I think I am finally at peace with my Aneros mission and that is what it took to get positive results. You read and hear about all of the advise, ” dont expect too much, just relax, dont try to make something happen” and it all sounds so easy and also like a bunch of BS but I finally get it. and it is not something you do, it is more of an acceptance of your own personal situation and letting it happen for you. There you go another line for someone to read and say. Yea right! But for me I feel like I finally am enjoying my sessions and letting them go at their own pace and good things are starting to happen. Not sure exactly what is happening but it is much more enjoyable now. I can start out just relaxing on the bed and try a little a-less to get things going, with a little nipple stim I can have warm intermitttint pulses in my prostate. When that subsides, I can lube up and put in my Aneros, It feels great going in and I am already relaxed from the a-less and with in minutes the warm pulsing starts again. At this point the feelings are much more pleasurable and they build to what feels like might be a orgasm but hey subside after a few nice pulsing contractions. I can go on with this for about thirty minutes and things start to calm down. The thing is now i am totally acceptant of what happend and enjoy every minute and not dissapointed that the super O was not achieved. sometimes I will finish with caressing my cock untill I cum and other times I can just stop and still feel totally satisfied. I dont expect to much and I am getting alot more. looking forward to more pleasure.