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Things I’m learning about myself doing daily sessions that have nothing to do with orgasm.

I first bought a progasm about 2 years ago. I used it for a while but stopped mostly out of feeling embarrassed and insecure.

Recently I’ve been doing this for 2 and a half weeks almost daily. It’s not a long time but it’s been eye opening on an emotional level. I think I’m now understanding why I wanted to abruptly end my exploration a couple years ago. Shame.

I’ll do a session and during a session and after I start to appreciate my sphincter, my pelvis, my prostate, my breathing. I feel sexual and delicate. I think I am fearful or anxious about this. I have anxieties about my sexuality and traditional beliefs about body parts that were never healthy. When I place an object into my anus I feel embarrassed and ashamed. The irony is that those feelings also turn me on too. I think I need to process this more and really identify areas of shame about my body instead of running away or over eroticizing those feelings. I need to deal with my attitudes and beliefs about my body, my sexual fantasies and hopefully love myself at the end of dealing with it.

I’ve also found a new energy with my sex life with my wife. It’s only been 2.5 weeks but I’m really interested in being more communicative with her. Im also more interested in having sex with her. I’ve been married with her for 23 years and it’s not as easy to be into it all the time. Im really into it now. Read more »

Help! £50 budget – which one?!

Hi all, I’m sure this has been asked a thousand times but I’m getting myself lost and struggling to make a decision!

I am looking to buy my first prostate massager, I’m not new to anal play and I’m lucky that my wife pegs me and I use a selection of dildos and plugs, but prostate massage is new to me!

There are several that seem to fall within what I’m looking to spend and all have very positive but also negative reviews, I also appreciate this will be down to personal preference. It seems my choices are…

Aneros progasm junior £40
Aneros progasm ice £45
Aneros helix syn trident silicone £50

Would love some help and guidance! Thanks in advance for your prostate wisdom!

Where to start?

About 2 months ago, I purchased my first Aneros product. I was able to have what to this day I would still classify as a Super-O. .. since then, I have tried numerous different versions from Aneros and the last one (Eupho Syn) it my “go to”.

So here’s the deal. My wife knows i have two Aneros devices. But she never really knew I had any success at all… and I didn’t think I would be able to do a session with her around – so I didn’t really tell her.

The other day she found the Aneros in the bathroom and commented on it. I kinda “disregarded ” and said.. yeah, another failed attempt… nothing really happened.

Two days later (last night) she lubes up her finger and slips it in. INSTANT arousal. INSTANT involuntaries. Within 30 seconds I have hfdo. Except that she was able to keep her finger on the prostate no matter if I was having a power contraction or super reverse kagel… and just fukkin kept tapping ever so slightly. I think i had about 2 hours of almost non stop hfdo and by the end of it the wife was so wet she soaked completely through her panties. ..
She went to work this morning and has been telling me all day to get ready for “as long as I can take it” tonight when she gets home.
I’ve been leaking all day in anticipation.

Great experience with wife & Trident last night

We’ve both been working and traveling a lot so we had sex about a week ago and because I’ve been busy, that was the last time that I ejaculated. The build up was starting to feel pretty intense and I tried to see if she’d be down for pegging, which she enjoys but she needs to feel 100% into it and she was too tired.

Me wanting that and her telling me it’s a lot of work is always a bit contentious because I usually do all the work for PIV sex, but in the past I told her that we should try putting in an Aneros and just having her touch me (but not my penis), so I showered and put on underwear after inserting the Aneros.

She finished working late and came into the bedroom where I was already getting warmed up by relaxing and tensing and laying on the bed.

She started touching me and running her hands on my body and I eventually had two medium squirming prostate orgasms. Then we switched and I rubbed her body while she pushed her ass into me and grinded against me and I had a super hard hip bucking prostate orgasm and had to take a break for a bit. Read more »

What did I get into?

So… here is the story. I’ve played around with traditional dildo type toys… have gotten some “sensations” but I was usually pretty disappointed in any kind of results.

Last week – I finally pulled the trigger and ordered a Helix trident syn (I think… the black non vibrating one) and while i was waiting for that to arrive – i ordered the progasm. I actually received the progasm first.. and was excited to try it out. I inserted – and was surprised to find that it did NOT readily slip out. – I used it for about 90 minutes – but nothing really.. a couple “ooh.. what was that? ” then gone away.

A couple days later my Helix arrives. I find myself with a rare “day by myself” and I figure I’m gonna try this out.

I inserting the Helix. Nothing special. I lay on my back.. slowly doing some contractions. It feels ok… but I feel that I’m just not relaxed enough.

I flip over to lay on my stomach. Flacid- pushed downward where my pelvis is against the bed. I seperate my legs a little- but angle my legs like I’m kinda pigeon toed – opening up my ass a little.

