Does anyone know how to have dry orgasms ?

When I use my helix syn, it’s easy for me to have normal wet orgasm. But I keep reading stories of people having multiple dry orgasms. I just want to know if there is a technique or something. Like, can someone explain to me in detail how they end up achieving a dry orgasm. Just so people know, I flex my pc muscles while moving my hips and I keep going faster and harder until I cum. Is there something wrong with my technique ?


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  1. This is a copy and paste from an older comment I made. It was made to address people complaining about no feelings on their first go, but the technique described is what I use to achieve some mind blowing dry orgasms.

    Ok, so let me say this: The idea that a guy can put an Aneros in and suddenly feel like God himself is sending waves of angel fingers to caress your prostate into a mind blowing orgasm where you see colors in the infrared spectrum is utterly horseshit. If you had an amazing experience the first time in, you are EXTREMELY lucky and a rare, not normal case.

    My first time with my Progasm was after years of anal play already under me belt. Felt “meh” being in there, I edged like crazy, felt small glimmers of pleasure but nothing great. Came buckets, but I had been edging all weekend at the time. The point is that it wasn’t great. It was just… Meh.

    But I stuck with it. It’s a rewiring process, not a rewiring switch that just clicks. I can put on Progasm in now and, if the mood is right, I instantly feel p-waves and spasm involuntarily. That’s after months of use, and I consider myself lucky its only taken that long.

    You have to relearn what an orgasm is, and you have to relearn how to get there. That’s not done in one session. Or two. Or twenty. It’s highly a mental game. But when you get there, it’s pleasure in its purest form. And it’s made every other sexual act more pleasurable through the learning process.

    First: stop trying to make things happen. That’s the fastest way to make things not happen. I never urposely clench or flex. I lay on my side (started on my back, side is way better) and relax. I try to imagine my butt hole relaxing, my pelvic floor relaxing, like I’m trying to piss without pushing. Just relax.

    Secondly, if you get pleasure, don’t chase it. Enjoy it. Don’t try harder to get more of it. Just enjoy it as it dances to and away from you. It’s like feeding a squirrel by hand. If he nibbles the first nut in the line to your hand, you don’t bull rush it whipping nuts at it. You wait patiently, enjoying every little step closer it takes. It’ll retreat. It’ll come back closer. And you will build an understanding. Guys traditionally think that harder and faster is better. Stop thinking like a guy and think like a woman: consistency. Steady rhythm. These will win the day. Not pushing speeds or timing.

    Finally breathe. Breathe steady. Slowly. From the stomach, not the chest. Breathe even, breathe deeply. Through the mouth, ideally. And either look at nothing, or close your eyes and focus on the feelings you are having, not what you expect to have. Not what you want to have. If you are experiencing a small amount of pleasure, thank it for its company and sit with it for a while. Don’t bemoan how it’s not enough for you. Don’t expect the next move, just enjoy the current moment.

    And don’t read guides or ‘how to’s. They full your head up with rules and techniques. Just three things: breathe. Relax. Enjoy.

    I genuinely hope this helps. The Aneros is the most powerful sexual experience in terms of raw pleasure I have ever felt. It’s been an immense sexual awakening for me. The biggest sexual influence for me in my life, and I say that with zero exaggeration. I firmly believe men of all walks can benefit from this type of pleasure and self awakening (at the risk of sounding too spiritual). I hope you succeed.

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