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Prograsm Ice = Butt Marauder

So I came in from lunch and as I was returning all my family were leaving to go shopping. Wife was already at work and had already completed her midday home trip.

It was just me…the dog…and my prostate.

I started with some Aless. It was fantastic. 2 Super-Os lasting over 5 mins each. I felt all tingly. I decided to retire to the room and get it on with the Helix Syn. It was ok…some good pleasure. A few pwaves. Several times it was moving on its own but it never really hit that spot. My prostate then spoke to me. It said one word….Progasm.

Now some background here. Me and this unit have never seen eye to eye. It’s a lot to put it in. It never feels comfortable. The only time I ever get pleasure from it is if I decided to masturbate (which before I had super-Os I would ALWAYS do and this would ALWAYS be the model I end my sessions with).

Today was different. I lubed it up and while it was still difficult getting that first bulb in…after that it slid right in to place and it kissed my prostate. That was different. I laid down and just took deep breaths. Shortly thereafter it felt like my rectum expanded to allow more of the big boy in. My cock got super soft…unlike any other time…but I felt it…I felt it starting to tingle…it moved like it was shifting…very very small movements…but they were deliberate and to the point. And then it happened… Read more »

Welcome Back to the Journey

So. For Context my journey began in April 2018. 6 months I felt I had made progress with the Aneros line. On October 20th I started reading Mantak Chia’s The MultiOrgasmic Man. I practiced all of his teachings…to the letter. Within 4 days I had my first super O without any Aneros assistance. The next two weeks were blissful. Aless had me in its grasp on a daily basis and I explored these sensations

I had a work trip. I decided to reintroduce the Aneros to my sessions. I took the Helix Syn on the trip with me. On the first night I lubed up the Helix Syn and my ass and slipped it in. From the very first second I knew I had made a grave mistake. I lied down on the bed and within 5 mins the Helix syn was auto fucking me and it was blasting my prostate. I moaned and cried in my hotel room. I even recorded some of the sessions. However, on this trip I felt I had overdone it. Kind of lost my way some.

I returned home and obviously my wife was over excited to see me therefore for the next several days my personal goal of semen retention was basically shattered for 3 days straight. My prostate went into hiding. I could no longer easily find it. For about 2 days all of my sessions left me frustrated. I went back to Mantak Chia…I realigned my Microcosmic Orbit and here begins my comeback tour of my journey Read more »

Breakthrough and realization

I had my best session to date this morning and it just happened to be A-less. My wife left for work and I was getting ready to take a shower, I got undressed and decided to just lay down on the bed for a little bit and see if I could just relax and make myself feel good. I laid on my back knees up cocked flopped forward and down and just relaxed for a couple minutes, It felt good to just not think about anything and relax, i started some nipple stimulation and was suprised at the response my body gave me. I started to feel warm sensations in my groin and my prostate twitched a couple times very gently. My cock started to get hard on its own like i was 16 again. I continued to play with my nipples and relax into the feelings, I was moaning and breathing heavy, heart was racing and occasionally a quick sudden spasm would go through my body. This went on for several minutes and the feelings where getting more and more pleasurable. I was making noises and moaning and moving around still breathing heavy. I started thinking something is happening here I never make noises like this and shake with pleasure this much even during traditional orgasm. This went on for at least 5 minutes and then calmed down. I just laid there for a minute to see what would happen, everything just wound down. i did not want to try and start over again so I got up to get my shower. My heart was still pumping faster then normal I felt flushed and relaxed but not drained. I believe i was orgasming like I have never before and did not realize what was happening. It had to be some form of orgasm I was involuntarily making noises and moving around cock was three quarters hard and felt great with no stimulation. recently I have been having hfwo’s with my Aneros in at the end of sessions. i think i was getting clost to dry o’s but the switch would go off to more traditional ejaculation response. Not this time however, not even the slightest feeling of build up to ejaculation just mild pleasure throughout with an occasional heavy contraction or spasm. I realized all these other times I have been expecting some type of Orgasm that resembled a traditional orgasm and have been dissapointed when It did not happen. I would then tense up gyrate around and force myself to have a hfwo. Not this time however and no aneros involved. Not sure what it was but it felt very good. Had great plans of trying again later with the Aneros to see if I could duplicate the experiance. Well that did not work, got interupted by the phone, then my dog and could not get anything going. I hope that was not my one and only something O. i am just going to keep moving forward on this journey it has been starting to get very interesting and pleasurable lately.

my journey so far

Encouraged by https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/110569-learn-helpful-links-for-new-members, decided to blog my own journey, even if only for my future reference.

Can’t remember now how I came to knowing about Aneros let alone buying one, perhaps during one of the tumblr porn surfing sessions. Anyway, have had the Helix Syn for a while but really started to use it regularly a few months before.

I am not new to anal play and even had a kind of anal orgasm once, back when I was a teenager (33 now), and used prostate massagers for fun with my wife and alone, but never really new about the possibility of Super-O and “rewiring” until recently. I’ve heard about involuntary contractions and the intense prostate pleasure, but never found them, and voluntary contractions would get me aroused but my muscles got tired quickly and it ruined the experience.

Finding the wiki got me really excited so I decided to give the whole thing another go. I would wake up early, when the family was still sleeping, which would give me about two hours of almost-private time in the living room, the best I could have in the circumstances. I would take a shower, use coconut oil as the lube and started doing the contractions.

