regard. I did notice that the toy is quite uncomfortable if I’m standing up and it only assumes a “neutral” (i.e. neither pleasurable nor painful) position when I’m lying down.

Though I don’t know if this is because I’m not used to the toy or because the toy isn’t intended to be used in that way. I’ve wanted to wear the toy for a whole day and maybe even ride an exercise bike while wearing the toy, as a matter of fantasy and want to make it happen.

Of all the toys I own, this one seemed the lightest (the other two are made of metal) and is the only toy that has given me anything remotely pleasurable, so this felt like the best candidate but considering that my current experiences with sitting upright and standing with the toy aren’t the best, I want to know if this is even a good idea.

Progress update and questions

Hi all, been two months since I practice regulary with a helix Trident and progasm.

I’ve got a definite dry orgasm once while tripping, using the do nothing relaxed method, got really hard and felt like I ejaculated violently but it was dry.

My questions are centered on sober practices though. The do nothing method feels good sometimes during the exhale but will have no results and I’ll give up after some time.

When I hold a light kegel, I can induce an automatic stroking movement which feels mildly good, is that considered an involuntary? I’ve constantly read to relax into it so when the stroking feeling starts, I’ll relax and away it goes back to ground zero.

Also in my sessions, I sometimes feel strong tingling sensations (like pins and needles) in my face and palm which slowly spreads to the legs and body, is this normal?

Last question is that with the progasm, I can’t get any auto stroking kind of feeling but when I clench down with constant pressure it feels really good, can I just throw out everything I’ve read and just focus on constantly making myself feel good?

Thanks so much!

What just happened to me?

I have a helix trident and was feeling reallly horny today after not having played with it for a few months so I decided to lube it up and pop it in.

I started on my side on the floor and got my hole really wet and inserted it and then got in the doggy style position to just feel it inside of myself. I then got a little more cleaned up and then got into bed where I lubed it up even more.

I was on my back with my legs up and it felt really good when I moved my hips around and kind of humped the air a bunch which felt so good I just kept going violently until my dick got really hard and I came without even touching it.

After I came my ass sort of squeezed the aneros back out and I stopped.

My questions, how do I make this happen again with more intensity? I want to keep going and not have to stop.

Thanks

Great experience with wife & Trident last night

We’ve both been working and traveling a lot so we had sex about a week ago and because I’ve been busy, that was the last time that I ejaculated. The build up was starting to feel pretty intense and I tried to see if she’d be down for pegging, which she enjoys but she needs to feel 100% into it and she was too tired.

Me wanting that and her telling me it’s a lot of work is always a bit contentious because I usually do all the work for PIV sex, but in the past I told her that we should try putting in an Aneros and just having her touch me (but not my penis), so I showered and put on underwear after inserting the Aneros.

She finished working late and came into the bedroom where I was already getting warmed up by relaxing and tensing and laying on the bed.

She started touching me and running her hands on my body and I eventually had two medium squirming prostate orgasms. Then we switched and I rubbed her body while she pushed her ass into me and grinded against me and I had a super hard hip bucking prostate orgasm and had to take a break for a bit. Read more »

Starting my prostate play journey

I’ve used my Aneros helix trident a few times now but with little success. Thought I’d share my mini breakthrough today, hope to experience p-wave, hands free orgasm sometime soon. I set myself aside an hour (not enough time maybe?), lubed up and relaxed, knees up laying on my side. Once I got used to the feeling I slowly contacted and released my anus to move the massager. So far quite relaxing but not mind blowing. 20 minutes in I was surprised by how much pre-cum I’d produced, which turned me on more! I found I could get into a rhythm of contracting and releasing with a slow build up of pleasure. This was easily lost though when relaxing or changing sides to lie on. Around 40 minutes I caught a wave but maybe chased too much? I let myself go vocally and found myself rubbing my nipples and stroking my skin as I was beginning to tingle. Was so hard not to touch my cock, which was by now rock hard and leaking pre-cum. This faded and never returned, the only other feeling was around. 50 mins feeling a lot more full and feeling the massager move more, but the intense pleasure didn’t return. Any tips for my next try much appreciated, will be posting progress again

Lube

Here’s a question for the experienced. I have read (and felt) that adequate lube is paramount.
My problem is – I dry out over extended session (as it should be) In particular – the sphincter loses it’s “glide”.

