This is my 1st blog on my path to discover new things about my body and my prostate. For years (I am 54) I have been curious and experimental with the feelings I would get when inserting something in my anal cavity. I would always do this on my own and alone (fingers, dildos, etc) as I was embarrassed. I thought I would be seen as gay or "freakishly kinky". About a year ago my wife and I had a "breakthrough" in our marriage and now we communicate more openly about sex.
I also saw a doctor for hemorrhoid treatments and received laser ablation therapy the effectively eliminated them. During the exam and treatment, the doctor educated me about my prostate and "milked" me… it was a defining moment in my life. I told my wife about it and, after our breakthrough last year, we researched about prostate massage together. We were buying some sex toys to spice up our bedroom time and I suggested an Aneros. Since we weren't sure of the success of the product, we decided to purchase a lower priced knock-off model of a MGX/SGX. I will say now that I am sorry that we didn't go ahead and spend the money for the real thing as the knock-off has some design flaws. I am currently awaiting the arrival of a Progasm. After some experiences with the smaller MGX/SGX stye model, I desire a more full feeling so I and stepping up to a Progasm.
Enough background, last night I had an outstanding experience. My wife was tanning in our tanning bed and I inserted the helix knock-off. I had about 30 – 45 minutes before she was done. I was laying on my side and relaxed letting the device do it's thing. I had several very nice dry O's in that time. Wifey came to the bed and asked why my chest and face were flushed and I told her what I had been doing. She smiled wide and proceeded to get her favorite Lelo vibrator to join me on the bed. She asked if there was anything she could do to help my experience and I told her to try manipulation the helix to massage my prostate. After a short time I got on my knees with my chest on the mattress and my backside pointed towards her for better access. she them spent about 45 minute manipulating the helix around, in and out, to press against my prostate and provide me with a number of dry O's. I was leaking precum but did not ejaculate. After that I asked her what else she wanted to do and she told me to move up sho that she could felate me. While she was doing that she reached under and continued to manipulate the device to stimulate and massage my prostate. I ended up with a massive ejaculation and collapsed.
Afterwards we talked about the experience and I thanked her profusely for what she did… she indicated that it should be her thanking me as the feeling of power that she received knowing that she was giving me so much pleasure was amazing. It was a very deep intimate time for us.
I can't wait for the Progasm to arrive in order to test it out and see where my road to discovery will continue…