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“A Side Effect Of Male Chastity”

My wife is out-of-town this weekend and I am living like a bachelor again! That means cooking my own meals, house-cleaning, etc. My chastity play continues and I wore my CB-6000S and jock cup for almost 20 hours yesterday! One thing I notice today is that, even with Day 2 of SR, my cock is incredibly sensitive to touch. Even when I am flaccid, the sensations emanating from my groin are incredibly arousing—so much so that I am developing precum! I read about this effect of “continuous” chastity on both effects. It is almost like a constant state of arousal (through foreplay for example). Only this time, it does not end! This arousal after a long phase of chastity would make for some great love-making and sex. Putting myself back in chastity too soon may just be too much today. I think I’ll take a break for a few hours, at least until after church! We’ll see what develops later on today.

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“Playtime In Chastity – I Must Have Been A Very Good Boy”

I finally got some cuddle-time with my wife last night. Not long, but long enough. She will be out of state this weekend so I will be all alone in the house (with our golden retriever). Yesterday, I researched the effects of sleeping nude on the possibility of a wet dream. So, upon retiring, I removed everything and settled-in for a relaxing night. It really is relaxing…..I awoke about 6 hours later with an arousing erection, squirming around on the bed and it felt really good. (But the sheets were dry – no wet dream for me yet!)

I decided to do a prostate stim session with the HIH 950. This one lasted about 1 hour and, as always, was gentle and amazingly sensual. I am wearing my swimmer’s jock for support, although I think my cock was flaccid most of the time. What I distinctly remember about this session were the auto-contractions which seemed to be non-stop. When this session was over, I felt the inside of my jock and it was wet! when I went to remove it, I was surprised to find that the massager had moved outward about 1/2″.

I transitioned to the sofa where I found a couple of good relaxing tracks on YouTube. Then, I was “treated” to a special binaural track: “Hands Free Orgasm 5: Multiple Ejaculation and Sexual Climax (ASMR and Binaural). Holy shit! This one worked entirely hands-free! It took about 30 minutes but towards the end, I could not stop it. I had a couple of tissues in place to catch the cum. And when I came, it felt amazing! I am relaxed, less horny and ready to explore the upcoming weekend! Read more »

“Aroused Before A Session? Wow!”

I had been sleeping in my “chastity cup”and was highly aroused. For some reason, I fell-into another “living fantasy”. My wife (or lover) insists that I take off my PJ top, and begins to cuddle me all-over. Then, after a while, she wants me to take off my PJ bottoms, leaving me only in my tight boxers and cup. She begins to fondle my nipples and I feel my erection building-up all over again. I feel like I am a participant in a “tease-and-denial” game.

After a while, she wants me to take-off my boxers and prepares me for a prostate-massage session using my HIH 950. She lubes it up and gently inserts it. I remain relaxed for a full 15 minutes.

After that, I am drawn-into this highly arousing session, first gentle contractions (p-waves) then more intense ones. I already have leakage developing. For a while, the auto-fuck contractions took over and I was able to ride-it-out. I felt that I was on my way for a HFWO!

After about an hour, I felt that I was getting just a little sore and felt like I had to pee (which I did). When I removed the 950, I felt amazingly energized and ready to take on the day!

PS My tendency for “blue-balls” seems to have gone away since regularly milking my prostate. I am now in Day 12 of SR. I feel great! Read more »

Something’s Changing

Something’s Happening

In a recent post from a forum’s member, @rumel suggested​ the use of a tennis ball to massage the member’s perineum and I thought it might be a good time to try it.

First, a bit about my status; I started Anerosing in Jan of 2016 thus achieving great health improvement on my prostate while enjoying the many great sensations and feelings but still short of the ‘Big’ one and even Dry-Os. I consider myself to finally be ‘Aneros Mentally Mature’ meaning I no longer push for results, I am taking the time to enjoy every bit of sensation, twitches and p-waves my body gives me with absolutely no expectaations. I read forum posts, re-read WIKI and just simply enjoy my current status every day.

Back to tennis balls; I sat on a tennis ball while rocking back and forth and sideways for two consecutive sessions in two days now and sometimes doing so aggressively. I feel a further awakening of sensations in the area which leaves me tingling for many hours after. Good suggestion @rumel, thank you!

Last night (in the middle of the night), I woke up to two consecutive and very distinctive prostate dry orgasms, something I never had before. They were mild and not enough for my wife to wake and notice my smile.

Was this the result of the tennis matches at my perineum or just a coincidence? The answer is really not important, the end result is. I certainly feel I’m making progress in my Aneros and A-less sessions. Read more »

“Male Chastity: The Stocking Trick Works!”

Ready to get into my CB-6000S this morning, I remembered reading about the “stocking trick” to get the penis into the cage without the use of lube. Well, I tried it. I cut-off a piece from my wife’s knee-high and threaded it through the opening in the cage. I put it over my flaccid cock and placed the cage near it. OMG! When I started pulling on it, the penis was magically pulled up to the top of the cage. As a side benefit, this technique also seems to cause an automatic erection so you have to proceed rather quickly! But before I knew it, I had everything in position and with a “click” I am back in chastity! Nice to know I don’t have to lube myself up every day! I’ll see how things feel later on in the day and report any developments.

