I didn't really know what to expect. This was a new and intriguing thing for me, and I was anxious to expand my horizons into something totally new and different. I have been a pretty avid Fleshlight user for at least three years, using it about once a week.
Oh, BTW, I'm married, in my 50's, and, no, wife doesn't know about my toys, any of them. I plan to keep it that way.
Anyway, for my first time, I was home alone and prepared my place on top of the warm water bed. I had the impression that the whole thing was going to be much messier than it was. In fact, using the Fleshlight is a lot messier than using the aneros. With great anticipation and moderate anxiety, I lubed up the toy and found it was pretty easy to insert. I was amazed how once it's half way in it just seems to pull itself the rest of the way in. My heart was pounding, and I tried to lay as still as possible for 15 minutes. Time seemed to stand still. I kept looking at the clock after what seemed like 5 minutes, and only 1 minute had gone by. I had read the forums and wiki, so I wasn't really expecting any great miracles the first time, and nothing miraculous happened. It felt good, though, and after 45 minutes, I decided to stop and wait until next time.