So I’ve hit my prostate with my lubed finger, it feels good and makes my regular orgasms better, but i’ve never experienced earth shattering orgasms just from the prostate alone. I was thinking about getting an aneros but I’m not sure because just having a finger in my ass on my prostate doesn’t feel amazing to me. It feels good but not amazing if that makes sense. Am I doing something wrong or does the toy make the prostate just feel so much better?
Also, I’ve heard the female g spot sometimes doesn’t feel like much, but usually once someone has one g spot orgasm they can easily achieve it again, is this how the prostate works. Also one more question, once you have a prostate orgasm does regular sex feel better?
tl;dr – I’ve stuck a finger in my ass on my prostate, it felt good but nothing close to an orgasm, am i doing something wrong? Also once you get a prostate orgasm, does it make PIV sex feel better, and is it possible to get a prostate orgasm during PIV?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/8owbd2/can_i_have_some_advice_on_prostate_orgasms/
I tend to have a great time with it. I like my Aneros. Matter of fact I am anxiously awaiting my third. I haven’t had a super O yet but I don’t feel the least bit bad. I always look forward to my next time. There is lots of personal experience posts that you can read that will numb your mind about different experiences with prostate orgasming. It’s a good time just not necessarily a wham bam and ten minutes later your having coffee and a cigarette.
Prostate massage during PIV sex is amazing.
I have a Progasm and it starts rubbing that spot when I’m thrusting and it’s just insane.
I’ve had some full body orgasms from prostate stimulation but it is not a usual expectation to have an ejaculation during prostate massage. You’re more likely to leak a copious amount of precum than anything.
The earth shattering ones are not a guarantee, but let’s just compare it to your run of the mill orgasm is driving 60mph on the highway, an Aneros tucked in is like driving 60 on the coast on a sunny day with the top down and getting a handjob at the same time when your favorite song comes on the radio.
An Aneros is going to rub your prostate in a rhythm that matches your kegel contractions, which means that if your body responds as it should, that clench response in your groin when you strain to poop/prepare to ejaculate, will happen automatically and you’ll unclench, get rubbed and then clench again and it repeats. This sensation will feel very good to you and it frees your hands and mind to focus on the rubbing and clenching.
There’s hands on demonstration videos out there worth watching so you can see this happen involuntarily and understand what it will do to you. I find it pretty hot that your body can lose control like that just based off of putting that in there.
I think the biggest advantage of using a prostate massager is that you can easily leave it in for an hour or more. I’m not distracted (on a sensory level) by how tired my finger or wrist feels. I’m not trying to hold myself in some awkward position that I’m impatient to get out of. I can just chill, and that’s important to the process.