Ok I know that sounds impatient and that this sort of thing doesn’t just happen overnight for most guys. I’m not looking for a shortcut to super O, but I’ve been using my helix classic about 2 times a week for months and things haven’t progressed much at all. Insertion and contractions are pleasurable, but it seems the longer it’s in the weaker things get until I don’t feel much at all. Like it’s fading instead of building. I know that super O’s can be a long journey and I’m not expecting that to just happen, but I’m not experiencing any of the “stepping stones” that a lot of people mention here either.
I’m pretty sure the classic isn’t making good contact with my prostate though. When I angle it up or push it in further it starts feeling really good again. But I can’t hold it there for very long. Do I need a different kind of toy (bigger or vibrating) or am I just being impatient?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/74fvx0/would_a_vibrating_toy_have_quicker_results/
It’s just one of those things that I think you need to play around with. Vibrations work for some folks but not for others. I have read about people getting intense orgasms from prostate vibes but I have very little luck with them.
I know that prostate toys aren’t cheap, but I think that it’s just kind of a thing where everyone is different and you need to try a few and see which ones are the best for you.
I’ve had the same issue with the Helix, so I got the Eupho and had way better experiences. Still no orgasms of any kind but it feels incredible, especially with nipple stimulation
Do not measure your experience based on the supposed stepping stones.
Vibration just does not work for what we are trying to achieve….slow steady low arousal and learning to relax is most important.