I quickly find out that if I pull the helix into my core – and hold it – it will eventually lose “its grip” and like a worn out fatigued muscle – it kinda “flutters” back to relaxed. This starts some sensations Read more »

HFWO with Peridise

Wow I have HWFOs before but this seemed different. Warmed up with the big peridise during a mindgasm lesson (3) lightly following along and then swapped to the small one with the mindgasm 2 hour no talking audio on YouTube. I was fully expecting to move my way up through the toys to the progasm or eupho which has given HFWOs before. But then I concocted a new fantasy where my wife was fingering me and it was her finger that was dancing around my prostate. In my fantasy – and out loud – I was begging her to not make me cum from my ass. I think I had a light HFDO and then immediately went into a powerful HFWO. Guess she didn’t listen to me in my fantasy.

I’ve had a hard time not trying to force something to happen. Maybe this flip of my mind combined with the domination fantasy was what I needed. I’ll try it again tomorrow and see.

What I’m really surprised with is that I had a O at all with the peridise. I used to think my P spot was pretty deep and it seems that the eupho just barely hits it. What gives?

Float tank aless edition

Had an hour in the float tank today. I took a good amount of CBD beforehand so was really chill going in. Inserted a non-syn Eupho and got into the relaxation. I’ve used devices in the tank before and they never really do anything and this time was no different. What happened after though was crazy! After the float I usually use the free 10 minutes at the oxygen bar. I got comfortable in the chair and was still really relaxed from the float. I was going to my wife’s cousin’s house afterward to repair some equipment. She’s not overly hot but I’ve always had a thing for her. I started fantasizing about her and went right into the most powerful aless I’ve ever had outside of a session! I really had to restrain myself from going full orgasm since there were people there. Damn it was good aless!

Sorry this isn’t as coherent and sexy as I want it to be. I’m still loopy from the session!

First session

I hipecyall don’t mind – I am going to use this account to document my aneros/prostate play journey. I will post mostly to my profile but when I have a break thru or questions, I will go ahead and put in r/aneros.

A little about me: 47 years old, married for 17. I am a complete newb to solo prostate play. My wife has tried to stimulate my prostate with a finger and a toy before, but I’ve never felt anything but uncomfortable. The last time she tried, I googled why I’m not getting anything good, and eventually found Aneros and that’s why I’m here.

I purchased the Helix Syn Trident and finally had the opportunity to try it last night. I asked my wife for some “alone time” where I wouldn’t be disturbed. I took a quick shower to clean up and then a nice, long, hot bath to relax. I hopped in bed, lubed up, and worked the Aneros in…slowly. when it inserted, it felt completely fine…not uncomfortable at all, but I knew it was there.

I put on my headphones and listened to mindgasm – the first lesson. It went great! I definitely had involuntary contractions as I flexed my base – like my hip and thigh muscles were pulsing, in addition to my PC muscles. I enjoyed it so much I went to the second. lesson two was about vibrating the sweet spot -I was able to do that once but could not repeat it. Read more »

Oh. My. God.

So I had a plan for last night. Me and my wife were about to get high and have some sensual slow sex with music and candles. Before we went outside to vape, I had an idea and put my Eupho syn in. I was gonna watch her masturbate and try to get some pleasure from my aneros, because my main problem during the sessions is that I don’t seem to get aroused enough, so I figured is she is there moaning next to me, it would work better.
So we went outside to vape, and after about 5 minutes my Eupho started moving very slightly, I had a feeling that I had to go to the bedroom and lay down until she makes a cup of tea. While I was waiting I had a 1 minute long extremly powerful P wave. What happened after was beyond anything I could ever imagine.. at this point I must say, I have never been higher from weed before.
So we were laying next to each other, me naked, her in smoking hot but simple black lingerine, and I couldn’t stop cumming for the next hour🤩. When I felt I could have a hwfo, she started stroking my cock, and I had 3 or 4 mindblowing dry orgasms… my whole body was shaking, I was completly out of mind.. she was using her toy, and we even came together at the same time while just laying next to each other. Finally We had sex with the eupho still in and came togehter (her squirting like crazy) , but that normal orgasm wasnt even close to what I experienced earlyer. Usally she cums 5-6 times, but last night I almost felt selfish for having an hour and half long orgasmic madness. And the mini O’s aless after…came 5-6 times by just laying there watching netflix.Best fucking night of my life.

Best model for partnered sex?

My wife and I have dabbled with prostate play but I have never experienced anything beyond a mild discomfort. I did some searching and found the aneros – I think this is something I would really try, for both personal exploration and partnered sex.

Is there a model better than others for sex?