A good friend of mine recently told me he just started using Flomax. I sat there and just stared at him and I thought about my similar situation which brought me here. I asked him if he had ever had a doctor perform a prostate massage to releave BPH symptoms. I told him that there are natural remedies. At that point his wife walked in and the discussion stopped. WOW, this is a great guy and I hate to see him taking this stuff. The side effects are worse than the cure. I would like to introduce him to this but being a guy in our society as it is I'm not real comfortable doing so. Maybe I'll just send him a link to this web site. How do you tell someone…..here, stick this up your ass and throw your flomax away!!