Just got an Aneros Helix in the mail and I’m gonna give it a go. I’m trying to read up on how to use it but I’m having a hard time finding clear direction.
From what I understand, it takes a lot of practice to figure out how this stuff works. I’ll post some updates over time to try to provide info that might be useful for someone else.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/479pva/first_time_user/
I’ve been using mine off and on for a couple years. Never really tried to actually learn how to really use it, but it certainly makes sex and masturbation better (once you are used to the feel a bit more.) I started light experimenting with anal play around 6 years ago, and it’s not until now that I am really getting more serious about learning it all, as well as learning myself (it helps that I’m finally in a relationship that not only didn’t think it’s taboo, but actually encourages it instead.)
Anyway, my little rambling is all about knowing it will take some time, and that’s not a bad thing. Ever since I stopped worrying about what doing this meant about me and my sexuality, and stopped having any kind of expectations from it, I’ve really been able to enjoy it a lot more. Just enjoy the sensations and try to relax. It will all cum in time.