At this very time, I got interested in male kegels (unrelated to Aneros) and got pretty good at feeling and controlling my PC muscles. That definitely helped with the aneros sessions. Read more »

saw doctor

This morning I saw my doctor. Last time I had seen my doctor she had mentioned about blood pressure medication and cholesterol medication and wanted me to think it over. My doctor has been aware for years of the fact that my wife and I have a statistically sexless marriage and she is aware – and approves – of my aneros use. Having reviewed things with me, she noted that the only downside to taking these medications would be a strong possibility of ED. A statistical sexless marriage is one thing less than 10 times per years. An absolute sexless marriage is something else. My wife and I had been averaging 2 to 4 times per year for many years now.

So I informed my doctor that recently my wife and I decided to discontinue sex altogether. I said it was my idea, my offer and my wife readily agreed. I told my doctor that my health was more important than getting hard, when quite frankly I had no use or need for an erection. My doctor told me that it might reduce my libido as well. I told her I was fine with that.

So now I have a couple prescriptions.

The Joy continues

Last night my wife and I talked – I reminded her we last made love in March and here it is late October. She reminded me of her perimenopause into menopause phase that she has been stuck in for the last 5 or 6 years, and that it could last another five years, maybe more. She said to be honest she has no interest in sex other than private masturbation. I told her from my perspective the connection was the most part, and she agreed. So I made her an offer. We abandon sex altogether indefinitely in exchange for kissing and cuddling. She is allowed to masturbate her labia and clit in private but no vaginal or anal penetration with toys, fingers, objects. I am allowed to use my prostate toys in my rectum in private but no touching or rubbing of my penis or scrotum for arousal purposes. If I want to acquire a chastity device she will supervise the installation and hold the key, but it would need to be something wearable 24/7 as she does not want to be involved taking it off and putting it back on me. We discussed me seeing my doctor to review the cholesterol and blood pressure medications she had previously suggested as erectile dysfunction would be ideal for us.

Helix does it tonight

After a lackluster session two nights ago with this device, it sure got me there tonight! It definitely does it much more gently than the Progasm Black does. Progasm gives me these deep, throaty moans and when I hit the big SO there is no doubt it’s the Progasm putting the pressure on my prostate. Helix is less intense and feels more like a traditional O without the ejaculation. I’ve got an afterglow burning too. Nice! Wife and I are supposed to have traditional sex tonight. I predict a Super TO.

The Joy of the Sexless Marriage

My wife and I have been in a statistically sexless marriage since about a year after we married. In other words, less than 10 times a year. The novelty of say sex on a week, or twice a month wore off. And then from say 8 times per year with the start of year two we have gone down to 2 to 4 times per year during the last 10+ years. At first I was so angry – but know what – I love her and I cannot change her. So, I learned to live with the situation, take responsible control of my own sex life, have fun and enjoy the kiss and snuggle relationship she and I have.

Key to all this was aneros. In 2002 I experience discomfort then pain from prostate congestion. I went to the doctor – she suggested I have a look at the High Island Health website. HIH was the parent of Aneros – the Aneros brand came a little later with a sexual focus, whereas HIH was focused on health. I bought a device which looks just like the MGX. It brought me pleasure and relief. Thankfully my wife has no problem with me indulging in prostate play on a largely don’t ask don’t tell basis. Read more »

Progasm Black took me further

My wife told me, after she and her first husband broke up she was shopping around for a dildo. A friend of her’s told her,” Don’t get anything bigger than average as anything smaller may not satisfy you anymore”.

Well, that’s what I found with this session. Helix took me pretty high and had some great SO’s but not like the ones the Progasm Black has given me of late. Helix certainly is more mobile but it just doesn’t quite hit the spot anymore. May just end up focusing on it for a while and letting the Progasm have a rest.

Had some SO’s but missed the intensity. Finally decided to stop. That’s when the biggest ones happened. After the first round of big ones decided again to stop and another wave came along. This happened two or three times. I guess once you decide to give up you’re surrendering and it takes away the pressure to get there.

Slept with it in last night too. No pulsing, no O’s, just a pleasant feeling when I woke up a few times. Could almost get addictive! The little Astro-Glide I used was enough for it to slide out easily in the morning. My ass self-lubricates to a degree, odd I know but it does. Just a touch of lube to get started with most anal play and I’m good for hours.

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“Two Great Sessions Even At SR Day 3!”

Introduction
I am only at SR Day 3 but took a chance at not one but two sessions today. One, early morning and the other about mid-day. Here is what happened in each…..

Session #1
I wore my Safe-T-Gard strap with Mueller cup overnight. This first session was with the HIH 950, one of my favorites. I lubed-up generously with Slippery Stuff Gel and got started. Almost from the beginning, I had a strong sense that I was going to ejaculate. I had a lot of fluid (possibly precum?) and distinctly felt that if I continued this session longer, I would have a HFWO. But I stopped-short of that. Instead, I decided to retreat to my comfortable sofa and put on some nice tracks. I selected one on YouTube and when I awoke, I was listening to “Music for the Soul @Enigmatic Mix” and it was incredibly stimulating! Before I knew it, it was about 2-1/2 hours later than when I started! Several times during the “session” I developed a strong erection within the Mueller cup and again, it honestly felt like I would ejaculate.

New mindset for Session #1: Instead of the usual “male chastity cup” I developed a new mindset. My urologist wants to prep me for a procedure and I am to wear a jockstrap/cup for two nights prior to my procedure. This morning ended the second night. I don’t know what this “prep” was supposed to do but it worked! Read more »