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Entry One

I can’t count how many times over the last year guys in chat have mentioned that they missed my blog here. Some even remembered my blog on Word Press 5 years ago, mentioning how much they enjoyed it. I must admit I miss the connection with real readers. I stopped blogging a year ago, directing all my erotic writing energy to my novels. There will be news of the novels here this year, I am thinking of publishing finally. One is complete and the other (a sequel) is 6 months from finishing. They are long. The first is 130,000 words or 350 + pages; I will know how long the second will go in a few months.

So here is the first entry in my third blog series. It was inspired by a session that I had just finished which is often the case. After letting the last intense anal pleasure spasm dwindle I abandoned any effort to sustain them and got out of bed with my anus buzzing in post orgasm. A few minutes ago I came downstairs, my cock still dripping precum and my anus drooling lube to commit words to the computer before I forgot them. I told a few guys last night that I expected that I would be doing a session early this morning; it was a session worth writing about. Read more »

“What?…….Did I Cum?”

Following about 7 hours in my chastity cage, I “released” myself and crawled into bed with my wife. I was in Day 12 of SR and was eager to reach Day 13. But something happened. I felt the need to be close to her, so I started to “spoon”. And she did not resist; after a while (15-20 minutes or so), she suggested that I re-position myself so she could better reach me. I already had a strong hard-on and she began to fondle my package ever-so-gently. About the only thing I remember now is a constant moaning. She kept this up for as long as I could take it. How long did this last? Not sure, but I think 30 minutes may be about right. I reached a point where I knew I was close to the PONR. I remember telling her to stop and that I could not take any more. I was starting to shake and almost ready to let out a scream. I needed to get a towel so she could “finish me off”. When I got back into bed, I re-positioned myself and began to stroke my cock. I used my non-dominant (right) hand and she was deftly and gently stimulated my scrotum. I was in a euphoric state to say the least. Read more »

“Male Chastity: New Feelings”

Well, I am in Day 12 of SR. I am still in “pseudo-chastity” almost all day. I sleep in a “chastity cup” and most of the day, I am locked-up in my CB-6000S cage. Today, while locked-up, I am noticing more spontaneous erections just “out of the blue”. They last a little while and then subside. There is a feeling that I am going to precum a lot more today. I’ll check it out later in the day. At the same time, I am getting more horny and developing a new sense of urgency for a release (ejaculation). These feelings seem to be building-up more now. As I am typing this, I am developing yet another erection (#5 this afternoon alone). I don’t know if this is considered “normal” for male chastity, but I like the feeling!

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Oh man! If I had a keyholder now and were truly “locked-up”, I may be climbing the walls soon, begging for orgasmic release. At the same time, my wife (who is not my keyholder) has not been very amorous lately, so I guess you could say that I am now experiencing the feelings of a “real” male chastity lock-up! It will be up to her to decide my fate.

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“BPH Is Knocking On My Door Again”

Since giving up my regular Aneros sessions months ago, I now notice that I have regained some BPH symptoms. They are more annoying than anything: i.e., several more night-time trips to the bathroom, etc. To help alleviate the symptoms, as I did before with Aneros, I have ordered from High Island Health their “new” 950 prostate massager and will begin to use it regularly. This should help.

Since I have embarked on SR and now male chastity, I’m sure that the reduced activity level of my prostate is contributing to the BPH symptoms. On the upside, however, I have never been more horny!

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PS My wife should not have any objections as this is purely a “medical” decision. It’s either prostate massage or future visits to the urologist!

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A “Virtual” Aneros Session….Amazing!

An amazing session! Here is the background……

I was in Day 6 of SR and chastity. My wife was feeling better after a week with a stomach bug. Anyway, we lay down in bed just relaxing and watching TV when I reached out to her to cuddle. I began to get an erection, but this one wouldn’t go down. It remained hard and just got harder. I began to get aroused and she felt it. She began a most-erotic, gentle tease of my cock and after about 25 minutes, I was thoroughly wet. I knew I would have to go-off or suffer the consequence of blue-balls. I didn’t have a towel handy so I went to get one and returned. I got it into position and my wife took over from there (knowing I am in chastity, she gave the green-light). She proceeded to finish me off with some mind-blowing ball massage and cock-work. I didn’t last long, I ejaculated with an incredible amount of cum! My pelvis was tingling for several minutes afterwards.

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Fast-forward to this morning; I am “locked” in my pseudo-chastity-cup and found an interesting track on YouTube: “Tantric Deep Lounge” by G.I. Joe. I started listening and could feel my cock twitching beneath my cup. I started performing some kegels but not knowing where this was going. After a while (I lost track of time) I began to feel an unmistakable clenching in my prostate and it was a prostate orgasm! Now realize I have stopped my “formal” Aneros sessions months ago. But this “session” felt like I never stopped! Things settled down for a short while, but started-up all over again! OMG! A MMO! During this session, I had the usual moans, deep-breathing, shaking and euphoria. I guess you could say that the Aneros re-wiring is indeed permanent! I probably could have lasted longer, but, alas, it was time to get-up. Read more »