I have used coconut oil (not slippery – for me), water based normal, water based thick , hybrid thick (best?), regular astroglide, petroleum jelly, j-lube (slippery – but MESSY and still dried out)…

I have progasm, helix syn trident (has been the best so far), MXG syn trident, and peridise.

I REALLY want to try silicone lube to keep things moving – but don’t want to mess up my SYN devices…

Nothing is more disappointing than waiting for days to have the time to do this – but having “process issues” that “void” the attempt..

Is it worth just getting non-syn devices and using silicone lube? Would that even be a better “glide”?

What am I feeling?

I’ve had the Helix Syn Trident since around October last year and I’ve had mixed feelings with it. I’ve noticed since using it and eventually getting some feeling with it, my regular penis orgasm is weaker. The feelings I get I’m also confused with. Sometimes I can go for ages and get absolutely nothing, but then sometimes I can feel something building and then fairly suddenly I a weird sort of heat throughout my body which is centred in my head. During this my brain sort of turns of and doesn’t think of anything. This lasts about 30 seconds maybe and feels nothing like a penis orgasm, but the feeling is better. Thing is, I don’t feel like I’m done when the feeling goes, and if I can’t get it back I often resort to just finishing with my penis which usually ends in a disappointing orgasm in comparison. When reading about what other people have they describe ‘waves’. This doesn’t feel like a wave, and from what I’ve heard you WILL know if you have a super-o, and I’m not sure I have. Any tips on where to go, or what I might be feeling?

Aneros Vice 2 vs Helix Syn V while sitting down.

I’ve been toying with anal toys for almost 7 years, but only truly delved for past 3 years or so. All these time, I thought
1. Vibrating is better than manual
2. Girth is better the bigger
for the longest time – up until I tried Aneros Helix Syn Trident, and experienced a true Super O. Previously, regular penis masturbation with anal toy was only way to achieve orgasm. I thought Super O and other hands-free orgasm were purely mental, and thus out of my reach. I was beyond happy.

However, now that I know what my prostate likes, I’m split/confused as to what to buy: Aneros Vice 2 vs Helix Syn V, especially while sitting down. I now know that size isn’t important to my Super O, and have been enjoying lack of residual pain at my anus after insertion and play. And I’ve been told that stronger vibration doesn’t necessarily make anal play happy for long, as they get numb.

If I’m not married to size nor greater vibration, should I get Helix Syn V or Vice 2? Does stronger vibration and remote make critical difference in solo play? Or am I asking a wrong question?

Thank you in advance.

The blessed week

Happened to me a few years ago. I was 17 and was curious about prostate play. I bought my helix trident and had literally little to no sensations, even after several sessions. I remember thinking “these mfs are all liars who work for aneros, I’ll never buy their toys again”. I got frustrated and really wanted to hfo, so I bought dildos and learned to do it after only a few trials.

Fast forward to that “blessed week” 2 years later. It’s may 2021 and I’m in college. That year was intense for me, was working hard every day. And that week I had exams from 8am to 5pm for 5 days straight. It was monday evening and I was studying for my upcoming chemistry exam. Searching through some old papers in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident. It was 9pm and I thought to myself “You’ve worked enough, why not give this toy one last try and toss it if it still doesn’t work”.

I lie in bed, switch off the lights, put the aneros in and watch some porn. And of course, I do not touch my dick. I was just squeezing my ass a little and could feel something building up, I was scared to let go so I held tight untill I couldnt hold it anymore. My dick started dancing like crazy and I was moaning really loud, I couldnt believe what was happening. I tried different positions and my body started shaking and I couldnt stop. It felt so hot. I had to sleep so I pulled out the aneros while my body was still shaking, not knowing whether or not I’d be able to do this again. I laughed like crazy after that, amazed by what had just happened. It was unreal. Read more »