I've got some general questions that I've been wondering lately as I continue to figure out the prostate orgasm.
I feel like I've hit a bit of a dead end doing handsfree stuff. Whenever something is in my ass, I have a hard time getting turned on. I close my eyes to visualize, and sometimes watch porn, but it's hard for me to get horny if the Aneros is inside.
When I first start, usually fresh off a movie, I can keep turned on. It feels good early on – I thrust the air a little, and sometimes the tip of my penis feels tingly. But after about 10 minutes it starts to go away.
I have no clue why I can't focus and get horny, other than maybe worrying about the ensuing mess I'll have to clean up. By that I mean lube and other fecal stuff that comes out. No matter what I do (evacuating 60 minutes prior, showering), it's always a chore to clean up. I tried using a enema bulb but holy shit that thing was sharp and really hurt my ass.
Some other things I"m pondering:
1) What does it mean when you get a boner maybe 10 minutes into a session and then it goes away?
2) What does precum mean when using an Aneros? Sometimes a little dribbles out, and then other time I get these long thick strings.
4) The first and only time I ever used my wife's vibrator (with a condom on), it felt great. I remember one time I kinda rotated the head a bit, and it caused me to open my mouth, squeeze my eyes…. it felt amazing. I haven't had anything sense.
Would using a vibrator help with my Aneros handsfree journey at all?Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/3pbhyf/questions_about_boners_precum_vibrators_and/